₦airaland Forum

Kurtis1912:
I think we are all reaching conclusions without proof. The questions to ask are

1) was he thanking the lady because he was grateful, sincerely, and not because he's a simp lol?
2) Would he have appreciated a man the same way?
3) is he having any other interest in the lady concerned asides pure gratitude, conditionless gratitude?
These are what matters I like to think

ALOL !! lets not creat distraction or derail the thread pls i think our man got the msg. money naa im sure pass back to the hustle.

Timekeeper:
Firstly I understand your point perfectly.... I am not a fan of those who thank a lady for accepting a Frnd request and I av seen many on Facebook too... I have seen so much which I consider annoying for just accepting frndship..

2ndly, I am nt a fan of any celebrities and I don't crave for a follow up..

But this one wey happen here, you can't understand... You look at it with a general view but u don't understand why I actually did that...

Honestly you can't... My last comment concerning this

Peace out

Sorry ! cos my objective is not to downgrade or insult you, you've spoken well n it takes maturity to come out like that, unbruised.
one love bro

michlins:
all these internet masculinity which stems from toxic parenting. What's wrong with appreciating a woman. So if a man decides to worship a woman, what's wrong with that.

People who respect a woman had good mothers and that robbed off on them. But you see all these misogynists,it stems from their terrible experience with their mothers so they grew up hating women and attack people who appreciate women

Your grammar tew big o, buh i wil try read, oops! masculinity is from toxic parenting, like ur father beating ur mother abi
why would a man worship a woman he can't even identify? i can still understand if a man chooses to worship is female boss, wife or mother buh a random gurl on SM on top weytin, pls get a life
If there is nothing wrong with appreciation, why is it difficult for women to show same appreciation to men, i am sure no gurl here will even thank S-eun himself for replying to her text. An appreciation peculiar to Men only is definitely not right, mothfavcka your mother only taught you how to respect women no wonder some of can't even respect una papa, if it feels so right to die for a woman, those wey don try why are they in hell ?

SHOPPERS:
Singing...

Even if I shit for my knicker, broda e no consign you eh.

Some of you can't just chook your opinions inside your nostrils sha. Wetin touch you say person say thank you bai? How e take concern you?

Maybe it won't have being a concern if i have not seen similar cases on facebook, there is nothing wrong with showing appreciation Buh over a reply/chat, that is the lowest form of esteem, [i]like you don't consider yourselve worthy of a reply [/] its not my style to put down another guy , anyways he has a choice and i am just re-orientating, i believe someone is learning. so sit down n drink lots of water

Timekeeper:
If you know how many times on this nairaland that I av viewed ur profile and laughed abt those things you wrote about yourself...


Thank you Poco

when i see guyz going on like this, i really do feel sad for them, cos i know only poverty & inexposure can reduce a man's esteem to point he thanks a lady for replying, i see it on facebook tew, what if tasha or lambo cum text you back nko
Bro frm my heart i pray God elevate & promote you, you suppose be man, naa ordinary G dey fvck almight tiwa savage wey u naa dey see faint. saying much already just focus on the prayer and i pray yu sleep 2nite

cococandy:
That’s fine. not a bad arrangement based on how our society views marital roles and who’s supposed to do what. It’s actually more than appropriate. Maybe even generous on the woman’s part.

Until these guys are really ready for 50/50 they speak of.

My post is based on an ideal situation

Since when did men become the pioneers of 50/50, is it that you don't know equality propagated by feminist is whats tantamount to 50/50.

Men are pioneers of table, in what sense of equation is, asking a woman what she brings to table = 50/50. can you show workings.

Like i always say their is no place in the world 50/50 is in existence, it is not feasible cos one party will always bear more, even life no balance .. whats ideal is contributions irrespective of %. momii go n sit down

IronGalaxy:
ofcourse there are differences between black South African women and white ones because of cultural differences, that doesn't mean I should put black women down. The same traits you mention you also find them in white women trust me, hence I say you should only talk about stuff you know. Ive dated a whitey i should know.

You've date white gurls, it shouldnt be hard to throw more lite into things they do that make them not so different from nigeria gurlz. maybe you should drop points

cococandy:
When will you people stop stalking people’s social media pages to make news out of irrelevant issues?

when "people's" stop posting their entire life on social media, we people sef we stop stalking, besides there is nothing new on news, taya of hearing billions n billions

IronGalaxy:
You put white people in a such a pedestal because you aren't exposed to them. I live in South Africa and honestly, white people aren't all that. You guys must snap out of this overhyping of white people.

In whatever pedestal you place S.A don't forget it still a black man nation ,what i know for sure is black gurlz & white gurlz aint same in r/ship.
black gurls entitlement & zig zag mindset is so gross such that you can't see those yahoo boyz date a black america woman as client or have you seen them come home to wed black america woman bad market i got to know white gurlz since d days of myspace, last december my footballer friend white fiance visited nigeria, this gurl was so down to earth that she adapted to things that a naija gurl wey just visit dubia cum back no go endure again. i can't start to mention her impact in my friends life, she is coming dis year again n we friends association are fvcking excited ... zero furming zero shakara

IronGalaxy:
Actually yes., Because what im just hearing are gross generalizations. You talk about black women as if you've dated them across the spectrum, white women you've never even being around them but you know their women are supportive, lol. It's just the usual white ass_kissing repeating itself really.

You don't want to consider i have possibly being with naija gurlz that outnumber ur age and at the same time you don't want to believe i have 1st hand experience of what a r/ship is like with a white gurl ... what exactly are you about ? if white gurls aint supportive are they liabilities/leeches?
if whites gurlz aint open minded & straightforward in person ... then tell us what only you know

IronGalaxy:
This just doesn't cut it. Do you live amongst white people?

Do i need to live among white people to know their shit color

IronGalaxy:
Lol, Jesus christ. Who says white women don't nag? Women are the same everywhere. You guys have really put white people in this non-existant standard.

Did i say white women don't nag, there is no perfect creature anywhere ... women aint the same when it comes white vs black, white gurls are more supportive & open minded. lets not even start.

Datboredberry:
You're a sex object... Hurray.

Nobody wants us...

This is the slave mentality I refer to... Why do you need validation from other races to feel good about yourself?

Black men seek it so much, that even white women thinking you're 'primitive sex beasts' is somewhat of a compliment...

I'm fine if men on a dating app rates black women low... When it comes to sex, ebony porn one of the is the most popular... And I dare you to create a black woman account... Loads of men would flock to your inbox singing your praises and how much they love 'chocolate'...

White women rated you high not as suitable romance partners... The rates of divorce amongst black men and white women is the highest... The rate between black women and white men is the lowest... White women only want you to fcck them... shame.

The difference between you and i is this- white men seeing black women as sex objects isn't an achievement to me... Or any other black women...

It's something we hate... Because of one word...: Self pride...

Take a chill pill gurl ... cool down when you talk of most sophisticate ladies is the world you must mention the kardashians ... from jennier to kylie do you know there preference is black men, if this premium ladies could have kids for black men, maybe black men are more than sex object
If the kardashians could choose black men over other race ... whats that ur name again.

ziondaughter247:
Hahahaha... See this one ooh
Chai I laugh at your black ugly ass. Black men are really the low of the low. Everywhere in the world, you would forever remain in the lowest rung of the ladder because the world has seen that you tots have no self respect. You are shameless consumers, you don't produce anything, you don't build anything. You run to another man's land like a leech that you are and add nothing to their society but crime and showing your inferiority complex. Africa is still known as the dark continent because the men are losers just like YOU! See how black men mismanaged Africa and still go over there to ruin the place. I feel sorry for you dude. You probably have never seen an airport in your life.

behind every successful man is a woman same as behind every unproductive african there is a woman nagging his brain out for wants & needs. men are more productive when they have less to worry about

franchasng:
Don't mind some of the senseless boys saying Nigerian ladies are broke or leeches.

I married a wonderful Nigerian lady, I had the option of marrying white or foreigners but I couldn't because I cherish my culture and know I can't handle some of the challenges that comes with interracial marriage, so I canceled anything foreign wifey.


My wife is well trained by her parents, without me, she can live a financially fulfilling life devoid of any form of financial lack. It's appalling how guys here overblow this issue of Naija ladies being bad, yes there are bad girls in Nigeria likewise in other countries, doesn't mean all Nigerian ladies are bad or leeches like guys paint it.


I still see and know a lot of productive Nigerian single ladies who are professinals in their field earning good income and those doing well in business too, sometimes I wonder where guys meet all these horrible ladies they talk about here cos in as much as we have a lot of materialistic ladies who live off men's income, I know a lot of single ladies who are more financially buoyant than lots of guys.



So pls stop taking their bashing here to heart, sometimes they do it for fun because at the end, they will still end up dating and marrying Nigerian ladies Or did you forget that their sisters and nieces and cousins are also Nigerian ladies?


My only advice to guys is to develop yourself financially and pray for God's grace. Because the level of your financial stability will most times determine the kind of ladies you will be meeting for dates or relationship that will lead to marriage.



Guys the first thing to do as a man is to build yourself financially then you will attract your desired woman, be it white or black or Indian or Arab, if not you will keep meeting leeches and ladies below your desire

How about you put women like ur wife into percentage

Oops !! looks like someone didnt pick an ancestor this time .. aunty pocohantas won't save this one on her hard drive,the white lady looks like her age mate

Naija gurlz should be grateful naa we be their only hope wen be say dem go dey order tissue to wrap meat + take away on 1st date

pocohantas:
The topic is not who is MOST DESPERATE.

The topic is men are also “DESPERATE” for marriage.

Can you in your divine wisdom comment on the TOPIC this time before you are at the risk of death?

Thank you.

Aunty wey whats the difference between MOST desperate and "SO" desperate highlighting the context its being used.
Men are so desperate to marry buh naa women dey full singles program in churches, shiloh is around the corners plus someone's mom is alway going to represent her moomoo daughter.




i heard tiwa savage will be ministering somebody ! somebody, somebody son go luv me one day, in worship mode

pocohantas:
I wonder o. Na by force to build duplex?
Something that when they are old, they will start complaining of pains while climbing stairs.

I am beginning to think ur worry & sinister interest in old men is genuine, if not that i av to prove i luv my mom nii, shebi i for just arrange gift for my old man boya ko tun click

Bukasint:
My sister even me too...of recent I stopped wearing pants. It's has no need, makes me uncomfortable and the whites hardly wear it here too.

Woman wey dey find fruit of the womb no wear pant 24/7. my sista burn it all and recieve twins today

DrFunmisticGlow:
Men who rest on their lover's breasts are better decision makers, and perform better in bed

Now we know why buhari is alway making lame decisions.

Mrxawe:
I mean. You have this friend who constantly calls you to use your room that he's bringing a girl.. I mean house you pay rent for o , for your own comfort o.. you go vacate for am coz he wan bring woman.. and because na your guy, you go allow am .. ontop your matress o.. matress wey you dey sleep ontop make another person use am dey fvck woman...


Gross man

stop sounding like its by force, if it is such a big deal to you then kindly refuse him, tbh if i am living in a one room it will be a big deal ... can't be philandering about just because my nigga wants to Bleep.

Kokaine:
You're bragging. You have been meeting local girls obviously. There are women with class that won't even look at you or consider your request. Be humble. Stop thinking all girls are like the ones you find around you. There are women making big moves. You can't stand close to them. They will over shadow you

Forget that thing, ko sii kekere okunrin (no small man naa poor man dey) ... the guy wey fvck tiwa savage is he even up to her in age, wealth and fame.
Their is no gurl tew big, depends on OT & esteem, acquaintance is what some guyz just need, she go don spread leg like lekki toll gate b4 she remember her papa name naa otedola. fear some guyz

pocohantas:
No o, I need answers. I thought we all agreed women should stop playing victim that sex is enjoyed and beneficial to both parties. When did it suddenly become something that DEGRADES the woman?

If sex is not degrading to a woman, why is kpokpori threaten tonto & jemeema with sextape that involves his own preek, despite fishing out the guy that fvcked tiwa savage why is tiwa the only one bearing the brunt.
Naa fvck aunty linda fvck, today she has lost her relevance to mentor her fans
why do men inflate their bodycount and women feel dey must reduce there bodycounts to two, why alway two sef
If sex is not degrading to the woman, tega & boma had cold sex .. who is getting more fired shots. you're just an overhype

cococandy:
You can date without sex.
Many of you don’t even know the meaning of dating.

it denote possibility not a certainty, remember its a woke world, a lot can happen in one night depends on where your partner stands ... you know d meaning of dating we know dating has been revised boya ko nii nice day

pocohantas:
To born woman is scary because of what she would do with her vagina that doesn’t affect you except for the fact that you lots are obsessed with our vaginas.

But you are not scared of having a son that could be a cultist, rapist, kidnapper, armed robber, bandit, terrorist, ritualist, drug trafficker, etc. Those ones don’t scare you guys because you people have normalized making the whole world inhabitable for everyone. Na toto be una problem.
Pray tell me one thing women have done that men haven’t done 1m more? Train those sons you are not scared of having to be responsible, because if any of them messes with my own daughter, you would bury a child.

Are you saying supposedly someone post your mom sextape with oga mechanic online, what she did with her pvssy won't affect you as a family bah. t
As a female child you sleep around sotey you no know whu even knack you belle definitely not sugary papito .... carrying a bastard won't affect ur family bah cos it your punna.

One thing women have done a million times that men can never do one is PATERNITY FRAUD another thing female child do conveniently that even bouncers can't dare is women can stand on the highway 1am looking for lift beko how una dey do am, no fear

pocohantas:
Very true. That is why we read many sob stories in Romance section.

Her vagina would degrade when she has two bfs, but it won’t degrade when one jobless 400L boy is knacking it twice everyday and four times on Saturday. Oshey! Totometer.

aunti wey moomoo if you have a point you won't even need brokeshaming to justify anything, maybe someday you should just step outside NL, even women degrade how much punna managed by multiple users.
women are end products, use your car alone for one yr and try share same car with friends for another year... go figure.

Divoc19:
I wish they will understand that 'Dating' does not mean furcking.
In my days we use to have platonic relationships/dating with more than one guy.

LOL !! you live next door to me, you owe me furck how much more dating, things are a lot different now, woke age