₦airaland Forum

AmazonTopaz:
You are not making any sense next time counter my points with something sensible.Where in my post did I in anyway point out to selective equality I chose to counter his post the way I saw fit or did feminism say equality should be selective?

The topic was about feminist insubordination & there selectiveness which is why someone suggested, they should avoid marriage.
Your submission was incoherent, there was nothing to counter cos you made no relevant point.

AmazonTopaz:
LMAO,how does this negate the movement,when women were marching for suffrage rights some women fought against it same way some blacks were still in support of slavery and supported their own masters against their own liberation it happens everywhere and in every movement and ideology it makes no sense actually and takes nothing away from the goals and achievements of feminism.

the instance you gave doesnt add up, its man vs feminist not feminist vs ideal woman. Equality shouldnt be selective thats the bone of contention.

Hathor5:
Dumbass.

just like i imagined, now describe ur font side

Odewaleadesoye:
Guys! Is it a good thing to abandon one's career for Big Brother Naija?

she did not abandon her career, more like she defer, it is reasonable she can alway pickup from where she stopped n the brighter side as alway being killing two birds with one stone, whu doesnt want that

ademidedavid:
Marital situation is so funny, yes so funny........the yorubas will say enikan lomo.

We become so inexperienced when we find ourselves inbetween the devil and the deep blue sea

all the same....i appreciate bro

Yeah ! marriage is an instutition where nobody graduate, literally people learn for the rest of there lives.
having guage your maturity i think its best you integrate "control", you're married for 10yrs what can i possibly know buh please don't go asking her jamb questions, esp. those " WHY kind of questions" if you must talk to her about these make it rhetorical



women hate jamb questions !

crackhaus:
If after 10years of marriage and 3 kids, my wife tells me she hates me and regrets marrying me, I will just start laughing...

Like you get bro, its funny .... topics i read from males on NL romance section sometimes make me doubt if saying there are few real men is not an overstatement.
on another thread one is even asking if he is responsible for a 3month old pregnancy when the r/ship is barely 2months .... is it that people can no longer think n sort themselves or is intuition going extinct

MejiLoyon:
90% of those commenting haven't stepped out their state not to speak of Nigeria. Ever heard of Jamaicans and their crimes? Or Mexicans. Or Puerto Ricans?. Every other country are neck deep into crimes than Nigerians. But when one commits the useless blogs and media houses takes the case and blows it into proportions. All for the sake of fame and popularity. I've been to countries and when they hear I'm from Nigeria the excitement cannot be hidden. They love us. Despite our wahala. We are brilliant and very hard working. Give a fraudster a job and see how he will do it diligently. We are the best everywhere. We are not even among the top ten criminals in the states yet they blow it out of proportion because we are Nigerians.
The problem is the criminals yes we know.
The problem is also the government
The problem is majorly the media
The problem is the op.
If we give a dog a bad name it will live up to the name.

PS. Someone overseas mailed this thread to me. Me wey dey dey nairaland steady I no see the thread na oyinbo send am give me. It means they are watching as we embarass ourselves.

Nigerians are more of zombies it fvcking rare to see your likes that think outside the box.
The only places nigerians are maltreated nd shown hate is in embassies on nigeria soil not even abroad. @the last world cup didnt we see more of white/foreigners identifying with our national jersey

@ademidedavid, wow you've being married for ten years nd you still take the words of a nagging wife to heart ..ALOL ! bro haba naw you should know women better by now there is nothing they can't say when angry, a man must learn to take there words with pinch of salt.
Naturally, women are secretive when it comes to expressing there true feelings hence why i see them as sarcastic being, there is no way to know if a woman loves you or not other than her commitment. Bro i am even surprise you're just hearing 'i hate you" after 10yrs your wife must have being very discipline TBH its nothings let her moves count

pocohantas:
Hihihihihi

Life after death is something I have never given much thought to. Be it in heaven or hell. I even shudder at the thought of singing hosanna in heaven, something I didn’t do while on earth.

I am very okay with living life without any form of spirituality or after-life expectations. Eating, sleeping and fuckin this fine man. Love those who love me and be totally indifferent to the existence of those who hate me. When it is time to die, I die peacefully.

I would be shocked to see myself in heaven too…not because I am a bad person, but because I would rather be decomposing in my grave.

i don know say these one go change the narrative, everything must be subjectively about her, whats the correlation bayii.

back to the topic i don't expect to see maami igbagbo, uglygalz, pocohantas or ishilove in heaven.

Kingsean:
your last sentence really makes sense. I like that. it's the reality right now. most of these ladies are retired runz gals but it's not a problem to me if she's really open to me and tells me everything. that shows she's willing to change unlike those ones who hide under the cover of religion

feel you bro ... where i no talk reach sef you don get am like say you dey my mind

Kingsean:
but when it's time to settle down, it becomes the opposite of fun. imagine your wife can't have sex without taking alcohol. is that not a problem? once any man notices that alcohol is her weak spot, e don finish be that

You have good point, hence if its an addiction or psychological problem then its bad, buh my angle remains some just do it for d fun of it however @ different stages of our lives people make a compromise that would compliment there status.
you see many guyz today are married to one time olosho buh don't even know it cos these ladies dropped certain lifestyle.

Kingsean:
someone did this to them... it started from somewhere.

you get ! buh its fun sha esp. when yu want an experience beyond normal level

Patrioticbreed9:
Boobs is life bro

hmm ! kaa ré boobsfc as for me i'm inbetween tits & ass. i just feel ass makes the world go round, boobs is life tho

Patrioticbreed9:
True talk bro .

Especialy ladies with apple bwest, to every suck section i make sure i breath like 30second before i continue sucking to aviod choking hazard .

You can imagine that akward moment when you suck breast finish con come outside and people come dey ask you weda you smoke shisha under hot sun because your eyes dey shine RED .

are you from fulani clan e be like say yu wan discover milk well bro no go suck person daughter heart out o, to avoid story that touch i hereby recommend straw for you.

Austine567:
must she drink ?

My advice to you is to loosen up, cos the more you let it appears it bugs you the more it kills her drive ... you loosing up will help her loosen up beta.
there are some gurls before dey come around i must buy sk n have drinks in my fridge ... naa d lifestyle imagine such gurls now dating you ... na dulling naw

Kingsean:
let me tell you the truth... she was never a virgin. the person who took her virginity introduced her to alcohol so now she can't do without it. I've seen this before. carry out your investigations

there some gurls that like to weed n drink b4 sex naa d ginger be dat ... esp. dem olosho. didnt we see chindima doing rohypnol n alcohol, most times its more of lifestyle

pocohantas:
You are right, it is either she is not sexually attracted to you or she is trying to blur a previous sex experience (maybe rape).

The most important thing is, having sex with you is torture to her.

shouldnt the most important thing be progress, if they could move from no intimacy to having sex i think its only a matter of time before she stop inducing herself with alcohol.
@ your age yu're stil unfamiliar with W.I.P, the question is can you allow someone torture you abi anti is into fetish nii

Lexusgs430:
This yeye woman, wants to deprive us of our chunky nipples diet ........

Divorce go plenty o ....... Our ladies are not complaining, they even guide our heads, towards the target ............

ALOL, the way these women rubb our heads when sucking depicts the feeling is mutual. some ladies wil even use both hands to press ur head to it ... bitch i can't breath

Toks2008:
Very disgusting...it only tastes nice in the mouth of babies which is why it is meant for them alone.

i won't say disgusting rather i think its more of a taste board ish, we've outgrown it.
Funnily no matter how many times you taste breast milk, the brain refuses to store it so difficult to describe

myfantasies:
This information is not for me.

Me that my breast is my weak point.

kemi is that you

mariahAngel:
This is cool.

Depending on how the person inspires what you’re feeling at that very moment.
Unpredictably romantic, and romantically unpredictable.

like say everything no be Lori iro .... money for hand back for ground is the future.

MufasaLion:
My point is that no woman is ready to stay with any broke was man except the nigga is focused and hardworking too. However, even if a lady wants to stay with a broke ass dude, there are many things that's gonna distract her (peer pressure, needs, etc) except she's very upright and determind to be faithful to her man which is very rare.

Bro all these talks ehn naa the usual prep talk until you cross to the other side then you realize its all bullshit.
These assertions is why we have so many broken homes today, a man should make money n invest handsomely in himself ... make acquisitions buh let the value be in you that is how to lock a woman down
for instances, look @ omotola how do you think mr captain was able to lock her down ... ofcus there 100s of men that will offer her riches more than her husband can afford.
some guyz without flashin there car keys or iphone can't even approach a lady .. cos dey feel empty. we need to balance tinz up

MufasaLion:
You still don't understand it. The point is that being financially independent is very important especially for people that are in a relationship. Surely, there are ladies that ain't materialistic, but still a man must sometimes make her woman happy with gifts, cash etc. How do you expect someone that's still struggling to make ends meet to do all that? Nobody likes sufferness especially women because they have toms of suitors and their ladies' threshold for I'll stick with you through thick and thin stage varies. So it's ideal for man to go fsce his hustle, make money and while at that you gonna be confident to choose any woman you want instead of struggling for money and still be having heartache due a lady.

i am not sorry to burst your bubble, these ur mentality will only earn you pussies upon pussies not commitment, that is if they no stab yu carry ur atm n car run
The moment you make that millions n you are living like a king it bcum almost impossible to find a woman that will love you for you, that is reality most big boiz wake up to after being successful.


its good you av money for yourself not because of a woman ofcus she will share in it. as you dey hustle find one bitch wey fit stand ur broke state, so when the money cums yu build an empire on commitment

Congrat bro, perfect opportunity to make a beta choice. waste no time brooding over a liability except she is an asset

i was dating this woke beauty way back '10 she is a student in osun state university we've bin dating over a year, decided to give her a suprise visit travelled down got to her place late i didnt call, that nite i saw what i wasnt supposed to see, right there i broke up with her, it was midnite already don't no where to go so her bestie suggested taking me to an hotel, after lodging i asked her to stay back cos it was tew late to go drop her, she saw reasons n stayed ... in short i fvcked her that nite n some other times.

the 2nd experience, after we broke up i fvcked my ex room mate, she is quiet older than me. Lord have mercy

folake4u:
Na wa oh.
God when .

you beta don't brood over someone elses fake life, its bin over 5yrs aunty as bin shouting sucre papito, door bell we no hear not to talk of pre shoot.

welcum to the social media world.

Magnoliaa:
[color=olive]Yes, na. Of course why not?? Guys I approach well and slap with boobs and they fall down at my feet, their legs already spread 180° wide for me. Too bad none of them know I have no intention of husbanding them. I can't put a man I've tasted his thing in my house. God forbid. What value does he want to give our kids? Once I'm done with them, I dump them.[/color]

stop deceiving yourself the feelings was mutual. these days smart men allow women do the breakup whereas we don move on since gala becum #50. #zerodrama

Ishilove:
Jesus, where do men meet these kinds of women??

whats makes you think the kinds of women on nairaland are exemption ... have you seen fountainofyouth on other thread, may she never find akara bomb

pocohantas:
Where so people find the mind to kill a fellow human being? Because of Benz?

Yiimu ! like say if her landlord loose guard him no go join his ancestors