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kulyie: Thinking that a man should love you or will love you because you had s3x with him is like thinking that basket can hold water because some look like bucket.if its about the time or body you gave him that is paining you,o well,i dont know about that but if you want to have s3x with those... Have s3x because you are hurni with no emotions or attachment to it not because of anything outside that otherwise you will come and lament about the same story line of how you gave a man your heart,soul body and whatever and then he broke it

if you think s3x will make a man love you,you are so on a long thing because from what i have noticed men dont really have s3x because they love the person they are having s3x with but because they are huni if not why would a married man or single man have s3x with prostitutes. All this i gave him my heart is tales by moonlight.

Stop putting too much expectation on those.... They are full of sh1ts,when you dont put too much expectation on them or you dont expect too much from them,you wont be disappointed or suprised.ishh

didn't say that I gave him sex cos I wanted him to love me....all I said was, I gave him all I could give him because I loved him and wanted to make him happy

larride: OP, I can relate to this very well, the same thing happened to me in my last relationship, poo happens, life continues, its going to hurt but you gotta move on, life ain't a bed of roses. I learnt my lesson, toughen up and became a better person off it. Don't forget that no one is worth closing your heart for. Don't allow the pains, betrayals, injuries and heartbreak of yesterday keeps you from opening your heart to the love, joy, happiness and pleasure that tomorrow have to offer, when you finally find the RIGHT MAN it will be worth all the pains.

thanks so much, will take your advice into heart

ednut1: ur bible nd parents warned u about sex nd men. u refuse to listen . u got wat u deserved o. in a players mind u have d option to say no. bt u didnt. nxt time dont be easily fuked hehehe

you don't have to be harsh....it is just a question that needed few opinions(positive ones)

lomaxx: [b] 1) I'm yet to understand the one reason why guys are ALWAYS blamed when a relationship falls apart. In answering your first question, I can't speak for other guys...it's a personal thing .

But for me, I'm naturally not bothered by things. So a breakup from a relationship or any other pleasurable stuff hardly gets to me. It doesn't mean I'm heartless. I don't see the logic in nursing a past.

2) If you're going to live the rest of your life thinking that things work out well because we make the best choices , then you have a long way to go.

Life is more complex than hoping for the best because you've done the best. Shit is really gonna happen. Plenty shit would happen.

I'm not the best person to tell anyone if giving their partner everything was wrong. People are different. He may have been making sacrifices for you too. Who knows? And wasn't it a relationship? He didn't give you his time, body, seme.n, money, heart, comfort, jokes....etc while it lasted?

3) It's your choice. Whether you love or not does no one any favour. It won't add one more dollar to the man on the street who cannot afford his daily bread. It won't increase or decrease the GDP of the Nigerian economy. It won't improve the prognosis in drug-resistant tuberculosis.

So don't sweat it. Do what you want. It's a free world. [/b]

thanks

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