₦airaland Forum

eezomatic:
Even if they will reduce the pump price....it won't go beyond 120...awon oloshi

Atleast not 145... The price difference is just too high

90-120 is not bad for a start

I love this lady.... Ma'am is just so simple and very pretty

Happy Birthday ma'am

airex:
woe betides the person that gave u access to the net. It's an insult to technology

Ok.... I've read your post

airex:
I am not a Buhari fan but u know nothing about economy!

I know nothing about economy but I bet I know more than you do.....

BrainnewsNg:
When last did you pray for Nigeria?

Just now dearie....

Op add this




15) the rate of unemployment has increased

The economy is in a bad state even with all this so called changes claimed to be made

Change is a gradual process... Why try to build Nigeria in a day? China, America, Great Britain, Rome etc were not built in a day.. You can't kill two birds with a stone, Mr President rushing things will only crash the economy

Tackle a problem at a time....

Hmmmm.......i wouldn't mind doing same day, it's just the stress and I bet it won't be organised

lovat:
I recall growing up in the 80s and thee was this nurse inmy ccompound that calls me her husband. I was in Pry 2 then.

One day i was alone with her in her room when she drew me close remove my panties and started handling my penis.


I didn't understand my body reaction then but she told me not to tell anyone and i found myself having nightmare about it.


My parents never knew till today and that assault on my innocence left a dent on my psychology forever.



Parents need to moniter their wards very well and make sure that all this nonsense my husband or wife by adults on their kids are repudiated

Never knew we had female pedophiles and molestation on male children is real

hrykanu231:
I grew up in a compound with many tenants(a glorified face me I face u), and there was this Aunty whom my mum trusted and always kept me in her care while she went for her NCE program.
On more than three occasions she wil ask me to sit on her back, then she will turn gradually until I will be sitting on her tummy. She's gonna gently guide me down to her "stuff" and then she will say "use Ur fingers to scratch me there"
The process continued and it became worse, when my mum innocently asked her to please ensure I take my bath properly.
Today she's a big woman in the bank..Aunty come try me now na

It seems You enjoyed the act.... Cos I would not wish for what happened to repeat itself

20bc:
[color=teal] kind of both.... I was put in a tight corner.....[/color]

Hmmm... How can you be a victim and also a culprit?

20bc:
[color=teal]Hmmmm... Those days I did a lot of sh!t.....smh [/color]

Victim or culprit?

Hannysmilez:
Hmmm... The night before my sister's Kamu,I went with her friends to the tailor,their clothes needed repairs. I was used to the tailor,so I was jumping around the shop. The power supply went off and the girls went out for fresh air. I was still there with scissors and bits of wrappers trying to make a dress when he told me to come so he could teach me. I happily jumped on his legs. He was wearing shorts and I started to feel something cold,I was scrambling to get down but he held me tightly in place,he was really trying to bring out his male organ,before then,my sisters have given me the 'Bird nd Bees' talk so I had an idea. He was taking his hand under my Hijab when I kicked him and scurried out.
The girls were trying to ask what happened and he was like "Haha,you don't want to learn how to sow again",I told my sister but made her promise not to tell anyone or do anything.

When ever people talk about child molestation I always shed tears cos I know that feeling and especially when the culprit succeeds in the act...

mysticgal:
I don't think a person like me would let go

There are some memories we need to let go...

VampireeM:
@redgem, I couldnt even talk about my experience till I was in my teens and had to confide in our househelp then who was my first confidante in this life... Couldnt even tell my parents..

I can still remember his name "Ethelbert" and I was 7yrs old.. I cant picture his face again cause he has not come back to my house or any family function till date... he taught me how to read igbo language.. can remember him asking me to sit on him while he taught me, can still remember that afternoon in his room, with green bulb on and him lying down on the bed and covering my small hand with his dick.. that was my first time of seeing dick and touching it... Running out of the room to one of our balconys and sitting quietly... sometimes I think its one of the things that affected my sexuality decisions...

Hmmm... You really had an experience

I can't imagine knowing how a dick looked like as a kid

demzylahot:
we were playing hide and seek,when two of us found ourselves on the bed,I was in primary 3 while she was in js1,she was tapping her leg on my bum bum when my john thomas responded..Na so she come take lead,drag me put for dark corridor undressed me and did same to herself..
Na dat day I see pc hairs,the thing was overgrown and wild..as she wan force my JT into her PC na so other hide and seek gamers come in...we had to run in different directions

Lol... Very funny

firstking01:
Op, he who fights and runs away lives to fight another day, shey you know?

So, what are you trying to say?

falconey:
Lucky you , i wish that was me.


Op didn't have any i was fvcking ugly!!!!

To your story,what you ran for then , you want it now. Irony of life.

Yeah I ran away cos I was still a child

I can't really remember my age then but I was between 10 and 11, my dad's friend and course mate came to see but dad wasn't around...he called dad and he was told to wait a little that he was on his way home so, he decided to wait for him..

He called me and was telling me how big and beautiful I've grown up to be, that he remembered when he do carry me and said I should sit on his lap..


As innocent I was then and naive, I sat on his lap cos I didn't want to disobey him and never knew his intentions..


At that age, a child should know one or two about sexual advance... Mum told me about it so, I knew little about the act

He started caressing my back, used one hand to touch my tiny boobs (haven't started developing sha) and the other was going directly beneath my skirt. I remembered what momsi said so, I just ran out..

Told no one about the incident though cos I was scared and didn't know what to say

MissCheesom:
I'm not sure I can do that...

That's called pride and we ladies display dat a lot. All good though

MissCheesom:
We had a chat......

Call him and ask to meet him

aforti:
A child can never think of getting married when he is still enjoying the attention of everyone around. Yes he is 38 but he is just a big child. Don't expect anything responsible from him. Besides marriage is a choice, age should not be a criteria for marriage. He is not ready for it and he has the right not to be ready for it even if he is 50yr.

You made a good point but her earlier post said he talked about marriage to her. Why talk about it when you are not ready? Giving the lady hope

PresVA:
Must he be in support of her decision? ? What other red flag does she need before she calls off the relationship? Or you want the man to engage her before she calls it off?
That's how it starts, she'll be encouraged to endure, before you know it they're married and OP comes here crying. ..

The signs are so glaring...

I'm even suspecting he's married, all these calling off appointments and hiding calls are huge pointers. ..

The decision is hers anyway, no be me go live with the man...

I'm saying she shouldn't just end the relationship because he cancelled their appointments or refused to pick some certain calls

There should be a reason for everything, we should not jump into conclusion

MissCheesom:
He actually said nothing about d breakup was just beating around the bush

That means, he hasn't really accepted the breakup...

Did you meet him to tell him or you just sent a message like how girls do?

Note: you don't breakup through chats or messages, that is a sign of Cowardice. If you really want to break up with him, set up a meeting and tell him, in that way you can really deduce something from his reaction

MissCheesom:
I've ended the relationship already

Hmmmmm, was he in support of your decision I. E did he say anything after you told him about the breakup?

MissCheesom:
I've ended the relationship

That was a bad move sis.. How long have you both been dating? I know men can be annoyingly stupid most times but there is what we call endurance, give him time and watch him closely before you make a decision.. Because right now, you will be among the list of women who were at fault.

Play the fool for now..

What should be the prayer point?

Shikutezukurin


But this doesn't sound like Japanese

naijababe:
Think about what you really want first. If you are still keen on the relationship, by all means do so. If not, then let that mistake be your goodbye.

Ehmmm OK.... Finally we've settled... He apologized and said he said nothing earlier cos he didn't want to say or do something he would regret and wanted to give me time to cool off.... I apologized also and yep, we cool....