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RomanceRe: Guys, What About A Lady Attract You? by RedPanthar: 7:28pm On Dec 10, 2020
Jodha:
It's a coincidence...males follow me more and I follow back... what's wrong with that?
Na head o. You try Jodha
RomanceRe: Guys, What About A Lady Attract You? by RedPanthar: 7:24pm On Dec 10, 2020
Jodha:
They're plenty out there...yhu just have to search carefully...
It is well. You get man head oh. You following 160 males
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar: 6:33pm On Dec 10, 2020
binary007:
What you ladies do not know is that men hurt too and they hurt a lot.

Exactly a year ago , Dec 10 I fainted at work and was rushed to Lagoon hospital,ikoyi.
My girlfriend was in unilag.
My colleague called her from my phone and then my parents.
My Dad got to the hospital at 7pm
My younger sister came the following day at 9am.
Babe called the whole day that she wanted to do something in school that she would come around in the evening. I said okay.
Evening reach.. she sent message that she was too tired that she would come tomorrow.

Omo ! Today is Day 366 and I'm still ghosting her.
Woow . Bro you dodged a nuclear warhead shocked shocked shocked
CultureRe: What Does Kpeku Mean Not Kpekus But Kpeku by RedPanthar: 6:23pm On Dec 10, 2020
Means cash. Plenty of it. Na our slang for egbeda
BusinessRe: What Type Of Business Can I Start With ₦4M by RedPanthar: 6:10pm On Dec 10, 2020
If he sees you have a stable business plan in paper with due sustainability and detailed report he'll take you serious. Have a business consultant draw up business plans that outlines detailed operational concept for you


If you hire me, I'll draw up detailed business plan for a profitable business and you'll be glad we met. We can be assured of using just 3 Million and achieving 50% per annum
TravelRe: Gunmen Kill 16 Travellers On Abuja-kaduna Highway by RedPanthar: 5:14pm On Dec 10, 2020
" Accept the martyrdom " angry angry angry. . Where they offered the opportunity to choose to live or die?

The lives of cows has become more important than human lives under the leader " vegetable cow " angry angry angry

The vegetable cow has by his emphatic stance towards criminal destruction of human lives given express permission for miscreant cows like " itself " to gleefully waste lives, kidnap, destroy and damage

Taking human lives is now turning into an activity that some devilish elements derive joy in.

Now the problem is these elements now find joy in taking human lives which is the problem. " the killer-joy psyche "


" Cows " angry angry angry
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar: 4:44pm On Dec 10, 2020
IdreamOfUnicorn:
You dodged a bullet
Paranoia. The guy hasn't even done one thing bad o. All these advices sha


He's hurting and just need time that's all.
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar: 2:28pm On Dec 10, 2020
Shortyy:
LMFAOoooooo you dunno nothing about the man you fell in love with.

Sis, sorry to burst your bubbles but that nigga is either married or in a serious relationship.

Focus on your life you're still too young to let anything with third leg distract you.

Don't give yourself wholely to anybody. That's the mistake we women make all the time.
You too get sense angry

Don't give yourself wholely to anybody. That's the mistake we women make all the time.
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar: 1:55pm On Dec 10, 2020
hashtagged:
Why do ladies send nudes when you know it can be used against you
Advice a lady in love at your peril.
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar:
When he overcomes the hurt, he would contact you. Go and be patient. He'll reconnect.

He's hurting. Let him process his emotions. And when he reaches the place of thought that he wants to be with you inspite of what happened, he will establish contact.
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar: 12:27pm On Dec 10, 2020
LucyB24:
@redpanthar

I can't pay him surprise visits because I don't know exactly where he stays. I've never visited him before. He lives in Lagos and I live in Abuja. All I know is that he stays somewhere in Lekki.

He isn't responding to any of my calls and texts.

I tried telling my boss that I had an engagement on Saturday but he refused because I had already taken two days off a week before due to ill health, and the project required my specialty. No one else at the office had skill set to handle the project like I could and there was a deadline.
Do you love your life?


Ladies when you're in love you don't think straight. If you were related to me, I would be tempted to slap you. Honestly.


Why are you involved with a human being you can't trace to a place Jehovah God. Please. Make sure when he re establishes contact you tell him you would like to be creating pleasant surprise to make up for the wrong and use the opportunity to get his address



2. After you do, tell him the silence and hiatus made you worried you want to atleast know one or two of his friends or associates who can mediate between you two to appease him when things go awry. This is an opportunity to buy yourself more leverage




I may be wrong but it's not completely safe dating under this circumstances without anything to. Hold
RomanceRe: I Love Him So Much But I'm Afraid I've Lost Him. by RedPanthar:
The work end is where the first fixing should begin. Do this, and you will come back to testify :

1. Buy a ring and place it on your engagement finger. Make sure you only wear it where your boss would see it and watch your boss's reaction. You've been too germane and bland that you don't see your work callous during the weekend are specifically designed so you don't cultivate a relationship. I swear my hat on it you'll come back and say I said. So. Wear a ring and ensure your boss sees you flaunting it more than a few times.


2. Even when there's a heavy workload start asking for weekend breaks ahead before you'll be asked to work and again watch your bones reaction. The goal is to buy yourself space. As you play these games watch your boss's reactions




3. Pick your boss's calls less faster, less frequently. It's a masterstroke game to steal your availability from him and disorientation him from always assuming you're his go-go person he can summon whenever he pleases. All of thus is to stir things nd shake things up at the work end albeit subtly





4. Buy new clothes even if it's just two and try to put them on weekend or Fridays. Thus is to make them assume at work that whenever it's weekend they're disrupting your dates to force them psychologically to not call you upon demand. Make sure it's clothes they don't seem to see you frequently wear. Wear these and make sure you're gorgeous on weekend. The dressing that will make them ask why are you this elegant. Reply them on such occasions you were out on a date but since work demands were up you had to call it shut. Guilt trip their brains out and control the narrative at work



Now for the guy :

5. Love thrives in an atmosphere where there's a mutual resistant to beat. Now, paint the narrative to your guy that your boss seems to be against you both, and that's why he wants you occupied weekend and that you both would suffer. By making " the perception of your boss as the enemy ", you created a villain that makes the masculine willpower to fight in your guy rises up. Guess what else you'll get in advance, emotional support against when such arises again. Now, use this advantage to pull put his emotions and psyche to pull him out. When thus is done, you both have a common enemy or vision or objective and you can both use this to your advantage to bond and all. Be smart.




6. Force breaks at work


7. Pay him surprise visits


8. Be more frequent with video calls

9. Plan your meetings for Sundays. Relationships without physical contact will not stand the test of time


10. As a man he should do the visiting first especially at this beginning stage



Give him space and reach out to him. Relationships don't just end that fastly. No, it doesn't


He's hurting. Let him process his emotions. And when he reaches the place of thought that he wants to be with you inspite of what happened, he will establish contact.

You'll be fine
RomanceRe: Guys, What About A Lady Attract You? by RedPanthar: 11:24am On Dec 10, 2020
Jodha:
If I was a guy.... I'll be attracted to a tall lady with ass...either dark or fair....she should be really smart... simple and well behaved.... that's the kind of lady I'll want for my brothers...

For the guys
..
I'll want a tall dark guy with cute smile....and attractive lips... He should be humble...God fearing..a man of little words... straight forward etc
And where does one find this kind of ladies
CultureRe: Post taken done by RedPanthar: 10:47am On Dec 10, 2020
Round it up, the beginning of the text was fantastic, the concluding part wasn't so good.
Foreign AffairsRe: The Hypocricy Of Some States In Northern Nigeria by RedPanthar: 10:22am On Dec 10, 2020
LoveThemChubby:
Why do some of the northern states destroy alcohol and prohibit it sales but turn around to share the revenue from such businesses
Abi. They should reject the revenues from alcohol sales then
PoliticsRe: APC Train Compare To PDP Train After 16 Years In Power by RedPanthar: 3:53am On Dec 10, 2020
ALTERNATEID:
As usual!
When you don't learn. Illiterates
PoliticsRe: APC Train Compare To PDP Train After 16 Years In Power by RedPanthar: 9:59pm On Dec 09, 2020
These projects were all initiated and executed by PDP. Olodo
RomanceRe: Ladies What's Your Choice by RedPanthar: 9:20pm On Dec 09, 2020
Thattallgirl:
You waka pass ni cheesy
tongue
RomanceRe: Ladies What's Your Choice by RedPanthar: 6:54pm On Dec 09, 2020
Thattallgirl:
As long as I like you, I almost don't care about your stature as a guy. Sha don't be skinny like me. Two skinny people isnor nice cheesy and don't be fat too...I don't wanna get crushed embarassed
What do we do na since I'm as skinny as you tongue
RomanceRe: How Do I Build Up My Life Again? by RedPanthar: 6:25pm On Dec 09, 2020
Okay
TravelRe: Onlookers Snap Photos As Accident Victim Struggles To Crawl Out From Summersault by RedPanthar: 5:14pm On Dec 09, 2020
Lalasticlala

Dominique
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Addresses Agege Residents On Pen-Cinema Fly-Over (video) by RedPanthar: 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
Shiooor. EndSARS
PoliticsRe: PDP Ebonyi Chapter Reacts To The Sustained Sponsored Acts Of Intolerance by RedPanthar: 4:49pm On Dec 09, 2020
Umahi's in the market running lipsrsealed
Christianity EtcRe: A Team Heading To Hell By Femi Oyewale by RedPanthar: 11:11am On Dec 09, 2020
Wahala na bicycle tongue
RomanceRe: The Reason Why Ladies Want To Marry "A God Fearing Man" [PICS] by RedPanthar: 10:45am On Dec 09, 2020
Lol. Werey eat her cake and have a bigger one
HealthRe: Nigerian Woman Poses With Sanitary Pad To Celebrate Her Last Menstrual Period by RedPanthar: 10:24am On Dec 09, 2020
Smh
CareerRe: Where Can I Find People Who Sew Very Neat Handbags In Lagos. by RedPanthar: 9:50am On Dec 09, 2020
Adamaramma:
RedPanthar, Thank you.

How can I contact them?
Message me on WhatsApp on the number on my profile
EducationRe: This Picture Makes Me Cry by RedPanthar: 8:18am On Dec 09, 2020
Aonkuuse:
When they can't counter you,they insult, life of a frustrated lazy Nigerian
Na so. I have 40 workers frustrated soul that think every Web user is a jobless teen. Ode
SportsRe: Juventus Troll Barcelona Over GOAT Tweet by RedPanthar: 8:04am On Dec 09, 2020
EmekaBlue:
But na penarity grin

Messi had more good attempts

Barca no get great teammates around Messi
Nearly doesn't kill a bird
CareerRe: Where Can I Find People Who Sew Very Neat Handbags In Lagos. by RedPanthar: 7:58am On Dec 09, 2020
I know people who do it. I know someone you can contact for this

I know a good arts person that can draw your fashion sketches


I know a lady you can contact for the sewing
EducationRe: This Picture Makes Me Cry by RedPanthar: 7:51am On Dec 09, 2020
Aonkuuse:
What is here to be crying? Olodo. Did you care to check how Nigeria was booming economically when it was agricultural driven economy until the discovery of oilhuh You will only see the cow on the note because your tribalism won't allow you to see other agricultural products.

What has education given to us rather than training lazy bigots like you who buy data to come online and say rubbish you have no idea of just because you can read and write.
You are irredeemably and eternally stvpid. Goat

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