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onthehill:
Charles Awuzie: Religion in Nigeria Feasts On Poverty And Lack Of Functional Systems In The Country (Photo)

Charles Awuzie, a Nigerian Cyber security expert based in South Africa has stated that religion in Nigeria thrives on poverty and lack of functional systems in Nigeria, IgbereTV reports.

Taking to his Facebook page, he compared the health service he got in South Africa to what is obtainable in Nigeria.


https://www.facebook.com/100000090018585/posts/4839793462700273/?app=fbl

MyOleSolksjaer:
Dear All,

I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.

However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.

My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.

She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.

I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.

HRHQueenPhil:
This is what happens when an organization has no structure
That's why d catholic church still exist
It's only the living faith church I see that has such structure

davisx2:
Ogun state-average score 5�

Yungmil:
Different people have different things that keeps them happy which might include, football( more especially men), music, film,church activities, girlfriend and boyfriend stuff, drinking, smoking,travelling and so on.


For me aside other things, as a chelsea fan I love footbal. It makes me happy.

What about you

Kobojunkiee:
Wrong!

John 3 vs 18 is not telling you anything about Hell... instead it is telling you that those who refuse to believe in Jesus Christ remained condemned as they previously were since Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22, by God.

Also recall that Jesus Christ made it clear that He came to save, not condemn. So those that refuse Him remain condemned, not by Him but by God who did so since the beginning, to perish in the grave.

Kobojunkiee:
Only those who go on to, through continual submission and obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ - God's Truth - are made free from slavery to sin and are transformed into Sons of God - [b]John 8 vs 31 - 44 - I.e. Perfect/Holy acceptable vessels that are then led by the Spirit to doing works of righteousness- Matthew 25 vs 31 - 40 - will gain access into Heaven in the end.

The rest of them, children of the devil, who refuse to submit to and obey the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, are slated to spend eternity in damnation - Matthew 25 vs 41 - 46

Kobojunkiee:
It is indeed a choice to turn away from wickedness to Jesus Christ but once you repent and enter into the Kingdom of God, there is no way out. And if you miss God's cut-off mark, it means one will spend an eternity in Hell.

So better to perish in the grave, I say, than to spend an eternity in damnation..

Kobojunkiee:
Nope.. that is not even a reason at all for those who are unbelievers.

You seek God denied all unbelievers eternal life back when He condemned them all to perish in their graves in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22. - they cease to exist , mind, body and soul, when they die. So Hell fire is not for them at all.

Instead, Hell is for those who enter into the Kingdom of God , albeit through the broad gate that leads to destruction- Matthew 7 vs 13 - 14. Those who will end up in Hell, belong in Jesus Christ's flock , only they are the goats in His herd - Matthew 25 vs 31 - 46

NLKing01:
And that's more reason you should repent while still alive, because after death there is no room for repentance again.

Kobojunkiee:
Jesus Christ said He is here for those who are weak and heavy laden... those who are tired of the troubles and the burden that is the world... who are sick from the emptiness emptiness of it all and seek out the will of the most High and do that instead.

Kobojunkiee:
That is not a good enough reason to repent through. In fact, fear of death is the worst reason to chose repentance as chances are high such a person will only end up spending eternity in Hell instead.