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Duh, this is where forensics and autopsy should come in to find cause of death instead of wasting time doing interrogation, thet would have begun building their case against him since...... Abi no forensic examiners in this country?

blym4real:
I hope you will be the first to adopt one of them.

I wasn't looking to adopt but if I was, why not?

It appalls me the level of thinking of some people here in this 21st century.
Why transfer the sins of the father on to the children?

Or you believe your own ancestors were all good people?

freecocoa:
The same way they didn't ask for the stigma and evil DNA they carry, it's best to abort, win win for all.

do you really believe evil is transfered via DNA? Come on!

I won't be surprised if they need the aborted fetuses for experiments and cosmetics and that's why they are suggesting and funding this.

Better to give them out for adoption than to terminate the pregnancy. These babies are innocent and didn't ask for any of this.

Agbaya girl, instead of her planning on marrying and settling down, she is getting pregnant for her junior brothers age mate.

Hope its all worth it for her.

Get her a vibra'tor and she will leave you alone, lol.

Na play o, but you should consider it.

Exactly wizkid, LA is nothing to a G like you so why lie about it na? You are bigger than that sh*t, quit falling ur own hand.

People already know you are doing very well so u don't need overdoing 'notice me'. Famzing with Chris brown and posting pics of your video chat with him.

That's just acting like a desperate attention wh'ore.

Oshio baba don marry olosho, lol!

See them, paedophiles wey no get shame!!!

Since they have been marrying off their baby girls, has it reduced the rate of homeless, parentless almajiri children that walk their streets in the north? If their females had jobs that engaged them, they would not be reproducing like farm animals!

Just stooooopid!!!

Oshioms don't fall im hand, see bashing!

Too much brain, well done jare!!!!

In his mind, he really believes he achieved something....

The con man has fallen for his own con, it seems.

Na wa o, being a woman is now synonymous to being in the kitchen? Aisha, take your time o! Women are achieving great things, you are talking bout cooking egusi soup!

Abi should a woman's greatest achievement be the number of soups she can cook?

Anyway I know you were joking sha, me sef dey joke.

MurderX:
Money and power exposes ones true character,
money and power exposed Oshiomole's stupidity.

my thoughts exactly!

Loooooool, mother your kids who are older than her?some even with kids of theirs? The more I think about it, the funnier it gets.

Lara Fortes, see you have become a grandmother at your young age, anyway you still hot sha.

Peggy, next time when going without bra, use masking tape, capische?

Ummm...lets even leave premarital sex out of this but then when your pastor fiance begins telling you to have an abortion, maybe that is when you should realise all isn't going well?

Looool, very much needed o! Enter aircraft first, ask destination later!!!!

These days wey no fuel, our aircrafts be like cabucabu, nothing like seat number. Na first come first serve.

I am just laughing from here in my corner....... Trust OBJ sha, he will cover it up.... What happened to the haliburton allegations against him? Long forgotten.

I dnt see hot kiss, I see a fatherly peck....

When one yarns about almost everything, it gets to a point one begins to misyarn.

It isn't any culturally accepted nonsense, most times women choose to focus on their kids because its hard finding a man who would commit to a family especially if the kids are young and more than one or two. Some women are lucky to find love again.

Wooow, so its true that the abuja runs babe was pregz for him, wow!!

DollyParton1:
Yes, know ur husband and pick ur battles wisely, but dont let him turn you to something to be trampled upon.
And the fact that someone has been married for donkey years doesn't equate to been able to give a sound advice.

There are some things you should fight out rightly. And no, you dont have to let him win, if he shouldn't have to win. Don't indulge a man. Let him act and be treated like a man that he is and not a big baby.
Lolz... did he marry her mother too? Are u seriously asking that question? Errrm he din't marry the mother too, but he married the daughter of that mother whom he dislike. You need me to break it down for u?
And his dislike for the MIL blinded him to the extent that he doesn't want his kids (the grandchildren of that MIL) around her.


Did u read the OP'S posts and replies at all? I dont think you did. She said the maid won't be around because she gave her the day off.
She stated that her husband is the type of person with unpredictable movement due to the nature of his job. So the possibility of meeting him at home is lower than the possibility of not meeting him at home. Tell me, who would wanna embark on a journey like that without a key, knowing that they might return very late at night to no one at home?



I believe that's what everyone has been telling her. And that she needs to look deeper than that.


No, things don't sort itself out. Things are sorted out by human beings when they adress them through matured dialogue. Boundaries can and should be set amicably. I am not telling her to fight, but that she is a person whose voice, opinions, emotions and relatives matter irrespective of her gender.


No body is telling her to loose her cool every time or bark or bite or anything. There are ways she can command respect for herself and her family without loosing her cool.


Thats the problem with everything, you just have to blame the woman, because men are infallible abi. You dont think it might have been the husband too? Remember your earlier post heaped the whole blame on her, asserting that its her strong headedness that's behind all these wahala, despite the fact that you did not read everything carefully.

in summary of everything you have countered, I'll just say many times in a relationship one person has to go under for the other one to stand, it is understanding...... Taking that wallet had been the defining moment that made things go out of hand.

When you see fire brimming, you don't add petrol to it, instead you douse it. I agree the man was wrong but the OP played her part which at that moment was wrong and escalated every thing nearly leading to a serious injury.

Sometimes you let him win, you retreat and bring it up when tempers have cooled.

Again I am not solely blaming the op, but she is the one here looking for advice and am stating where she went wrong. If it were the man, I would tell him his own.

Finally being married a number of years doesn't mean someone is all knowledgeable about marriage but for some of us who have been in different situations and experienced personally some of these things and have also chosen to learn and grow from our mistakes, there is nothing stopping us from giving our take on it. After all isn't experience the best teacher?

Beauty and the who....?

ferdimako:
but na him money nao.

It might be his money to spend, yes but..... reason for spending it is what makes him immature.

publicenemy:
Wow....why wasn't she sacked earlier?

guy, the tori is loooong.

The girl was very hard working and very nice so at first it was the guys they would send packing, then she became the wiser and faked pregnancy for the last guy. When they found out it was fake pregnancy, they sent her packing but the guy (only God knows if na juju) rented a one room apartment for the girl where he kept going to see her from time to time, until she now said she was pregnant again. I dunno if na real the second time but I doubt it cos I didn't hear any news bout d baby.

Na d tori be dat.

That's what happens when u don't child proof your home. What is an open well doing within the reach of 2/3 year olds? Carelessness on the parents side.

Op be careful, some house girls are looking for greener pastures and some okay family to stick themselves to. I know one who kept having affairs with every male relation that came to stay in the house. To the extent that she faked pregnancy for one of them, twice.

Be careful ooo.

LOL, see as guys they vex as if na dem d chick refuse number.

Taking out their frustrations from all the chicks who did same to them upon the poor chick.

It is her number and if she isn't comfortable giving it out, it is her bloody choice.

BTW, the dude was really immature and petty, so the highest thing he could do was to pay peoples tfare. SMH, he should have kuku bought the cabucabu there and then and ordered the chick to waka on foot, childish i'diot.