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kcreal: I'm seeing a Guitar,a bicycle, a gun, a plate, spoons and .....
Is that a bicycle or a motorcycle? anyway all na cycle.


Yeeeeeh, I'm the first to jump down from this aeroplane, what's my prize? a parachute I guess...#incaseitmakesfb#

lol, Eiffel tower is ur gun?

Op, did u mean pictures abi objects. Anyhoo, are you not the one who visited Nigeria for the first time with your fake family?

Hmmmm, did they tie this chick to the guy? You can't date a guy for four years and still be asking where are we heading?
I advice her to port sharply, a guuy who doesn't see marriage in the picture after two years of dating is a waste of space.

she's too desperate herself, is there some law that says she must be married before 30? She can still find the man of her dreams if she can pull herself together and move on.

I have a friend who got desperate at 30 years and got pregnant for her boyfriend, the baby died in the end and the guy left.
pls dnt get desperate, be patient and date correct people and not douches.

[quote author=I-B.]For whichever reason, abortion is not an option.
Killing "nations"(babies) and calling it abortion for flimsy excuses. [/quote]so if ur pregnancy was threatening ur life u'd still go on with it, risking your life and d baby's? U call dat a flimsy excuse?
if u lose ur life in d birthing process, ur husband will sharply marry another wife who'll takia of ur child dat u died for.

they are not totally legalizing abortion here, just giving an option in delicate circumstances.

Iyfe Namikaze: mr. that is baby blue whale. i don knw why some people cant use their heads. if u doubt that its not a ble whale, then what type of whale is it? a sperm whale or grey whale? hell no!

yeah, definitely a baby blue whale.

ogorluv: I disagree with you. infidelity is not just about physical coitus, if your husband spends some emotions on another woman, he is cheating, whether she sleeps with him or not.
Before I got married, my fiance had a friend that both of them were too close, I was uncomfortable with the situation and I told her. She had to cut all ties with the guy. Its not just healthy. Maybe you played the sophisticat when it started and waited for it to go away. Now is the time to MAN UP. She either falls into line 100 % or she falls out of your life, no compromise.

mariage and engagement are totally different. During engament or courtship, both parties can compromise more easily, hide things and let things go without much hassles but after marriage, attitudes change. You are now married, what's d worse you can do if she doesn't let him go, divorce? Everyone hates d D-word, especially if the couples are in love.

OP has told her his mind, what more can he do? The more he hammers on the matter, d more she'll run to d ex, the more the ex will badmouth the op to his wife and it will turn into one huge mess.

u said she's already cheating, how? Because she has a close friend and the close friend is a guy? If it was female, would it still,be cheating? As far as she's not neglecting her family, wifely duties, she's not doing any cheating.

marriage is a delicate institution, u have to approach with care, maturity and wisdom,if u really love your spouse. Pick your battles, some u win, some u have to let go.

lastly u can't force your will on someone, they'll just begin to hide things frm u. Even God doesn't force his will on anyone.

No compromise? You must be a dictator.

LeJeun3: Where are the people in charge of the wildlife in Nigeria?

I am tempted to say mcheww, wildlife ko, local life ni

majalisa: just kidding...may d best of ur today be d worse of ur tomorrow

amen o, if dats a good thing.

majalisa: ....U wuld B lyk her when u grow up?

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lol.

Kaycee7: You, my dear, will never have problems in your marriage. Op heed her words.

thanks, wish it were DAT easy, but marriage is a full time job on its own and we have to work at it everyday to make it work.

forgiveness, support, compromise, and turning a blind eye sometimes just to make things work out, that's aside from constant prayers.

rigormortis: he looks good doesnt mean he can fvkc love you good

yeah, that's why I said 'as far as'.

Oprah, surgery? Never heard of it besides I dnt think she looks bad enough for surgery. Wendy Williams is d person u shld be talkin about.

You sound quite insecure, op and women dnt really like insecurity, be confident, she's ur wife nao, if she likes let her spend d whole year on d phone with him, in d end she's still ur wife.

is it so hard to turn a blind eye, my husband has a colleague he used to spend hours on the phone with, the thing was always biting me but I said nothing. The woman is married but what married woman calls a married man jisting late into d night?

anyway I allowed them, he used to enjoy visiting, even her son kept calling for him to come take them out. It was just amusing to me sometimes.

I just watched from afar and one day, she used her own mouth to destroy their friendship. She keeps calling my hubby but they aren't as close anymore.

how long have u bin married, if I may ask?
the more u oppose the relationship, the more she'll run to him.
the way to deal with stubborn people sometimes is to let them learn from their stubbornness.

my own small view.

[quote author=uj_sizzle]Wha we gon do about that teeth [/quote]teeth na small ting nao, by the time the dental professionals handle am ehn, u wee believe. Or he can simply wear a fake teeth thing (dnt remember d name) but something can be done bout it.

[quote author=maxwello.yg]But, are you willing to date a guy that does not have his own original skin/body? He is gonna have a fake skin.
All those kisses, hugs, romance are gonna be done on another man's body o. *assuming the rich ugly dude underwent plastic surgery*
You okay dating a guy that underwent plastic S even before you met him?[/quote]I dnt have a problem with PS as far as it looks good, not much different from someone who had an accident and has to do reconstructive surgery or doesn't the guy look like he hit a bus?

[quote author=maxwello.yg]OMG! I have found a sugar mommy![/quote], but come to think about it, the ugly guy has enough money for reconstructive surgery of his whole face.

he could get the best surgeons in the world to give him a totally different face and he'll be good to go.

Hmmmmm, only a matter of time b4 other stories begin popping up.

I reserve my space for future comments......

in the meanwhile, post a pic na, all dis is allegation until it can be proven o.

Lol, if I hungry, I no send o, wanna chop die! A pity sha that the scent will be killing others.

Wrong wrong wrong. Allow her, you've said yours, nothing more you can do really.

you'll just have to step back and let her do as she wants, be cordial with the ex when you need to be, and just hope none of them does something stupid.

The choice isn't hard na except a girl is blind, hmmmmm but that Mr. Fresh creamy face with the sexy and smug eyes is giving a girl over here some ideas , no offense at hubby o, a girl is allowed to fantasize abeg.
Mr.Fresh face can have all my money as far as he does what he's paid to do well.;

I wish, I wish, I wish....

Morning peeps!

Damex333: "out of here" she commanded

commanded who nau?