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Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 6:21am On Aug 28, 2013 |
chronique: Well,I think your wife and her ex are both irresponsible and both suit themselves. Did you notice anything of such while courting? Inasmuch as I loved my ex,I learnt how to give her space. I remember asking her to hangout with me once(after she got married) and she told me she couldn't cos she was someone else's wife. She reminded me of the fact that I would not tolerate it if she was married to me and I got the message fast. I gave her space fast. That's what it should be. I think you need to get firm with her and give her rules to follow if she intends to remain in that marriage. She needs to choose between you and her ex. Inasmuch as I do not dig divorce,I think you may need to send her on hols to her parents house for more training(since she lacks some). Don't just drive her away. Pretend you guys are on a trip for a retreat/vacation,pack some clothes and have her pack her bags too. After your 3 days retreat,tell her you'd love you guys to visit her parents. Secretely get someone to help you pack her things at home and bring them down(without her knowledge). While at her parents crib,get your person to bring her luggage to her parents house. Then,announce to her parents that she'd be living with them henceforth. Also let her know that would be her new home. To make it spicier,make the visit to her family such that,most of her extended family members would be around when you're returning her. Finally,tell them you dash them the bride price and you see as your contribution to charity. Take your leave and do not listen to any plea. Make sure she spends at least 1yr there. I'm very sure "if" she comes back,she'd change. If she doesn't,know that you have jammed ekwensu(devil) himself. E be like say u no understand what's goin on here.This woman is way smarter! Can imagine her saying"honey,o need the kids to come along to".That way,if he chase her,she wud retain her kids too for as long as she won't be at her hubby's house Can imagine living in an empty house,a wife who is clearly in love with her ex,and who still has the kids.That guy no go sleep oo.If he wants herout,she shudnt hide behind his coolness!Do it right on her face!Infact,don't even take her to the parents house!Find out where the said ex lives and dump her there,if he is lucky to meet his wife then he shud leave this message"Lucky me!now your husband can enjoy a wonderful threeeesome with my wife!" 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by chronique(m): 6:30am On Aug 28, 2013 |
Nope. The dude has to be smart about it. Let him get his sibling to watch over the house and tell the wife it's just two of them going on vacation. The plan has to be done with tactfulness. Abi are you the woman? the reason why he needs to dump her at her parents house is to cause her and her family, some kinda shame and embarrassment. Taking her to the ex's house won't do much as he can deny it in front of his wife. There's a psycological knock on effect,the embarrassment of being dumped in her family house,in front of her extended family,will cause her. Trust me. lynpetra: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 6:36am On Aug 28, 2013 |
chronique: Nope. The dude has to be smart about it. Let him get his sibling to watch over the house and tell the wife it's just two of them going on vacation. The plan has to be done with tactfulness. Abi are you the woman? Commmmmonnnnnnnn!she wud know something is up!Well if person use that kind if sense for me I wud know!A several hours drive?.Damn! After one hour sef I don ask my hubby to pack if he noo want me we get accident! #lol at being the woman.God no go allow try myself for my hubby house.Got to do all the cheating now. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by chronique(m): 6:54am On Aug 28, 2013 |
It depends on the location of the parents crib. Secondly,he has to do it without tension and strife. He would need to act at ease like there's no issue. Act like all is well at home and He's completely satisfied with her. Well,if I want do person like you such,you'll never suspect. It would take you unawares. I remember breaking up with a certain ex wayback. She just woke up one day and found out she was boyfriendless. I kept saying sorry for everything and acting like I was the one responsible for all the problems. It got into her head... I'm sure she would have behaved herself if she had anticipated my move. lynpetra: |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 7:17am On Aug 28, 2013 |
chronique: It depends on the location of the parents crib. Secondly,he has to do it without tension and strife. He would need to act at ease like there's no issue. Act like all is well at home and He's completely satisfied with her. Well,if I want do person like you such,you'll never suspect. It would take you unawares. I remember breaking up with a certain ex wayback. She just woke up one day and found out she was boyfriendless. I kept saying sorry for everything and acting like I was the one responsible for all the problems. It got into her head... I'm sure she would have behaved herself if she had anticipated my move. ...na there you Bleep up!To me that's a red flag.It's too easy.When am misbehaving and the affected is being nice,that's when am shaky. because that's exactly d way I think too.This is how to do it if you are scared of doing it to my face.Already you have let ur boss know that you have a day off,already you have a carpenter you trust to change you front locks that day,already your sister is going to pick the kids from school(and you know they might not go to school for some days as you wanna change the school their mom knows them to be going),pack my Sshit and take the last flight(or travel) to dump them in my parents house(they will call me).Don't come home,just lodge in hotel for that night as you know I wud be waiting for an explanation.Go to work in the morning from your hotel and relax in your office with a cup of coffee.As for me??I wud break the door to go into the house,rush to the masters room and then I wud faint! |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 7:20am On Aug 28, 2013 |
Some of una wey dey giv advice nor get sense for head at all. @op, ur wife nor love u. Dats all. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by chronique(m): 7:46am On Aug 28, 2013 |
Well,it won't always be the same script for every chick/woman. I'd have studied my subject before planning my strategy. What works for girl A might not work for B. On a side note,I think you got a decent level of craziness and I like that. lynpetra: |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by repogirl(f): 8:23am On Aug 28, 2013 |
ogorluv: mariage and engagement are totally different. During engament or courtship, both parties can compromise more easily, hide things and let things go without much hassles but after marriage, attitudes change. You are now married, what's d worse you can do if she doesn't let him go, divorce? Everyone hates d D-word, especially if the couples are in love. OP has told her his mind, what more can he do? The more he hammers on the matter, d more she'll run to d ex, the more the ex will badmouth the op to his wife and it will turn into one huge mess. u said she's already cheating, how? Because she has a close friend and the close friend is a guy? If it was female, would it still,be cheating? As far as she's not neglecting her family, wifely duties, she's not doing any cheating. marriage is a delicate institution, u have to approach with care, maturity and wisdom,if u really love your spouse. Pick your battles, some u win, some u have to let go. lastly u can't force your will on someone, they'll just begin to hide things frm u. Even God doesn't force his will on anyone. No compromise? You must be a dictator. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by adexpa(m): 10:23am On Aug 28, 2013 |
this is totally absurd,anytin wit ex should be totally out of marriage be platonic or not.my kinda advice is sit her down her talk sense to her chiken brain n if no change of attitude make a move to report her to any of her family dat u knw she always respect,if she den refuse to change u can nw make dis last action by send her pack without left over with a pin.may d lord see u tru. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Homguy(m): 12:56pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
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Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Homguy(m): 1:10pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Kaycee7: Coolsammy forget all these nonsense corrupt & immature idiots are telling you. Have you asked yourself why she married you instead of her ex? Sometimes I think fate is the best thing to bliv in. If she'll end up with the other guy, there is nothing you or anybody can do about it. But instead of sitting there moping, get your wife's attention back. And not by fluid26's stupid idea. If you want to show her what she's missingposters like this should be banned frm posting comments as punishment 4 p.o.o..r reasoning power! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by 2ndChance: 4:30pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
ogorluv:Thank you. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by 190theclown: 4:38pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
fluid26: I may be wrong, but you sound like you're either garrulous or overly petty; hence your threats, cajoling and quarreling have little or no effect. I am not going to ask you about your sex life or other addenda. I will also not ask if you have children, or if your in-laws are dead or alive. It is also not relevant (to me) if you have relatives or family living with you. No homo but youre my kinda person GBAM!! |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by 190theclown: 4:42pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
apache77: [b]serious matter. ANOTHER REAL MAN |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by 2ndChance: 5:05pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
repogirl: What are you saying? A married woman that is so emotionally attached to her ex to the point that her husband got involved with the so-called ex and they both didn't blink an eyelid? Look, like I keep telling people, marriage is not for the faint-hearted man or woman. From day one, I made my wife realize that I am two extremes, depending on what you want. Op is not man enough, that is why he is in this mess and I find it difficult to really advise him because you need to be a real man to carry through my prescription. There are so many ways to bring a stubborn woman to her kneels without being violent but then, you need to be a real man to do that. I love women a lot, especially my wife, but I do not tolerate any nonsense and my wife knows that. Infact, she once told me how one of her friends told her she was lucky to have a quiet husband as me and in her response, she smiled and told her friend to "pls pray never to meet my husband in an angry mood". That is how a man should be to his wife and kids while loving them at the same time. Who is that stupid ex? Does he have two heads? Some things are better imagined abeg. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 5:32pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Truth is they both focckin each other or they planning to do so. Just move on and dump her if U can but if u can't,then be prayerful cos that woman can kill U |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 5:50pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
This story reminds me of some stories I heard of in upscale abuja. Similar setting, only much worse. Some of them were said to be into lesbianism, and were also known to be violent. These women preferred hanging out with widows of questionable character, despite having young or teenage kids. The fearful thing here is that their husbands died mysterious deaths not too long after discovering (and going public with) their loathsome ways. What am I trying to say? Watch your back. Especially what you eat, if it is prepared by her, and where you go. You can hire a private investigator to monitor her movement. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 5:59pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
nobody is dieing here,no need to watch your back. As for the car,shes just using it to draw attention that her car needs to be changed. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by repogirl(f): 6:04pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Okay the replies are now becoming really funny. really extreme, op will soon become a paranoid man watching over his back for nothing. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by simdam500(m): 7:14pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
coolsammy: she even told me of a recent jokingly that the ex- is tryng to buy her a car and try to inquire from me if i will nt be mad with that.. She sound lyk she's very young... D above statement sound childish *sowi for dat, if i sound arrogant* |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Boll2010: 7:25pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
chidyhels: nobody is dieing here,no need to watch your back. As for the car,shes just using it to draw attention that her car needs to be changed.I dnt suport dat,a man dat as been providing n carin 4 u........so u nw nid sumtn al u can do is to tel him tru an EX-talks while married.......dat makes me more annoyed instantly I tel u madam |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Kaycee7(m): 7:30pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
repogirl: Okay the replies are now becoming really funny.Help me tell them ooo. My vex is they don't even know the person in question & they are busy condemning. Coolsammy take am easy b4 you go kill person. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 7:35pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Respect, man. Gosh!!! Not after what I have experienced. My anger like the pace of snail or an old tortoise... But when you insult my intelligence and take me for a fool, damn it's as fast lightening bolt. I know I will first play it cool the first time I see it and that could go with a warning to both parties... If they fail to heed my warning, both of them would regret ever being born. tpacalipse: This is why I love myself so much. Damn. What rubbish? Nonsense of the highest other. A woman sending u to ur grave, and you are considering the effect her eviction will have on the kids. What the fk. I crush any woman who fk with me, and those who had experience with me, up till now, run whenever they smell me coming. What a man? Damn man. Who born the woman? And who born the guy? The location of the guy would be unfindable for d babe when I am thru with them. Yes! Self defense that is what shall be claimed at the inquest. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Youngpo413: 7:39pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
coolsammy: @25omega. yes the ex- is married with kid. he works with a private firm i believe. we also have kids. i even sent him a text telling him that we all av a past bt the moment u are married u let go of ur past. bt he wouldnt just back off. for wat reason i dont understand. he hardly go a day without speaking with my wife. At times i will see at d end of the message he sent to my wife telling her I LOVE U. I still don`t believe you are for real,if yes,what manner of man are you?tufiakwa! |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 7:56pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 7:59pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
2s£xy: Damn!that woman must have hit you hard!You are always angry with women. |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Truckpusher(m): 8:05pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Simply tell her to choose between her ex and the marriage simple....smh Sometimes i wonder how you guys actually refer to yourselves as men......them never born that woman wey wan try this shyte with me sha ......period 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Kaycee7(m): 8:39pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Truckpusher: Simply tell her to choose between her ex and the marriage simple....smhYour moniker says it all. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Nobody: 8:42pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
I hate being taken for a ride especially in cases like this. I am a super cool dude if you met me offline and you would wonder if I ever talk cos I rarely do, except you are very close to me. I am not angry with women; it's just that I have lost my patience or tolerance around them and I can't play it cool anymore. It's a general law that when a man is TOO soft and gentle, WOMEN often take him for a ride... That's a fact and even YOU will act that way if given the chance.... Yes, virtually all woman take the gentle dudes for a ride. I am speaking from experience and not them say. Thunder fire that woman wey go try that nonsense... Rubbish! lynpetra: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by doris4u(f): 8:59pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
lynpetra:There r ways some1 wil treat u nd u keep remembering it wen topics like dis surfaces |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by doris4u(f): 9:02pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
2s£xy: 2s£xy: |
Re: My Wife And Her Ex- by Truckpusher(m): 9:03pm On Aug 28, 2013 |
Kaycee7: Your moniker says it all.And what has your fa.g.got azz got do with that numbnuts? |
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