atoliman: They visit the brothel like it is a normal thing and sleep with oloshos like it is nothing and they want a loyal girlfriend. Who is decieving who? That relationship cannot work, neither the marriage will work.
A lady was telling me how her ex boyfriend got another girl pregnant while they were dating. The dude keep begging her to come back.
Bad boys should date promicious women and oloshos- that is a balanced equation, leave the good women alone so serious minded good guy can date them.
But the so called good girls kinda prefer dating the bad boys
seunmsg: Good one. The Police should thoroughly investigate him and prosecute him diligently. That dude has committed so much crime against the state and it’s time he’s punished for his crime.
He called himself breeze that can’t be arrested and the stupid breeze is currently enjoying adulterated breeze in FCID facility
Valoromega: I've been married for 2 years now with a new born baby. the issue now is that anytime we have issues my wife always threatens to leave. she will arrange and bag and say she's leaving. this has happened more tha 4 times, basically anytime we have issues as a couple.
She will say she's still young and she can't take any nonsense in marriage, Mind u i have never hit her before so this isnt a case of domestic violence, just normal couples issue.
I'm tired of this and i'm thinking about my options right now, I want to tell her to leave but she should drop my child for me. she can't use our marriage as a threat everytime we have issues
Let her go next time she threatens you. Do not ever beg her to stay, just dont give her the money for transport, dont touch her bags, allow her do her packing out herself, she will not try it again. Even if she carried out the threat, keep your cool, when she finally decide to have sense, she will beg you for reconciliation
Good day guys, please an advice especially from those based in pH. Online or offline for a fresh application and hopefully get the passport by July latest, kindly advise please
Go to trade fare and see how street retailers are ripping us off big time.
My wife bought her body cream CT+ at the rate 2100 at trade fare yesterday while in our area retailers are selling it for 3700.
Kk brothers soap my wife bought the pack for 7k(6pieces) while one is sold for 1700 by retailers.
Her sanitary pad she bought 1 pack at the rate of 1050 while retailers sell for 1700.
Even strike bitters sachet pack(20 pieces) wey I dey always use console myself i buy for 2000 she got it for 1450.
Note she didn't even buy at carton price but at pack price because if she was buying in carton the price would be lower that than.
Just yesterday I bought a derica of rice on my way back home for 900 around oshodi terminal while the seller in my street is still selling for 1300 despite price of bag of rice coming down.
We are own problem.......everyone is wicked in this country.
The retailer will add transport fare, shop rent, tax and levies, then profit to be made etc, I'm not justifying the amount but consider these before concluding
shortgun: Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.
He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.
In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.
Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.
Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them. Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.
What do you guys think?
Well I don't know the kind of life style you and your friends were living, but as long as his funeral is concerned, you have no moral right to go against his family's wish and consent, but una be wetin we know suppose loud outside, otherwise you all should respect yourselves
They did , she didn’t even wait for the list before she started buying . After buying unnecessary things she brought it and said this is the list of things the hospital gave her to buy
Well, as I said earlier, she's just reasoning emotionally as expected of a woman, but I'm surprised her Mom is involved yet allowed her do these, you've learnt your lesson, apply wisdom in your next spending
Valoromega: We are currently expecting our first child , she should give birth within a this month.
She has requested money for baby things and I have given her over 400k but she hasn’t both the basic things she needs. She usually go with her mom to the market to get the things but they haven’t even both the things the baby will need in the hospital. They went and bought baby wardrobe even though we already had baby wardrobe that was given to us on our wedding , she also both baby duvet without buying bed , the clothes she bought was for a month old baby , she didn’t even buy the first wear the baby would use , so far I haven’t even seen anything tangible she has bought with 400k plus I’ve given her, she hasn’t even bought the things she needs after delivery .
I don’t know if it’s her mom that’s telling her to buy those things, the mom doesn’t even care where the money comes from , she just demands that we buy this and that .
I was thinking the money I gave her would be enough to buy the most basic things she and the baby needs , now she’s demanding more
The hospital she uses for antenatal would've provided a list of must have for delivery, then other basics that must be available before delivery, you know better the kind of woman you have, you should have asked for a budget while you discuss what must be bought with the 400k. You just dropped money without having an idea of what is expected, you goofed, she's just being a woman, you didn't play your part completely
I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.
However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.
I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.
She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything. Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.
I'm considering a breakup as a solution.
Has anyone navigated a similar situation?
You give a quarter of your monthly income to a gf every month, when she becomes wife, what will you be giving her monthly? How much do you give your parents and siblings monthly?
It's not about it being local or little. The Bread was gotten from Market Square super market. I just find it awkward giving bread to your son-in-law to be on the first meeting.
Gifts are symbolic you know.
Ain't you traveling back to Lagos? It's just a gift that's all, even if it doesn't make sense to you, its common sense to accept it irrespective
Iagos: I boarded a bus from Ajah to Oshodi and noticed an unsettling driving behavior from the driver. I suspected he was sleeping, I recorded a video and caught him dozing off while driving on the 3rd Mainland Bridge. Concerned for my safety, I chose to end my journey at Oworo, prioritizing my well-being to avoid potential risks.
marvellous2222: My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.
Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.
I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.
They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.
My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.
How do I handle this?
It's wrong not to quote the source of this write up, this isn't your story
FreeStuffsNG: People should please wait for the police to release outcome of the autopsy.
For now, it's reasonable to presume that those you are pointing accusing finger at may be innocent.
His death is called oku ofo in Yorubaland and further delay of his burial is frowned at, in fact, regarded as a taboo.The family must be commended for cooperating with the authorities, particularly, the mother of the deceased.
May God console them all.Check my signature for free stuffs!
Particular the mother? someone that abandoned her kids with their father over 15years till his death
Hidewell: Good day, sirs and ma. I moved to Abuja to work as an Administrative assistant at (name withheld) close to Galadinmawa. The agreed pay with my employer was 50,000 which I accepted because I don't want to stay idle and I wanted to garner experience.
The Friend's house I stay is in Kagini. Those that know Abuja will know this place. The transportation cost from the house to my place of work is 1,100 and coming back same, which makes it 2,200 every day excluding Saturdays and Sundays.
After crossing my T's and dotting my i's I found out that The total cost is 2200 x25 days= 55,000 with a 5,000 deficit. The organization provide light breakfast and lunch. So, my food is a bit covered.
I am just confuse now. I talked to the organization for a pay rise but they gave me a stiff neck.
Please what will you advice me to do. I am seriously frustrated with the look of things. Do you think it's worth it.
P.s. I have worked for a month there now. I am scared my friend will complain that I am not contributing.
. I'm drained and frustrated.
Quit and find a place closer to where you stay before your friend starts to complain
Fabulozz: As titled above. I made the worst mistake in my life impregnating my baby mama for the second time. She and her mother had given me so much trouble in the past. I don't even know what came out of me to start sleeping with her again. Boom she is pregnant and has refused to abort.
She want me to pay her brideprice or else she will tell my wife. If only I had control my manhood I would have not found myself in this terrible situation.
Anyone who doesn't know how to say no kills himself gradually because the world out there is wicked, people will certainly take advantage of your weakness to their favour
manee2: My ex broke up with me while I was accomodating her brother, and she's married now. I saw this as motivation, moved and doubled down on my hustle and lost communication with both of them. As I was trying to find my bearings, within a year two of my friends had already kicked me out of their house. About 3 months ago she contacted me through FB and asked for my phone number for her brother. He needed my help, under the guise of trying to start his life over. All his friends he hung out with turned their backs on him.
Having learned life the hard way, I have become an introvert who easily feels uncomfortable around the people around me. I discovered that I did better on my own.
Regardless of that, I put up with it and regret it because I'm embarrassed and slowly losing focus. Although he is supportive, but he has Diogenes syndrome. Being so kind-hearted, I don't know how to ask him to leave my space.
Leave your space, have you accommodated him already?
ahnie: The cheap meal I prepared as dinnerwith just #500 Ingredients 2 sachet tomatoes paste Ginger n garlic One knoor seasoning used. Sachet Benny Groundnut oil Crayfish(optional) My fam is a sucker for crayfish. Fresh tomatoes 8 cone of raw eggs Fresh pepper Fresh tomatoes.
Is the yam not part of the meal? Why wasn't it costed too?
Adiob200: I saw one news online that Mtn change their code for recharge cards, for a year now have never recharge my line with paper card, only online...Are you still using paper recharge card?
I intentionally stuck with paper recharge as a way to encourage the sellers means of income rather than enriching the already rich but since when the paper sellers started adding 10 - 20 naira on their recharge cards sometime last year and change was becoming an issue, I had no choice but to switch to my bank
Matrix137: That's what I'm trying to avoid and also problems with the police.
It's funny that you know your actions are uncivilized yet you continue doing them, why because anything goes in naija right? If at 22 you haven't taken upon your self to start acting right especially the ones you mentioned, you will learn by force when you eventually get over there
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