Politics › Re: El-Rufai At 2018 Armed Forces Remembrance Celebration In Kaduna (Photos) by Respect55(m): 12:15am On Jan 16, 2018 |
loveth361: If you die for nigeria,you died in vain. Wish u were in portharcourt here. I would have honoured u for that comment. |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 4:43pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
NeeKlaus: Happy Sunday. You've met with her? Yes. My updated there. U can read up |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Is Your Church Theme For 2018? by Respect55(m): 2:36pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
AG, 2018,My Year Of Grace And Glory |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 2:34pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
NeeKlaus: Fine. Please go next weekend o. It's hard to see girls that would love you that much these days. You can mention me when you want to update again. It's there friend. Happy Sunday |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 2:33pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
I learnt she has been there for minutes and thought I was purposely giving deaf ears to her knocks to which I explained to her what happened. She accepted. She also said I should forgive her for her initial conduct when I called, that it was for a purpose - to see how I would react. Thank goodness I acted very unusual. Got allowing anger get the better part of me. I also get to know that it was only the mum that was going out. From there, she (the mum) will go for tarry night at church being a prayer Warrior. As such, we need not bother about time.
It might not be necessary to start sharing what happened or what we discussed last night (but for sure, no sex), but her craving for my coming isn't any other thing but the longness if the heart and further assurance of our future together because people are really coming. I don't blame name anyway. One hardly see much ladies with beauty and character these days. She have them in excess. Lucky me. I gave her my words once again as I have always did and she couldn't contain her joy. She gave in to tears once again but this time, it was of joy and not of sorrow. She actually shed tears easily and her tears break my heart whenever they are of pain I cause her
I saw her off around 11pm.When we got to her gate(it's not up to 5 minutes from my house, she called her immediate younger sis, Miracle who came and opened the gate for her. She wished me good night and I replied with laughter an headed back to my house tired for a really stressful day. 'It is worth it', I smiled to myself and I jumped into my bed.
I will see her again today in the evening because I will be leaving first thing tomorrow morning. That being said, there won't be more update on this.
Althesame, thank you my good friends for you have saved me from heartbreak and impending calamity through ur advice. I'M REALLY GRSTEFUL.
PEACE to you all and do enjoy ur relationship as I'm doing.
... love Is Really A Beautiful Thing... . . . . #IWillKeepOnPlaying. #Shalom |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 1:53pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
I tossed my phone to the far end of my foam, covered my self with the bed sheet to see if I can get lost in a wonderland in face of the reality that have befallen me. I couldn't. 'Has she really moved on?, could she be tempting my patience?, is this really worth my journey?, I kept on wondering as I slept off unknowingly. But then, just like before, I couldn't sleep for long. I woke up, searched my school bag, collected my earpiece, plugged it to my phone and selected 'Runaway Love' by Ludacris and Mary J.B, set the volume high up that I didn't hear her knocking after few minutes. I felt a slight headache by the high volume and that was when I heard, 'if u dnt want to see me, I will go and never come back.' It was her voice.
I jumped off from my bed not knowing I haven't removed my earpiece from my ear. It dragged my phone along and everything fell on the floor. I picked it up and had a split-second observation and thank goodness that it was only the screen guard that was affected. I tossed it back to the foam and quickly opened the lock. Lo and behold, there she was, radiating in the dark(She is actually very fair in contrast to my complexion and the time was already past 9pm.'You came this time?,was the first words I said to her(stupid of me, I know) to which she kept mute. I moved closer banging the door behind me only to observe she has bn weeping. I took her in. |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 1:33pm On Jan 14, 2018 |
Mum was surprised to see me(didn't tell her I would be coming back).'How are you?, 'is this you?, she kept on asking as she continued observing me as if she has seen a ghost.'Mum I'm fine, just wanted to surprise u with my visit', I lied. I knew why I came back. Not that seeing her wasn't part of it, but it wasn't the sole reason behind the surprise visit. I later left the parlour and moved into my room in another building altogether (we have two moderate buildings in my compound). I later sent my nephew staying with her to call her and I gave her what I got for her including some money, little anyway. I couldn't do more because I'm not yet balanced.
I took my bath hoping to call her, yes her(hope u understand) afterwards but no sooner had I gone into my room than I dozed off. But it was very snappy. I woke up in the middle of that nap and placed a call to her that I have arrived. She received the call with a calm tone to my surprise. 'She should be happy that I'm home now' I wondered to my self as we kept on talking. I asked her where she was and she said she is in the house but preparing to go somewhere with her mum to which she doesn't know when she would be back. I wanted to drop the call feeling disappointed in her response but I kept my cool, something I rarely do. I admit to having temperamental issues. Who doesn't afterall. I managed to wish her bye and to see her when she is chanced and she just replied OK. |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 6:51pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
I'm at home now. Will update tomorrow.
It is really worth it |
Politics › Re: Riot Ongoing In Makurdi, Benue State (Photos) by Respect55(m): 1:48pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
It's long overdue |
Celebrities › Re: Sonia Ogiri Involved In Motor Accident (Photos) by Respect55(m): 1:38pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 1:13pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
NeeKlaus: Fine. Please go next weekend o. It's hard to see girls that would love you that much these days. You can mention me when you want to update again. I'm on my way home bro |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 12:42pm On Jan 13, 2018 |
I'm on my way home as I promised u guys in line with ur advice. Just passed Umuahia Tower � now. Save journey to me I pray � |
Romance › Re: My Experience With Porn And Masturbation by Respect55(m): 8:43am On Jan 11, 2018 |
sodiqapril: once you become addicted to masturbation, the only way you can be saved is to find a regular source of sex. U lie. I dnt need any constant sex partner to quit. I quit on my own and God has kept me. |
Celebrities › Re: Pretty Mike Kissing His Pet Python, Toke Makinwa (Photo) by Respect55(m): 10:14pm On Jan 09, 2018 |
And he will still use that mouth to kiss gals |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Got A Job 30k After Nysc. Your Advice Please by Respect55(m): 11:14am On Jan 08, 2018 |
Aren't u staying with a relative that can take care of the baby during sch hours? Accept the job o. Where I am, the highest they pay is 25k yet I haven't seen one. |
Crime › Re: Man Poses With Don Wanny's Corpse After Being Killed By Soldiers. Photos by Respect55(m): 10:08pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
naijareferee: zero-value-for-human-lives.... These guys were killed without recourse to fair hearing... What if all the killings were political... Why was he killed like that without finding out his reasons for killing ordinary people... Why the urgency to heap blames on this guys...
Nigeria and its state apparatus....Zero professionalism Shut up |
Culture › Re: "Killer Herdsmen Are Like Nigerians": Pastor Shares Accident Scene Experience by Respect55(m): 9:32pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
Troblem:

Three things i observed obviously, 1)Emotions_ 2)Religion 3)Cowards that man lost his life for these 3 reasons up there
Op why where you petrified over the death of a man who should have stug at his forehead for being so unmeticulous.
Death comes to us all. The very purpose of life is to end, it takes different forms and there are multitudinous ways to die,i just don't get why so much emphasy is laid on its transit mechanism. Why cry,wail n grief over the death of any1 tha was once alive. May God have mercy on your soul |
Career › Re: Unemployment Fear Grows As More Nigerians Lose Jobs by Respect55(m): 8:50pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
kizaronto: That's an irony bros. they have destroyed over 8 million jobs and rendered millions of families hopeless. Maybe I understand better now |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Insurgents Have Been Defeated In The North-east - Army Chief, Buratai by Respect55(m): 8:47pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
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Career › Re: Unemployment Fear Grows As More Nigerians Lose Jobs by Respect55(m): 7:48pm On Jan 07, 2018 |
But Ngige just told us that FG has created additional 8 million jobs. Which way Nigeria  |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 11:37pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
NeeKlaus: Fine. Please go next weekend o. It's hard to see girls that would love you that much these days. You can mention me when you want to update again. I will surely do that. Have a nice sleep |
Jokes Etc › Re: Factipedia from freshstuffs by Respect55(m): 10:58pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Ride on. Me likey |
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Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 8:16pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
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Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 6:00pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
rickyboss333: now u can clearly see ur at fault. u r simply punishing d babe for something she didn't do. she is not d parent that has refused her not to go visiting. more over u should understand parents are like that, even ur own parents will not let ur sister visit a man knowingly no matter how close d relationship. when I said plan for her to visit, I never meant she should take permission from d parents, ur not a kid, I believe both of u could come up with some story to see her leave her home for a few days. about u making up ur mind never to go home... that sums up everything. she feels u don't love her enough to make trips to visit her cos perhaps u don't miss her that much, or perhaps u have someone else over there ur keeping. u have to make sacrifices sometimes, even if it means going back on our words, just for the one u truly love.
BTW, I notice u have an excuse for every advice u have been given here. ur beginning to sound like a "mister know it all". we r all saying virtually same thing n there's no how we could all b wrong at dsame time. I am beginning to wonder how ur previous relationship went, that's if this isn't ur first. try not to be too ranthoneous. take our advice n u will not regret it My pleasure sir. I will go see her come next weekend. Sorry if I have bn STURBON about the whole thing. I apologise. U guys have been great. Thank goodness I belong to this family |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 5:56pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
NeeKlaus: You are not even ready for this relationship. It's obvious you are considering just yourself and it's clear this girl loves you a lot.
See eh, when a girl truly loves you, your physical presence will mean a lot to her. Gifts and calls can never substitute physical contact in a relationship. It's not possible except that girl doesn't love you at all.
For crying out loud, you haven't visited her in 7 whole months and she's complaining, even when you promised her you would visit? Honestly, if I were that girl, I will break up ASAP and face someone that is ready to give her that attention.
You know what to do. Relationships and Love matters are all about sacrifices. If you can't sacrifice just two days in an entire 7 months, so she can relish your presence, then I can boldly say that you are not ready for that relationship. For Chrissakes, are you the first person to do business? How busy can you be??
Bros, you know what to do. Do it fast. I appreciate ur concern bro. I will go by next weekend. I will update u people on how things turn out when I might have gone to see her. I'm ready for the relationship bro. Very much ready |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 5:51pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
mikejj: well just wanted to be sure....anyhow u want to twist the maths...u stil need to find to go c ur woman..even if it is one day..den u cum bak to ph.. It's alright. I think I will go next weekend. I have spoken with a friend to help me and manage my business. I will keep u posted |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 5:38pm On Jan 06, 2018*. Modified: 5:53pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
mikejj: well just wanted to be sure....anyhow u want to twist the maths...u stil need to find to go c ur woman..even if it is one day..den u cum bak to ph.. |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 12:31pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
mikejj: what are trying to say....are sure another girl is nt keeping u in ph. Sorry bro. I dnt double- date |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 12:29pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
Andracarles: I wish i could talk to her, i'd advise her to RUN far away from such an unserious space blocker. 7 months in the same country and ur making noise about business. Na only you dey do hustle abi? Abeg free the girl let her make herself useful. Mtcheew. Nonsense and hustle. Time waster.� Thanks althesame. But unfortunately, u can't reach her |
Romance › Re: Help, My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rocks by Respect55(op): 12:24pm On Jan 06, 2018 |
DaySpringer: You see that you don't have sense?
Have you married her? No. But you using husbands and wives as an example.
You know exactly why she cannot travel. You said it yourself so why are you asking the question again?
210 days and you have no space to go and see her for even just two days.
My brother stop lamenting here. Since you know that you cannot travel and she too cannot travel then whatver you see you take. Your business is more important. if you stand, you find another girl.
Shekina. I have sense, more than enough. If she can't withstand the storm, I won't stand on her way. U sound as if urs is all rosy |