₦airaland Forum

NwAmaikpe:
People are now becoming bolder in embracing immoralities this days

Amuatulu:


See as she swallowed the whole semen without remorse as if she was in a Cumpetition

Glorylynn:
Naija is just a joke person wey never chop Dey shit?

Wantedmiller:
And they didn't win?

rtdCivilservant:
Na for labour market them go know say naija no get part 2 by the time their name go turn to 'unemployed graduates' for 12 years them go know say no be by Arab attire.

Donexy16:
It wasn't him you saw

Donexy16:
Number 87

bizme:
You and I understand why the court process has to be based on evidence-based prosecution. There are disadvantages in that however, especially rape cases, and given that most victims will not come forward when the rape just took place and evidence could be presented. Coming after 20 years is as good as losing the case before it even started.

The Bible had an interesting way of dealing with this (with your permission I will point this out). In in the Old Testament if a woman was raped within the city and she did not scream out for help, the sex was considered consensual and the two of them would be punished. If however she was raped in the field (like on the farm, far away from city) she was automatically considered a victim, because even if she had screamed no one would have come to her rescue; in that case only the man would be punished.

Busola claimed to have been raped right under her own father's room, with family members around at the house. She did not scream. She did not report it. Other sexual contacts occurred after that. She did not scream, she did not report to anyone. Now, in the absence of any evidence, what are the chances that the sex was not consensual in the first place?

Bringing this to bare for the benefit of real rape victims. There is no other way other than reporting the rape immediately it happens. I admit that many of our police officers are biased and backward and they would even be blaming the victim for going to the man's/woman's house in the first place (visiting someone at home, or even lying on the same bed with them is never consent for sex, consent is merely inferred from these actions when there are other evidence supporting it). It is better for these victims to report at agencies in charge of such things. Especially in cases where the victim is a woman, there are NGOs to report to, immediately. I mean immediately, because then it will be easy to gather evidence of struggle and the likes.

Lastly, I must say that every rapist not reported is another rapist empowered to continue his/her criminal way. When you are a victim of rape and you do not report immediately, you are indirectly responsible for other people like you who would later become victims from the hands of the rapist not reported. And as much as rape cases are being reported, the court has to find a way to sift untrue allegations from genuine ones.

bizme:
I never trusted that Busola girl for a second. There were just too many unanswered questions about this particular case. While I have no doubt that an affair must have existed between the two, calling it rape without evidence is no more than an abuse of the court process. If the case had gone a different way it would have been a terrible precedence. Then any girl would just wake up one day and claim a guy raped her, and all she would need to show as evidence would be her words.
She should have been made to pay much more than that. N1m is just too small for the damage to the man's reputation.

GraGra247:
Serves her right if even its true. She enjoyed sexual escapades with her corrupt pastor and 20 years later she's claiming victim. Nonsense.

If you "deliberately" refused to report rape within the period it occurred you simply weren't a victim. Stop causing confusion!!

anigbajumo:
Technically u mean as far as ur father never marry 3 wives it means he is impotent therefore all his children is bastard coz he married just one wife.

logon599:
Great stuff. That Celta goalkeeper obviously didn't do his homework on Messi before the game

Hurpeyemyyy:
Pls what of Nigeria to dubai

Wilston:
Booking mine to chicago ohare airportvery soon in Jesus name

budaatum:
Yes, I agree. The government should impose a 10 year jail term on anyone who tarnishes Nigeria abroad!

Blinkers:


Help wetin?


You better jump from this evil sinking ship because you'll never benefit anything for yourself, family and the rest of humanity by continuing to hang on to a hopeless entity. Politicians know this, and that's why they laugh at your stupidity when you go to the polls to vote them in. They are the most unpatriotic elements of our society who buy properties abroad, invest abroad and run there to rest and treat themselves for common headache. Then, they delude the rest of mentally-raped idîots like the OP to keep believing in patriotism.

Una eye go soon clear!

For those who have sense, the only thing you better is YOURSELF, so that your loved ones and the rest of humanity may benefit also.

The country has been specially created to fail you, don't fail yourself. Always remember this!

lordm:
Majority of them only criticise,

koffsman:
If this is true then Boko Haram are asking for it in a place we won't just sit back they will be surprised almost every youth in lagos owns a gun if they try wahala dey be that

Jordan97:
Getting married to a true born again Christian wife is the best thing any man can wish for.. Especially the ones with good character.