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merry Christmas to you all ... na wetin concern me be that

Butterscotch92:
I know I'm going to receive a lot of bashing here but I don't mind as I'm looking for solution. I've been following other related threads on the topic and it seems most men don't forgive women that cheated on them.

I cheated on my man. This happened over a year ago when the relationship was going through a rough patch. Actually I didn't set out to cheat and never planned it.

In fact the person it happened with was a person I was confiding in when I was trying to get solutions to my relationship issues.

This person was my married colleague that I joined to work in his car. I thought I could get mature advice by telling him. I was weak and emotionally down and on one of such days of crying to him it happened in his car.

It happened like 3 more times because I go to work with him and come back with him. But I was overcome with guilt (because he was married and for cheating) that I had to stop. But my mistake was that I didn't cut him off completely.

I remained cordial friends with him since he is a colleague and I stopped joining his car. He also moved to another branch. He called occasionally to try his luck but I never gave in. Somehow my man became suspicious by his calls and one thing led to the other and I had to confess.

My man said he has forgiven but can't get back together again. I have been following other threads with similar topics and I saw that men find it very hard to forgive a woman that once cheated.

In this case I'm truly sorry, I have learnt my lessons and I can never make that kind of mistake again. I don't love the man in question, I never wanted anything from him apart from advice from the onset, I stopped on my own, I only remained friends because he was my colleague. I love my man and will do anything to keep him and win his trust back. I'm not a cheat by nature.

I'm heartbroken and filled with guilt and regret. I can't talk to anyone in my circle for fear of condemnation because I'm wrong in every area.

Please is there any hope for me? How do I go about winning him back? How do I convince him that I truly regret my actions? How do I help him heal?

most do forgive but to forgive is the problem with humans ...my guy e no easy to forget even if you don forgive the person .

issokay

koladebrainiac:
olodo poster what about La Campagne Tropicana Beach resort? the best beach in Nigeria?

where this one dey inside Lagos?

igbesachick:
but why do you care how the locals look on you? maybe they are just jealous of u, because u win their women over to yourself.

sounds like girls and jobs are not enough to you. in africa, you get black girls and unemployment.

hahahahahaha bad guy

noble71:
all because of pay cheques. People sell their soul because of money.

my guy u will do likewise if u are there too . he's doing his job. or if na you, u go boycott your duty and speak against your employer?

GeoAfrikana:
He can't die abeg.

Let him enjoy his revolution in their custody.

He didn't know DSS will have "interest" in him before he went to shout revolution?!

He was ignorant of the literal and constitutional meaning of revolution?!

Or he didn't see words like 'protest' to use?!

Or he thinks it's beans to be popular like Mandela?!

See, the moment you declare 'war' on any government, just be ready to take anything your eye see.

I'm not saying Buhari is right but Sowore shouldn't expect my sympathy. He's building his career and reputation, I owe him nada.

He's on his hustle and I'm on my bustle. Afterall, Mourinho didn't leave his Spurs job to go and watch AJ.

And don't tell me he's fighting for any public good. All na wash and scam.

#Apolitical

hmmm

wow so this guy is a Nigerian ? never knew until now that I am seeing the word Nigerian written on his chest

fine we know we can't compare but why pick the bad roads in Nigeria to show and pick the best roads in Dubai to show. you want to tell me that everywhere in Dubai is like that and everywhere in Nigeria is like that too ?

ok

never been there , won't mind if i have the opportunity.

PrinxArthur1:
do a good research and ask question b4,try to have cash at least $1000-$2000 b4 u run away from "the zoo" ,travel to a country without a Long history of violence but,if u have the opportunity go to countries like Belgium,Luxembourg,Sweden,Canada ,Denmark,Japan ,south Korea,Cyprus(but Nigerians don dey spoil show 4 there).....hmm italy etc

good evening bro , please what can you say about Cyprus ?

A305:
Personally from my own research and experience, No 5 works like magic, Give it a trial by washing your face like say 5 to 6 times a day and see the magic. See my page for that cheap benz

that's what I do too , even thinking having a small size soap with Me whenever am going out... 10naira sachet water is all I need with it . it works truly

light099:
AJ was in the ring last night to win, not to impress you.
He has always impressed us and will still impress us but yesterday was a day to win by all and any strategy that can make him get back his belts.


I commend AJ for his wisdom, he didn't underrate Fat Yoga, it would have been a shame if he was trying to please people and give Fat Yoga the opportunity to knock him out again, that would have been the end of his glorious career. All those saying they're not impressed would have been the ones mocking him all over the world.

Being a great warrior is the ability to know when to attack and when to retreat.
Wisdom sometimes doesn't make sense on a short term but will make the whole sense in the long run and the long term. Very soon no one will remember the process anymore but the product.

AJ is a wise son.

exactly what I told my friend yesterday that AJ was running around , I told him it's a strategy.

okay

mikkywhite:
Hello my good people of Nigeria. i have some questions to ask regarding to coming to Cyprus with a visitors or tourist visa which ever one and how to extend it when it expires because i dont plan to come back anytime soon. Again how can i get a temporary residence permit with the category of this visa . What is the requirement or any short cut in getting a temporary permit that can enable me travel freely out of Cyprus to other European countries.

are you still in Cyprus ?

TheAviator:
Hello!

I know that Uganda has e-visa, but I would like to ask if they still have the visa on arrival policy.

Thanks

P

you should check with their website , but u think they should have that .

get a normal trunk and transport the cow , must you make the cow suffocate before you kill it.

lilwetdick:
sing and dance to an imaginary God then still come back home corrupt

may God have mercy on you

vincentjk:
When a female student calls me and start sounding somehow on phone i be like ;

Me: what's wrong?
Her: I'm fine don't worry(exepecting me to ask more so she'd tell me she is lacking money)
Me: okay *log out immediately *

hahahah your sense of consciousness towards nowadays Nigeria girls is really awake or awaken . abegi English no my papa language. lol

vincentjk:
I'm hungry o
I want to make my hair o
Baby my B-Day is next month o
I want to come but no transport o
I didn't call because I no get card o etc...

Na their way

hahahahaha you really know them especially that no transport fare they no dey ever get transport fare. lol

na wa o

gurunlocker:
After her fake cry about her husband government less than 2 years ago, I believe no one should take this woman serious again.



Enjoy your power and status as the first lady, you've got few years left and you will be history.

that might be what's annoying her that she's not referred to as first lady instead wife of the president. PMB didn't allow such , besides nothing like that in the constitution

destiny322:
People get mind to leave U.S.A come Nigeria oo

Me I cannot try that rubbish oo... Once I move, never ever again

after some years you go want come back come feel home again then go back. over there you will get to miss the craziness of this country some times . lol

okorotalkative:
Make dem no do like ibadan people that will go and buy one plastic coke inside mall o.

all na still shopping

really?

have you visited their official website to enquire about it first? if no then do that

you don't have business with the expired passport again especially with the fact you overstayed your UK visa while there. my advice is use the new passport.

okay

tobtap:
Oshogbo airport is a waste of money..upgrade d Ibadan airport to serve osun n ekiti states.. Whose cities are within 1-2hrs drive from ibadan.. D money shud be used to upgrade d road n rail service in osun state...

all state in America has at least one airport...so nothing bad if all states here too have one . when flying to Nigeria you can book which state you are going direct .

true talk