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Kizito2nv:
That's my plan. I'm an introvert so it shouldn't be difficult.

Treborblue:
Naso my guy call me the next day o , I para for him head over para e con dey beg me say Na the love wey e get for the girl make I no vex i con block him number. Naso nigga send me 15k . I unblock him number call am thank am con block him number again I don't need bad niggas in my life right now one mind be wan return the 15k lolz I laughed out loud when I thought I even considered it.

franklingud:
Can someone summarize this long epistle!

Munzy14:
1week is too much, 3days part one and two don ready..

Seyzcham91:
if i hear you say one week
One week kee you there
Na just between three days as i've witnessed live before

Ever8090:
How long does it take to produce a movie...? Nawaooo, someone that left the house last week has already played a lead role in a movie.. another reason I should increas my distance from Nigeria movies.

Xoly:
Love is not all about understanding each other's love languages. Love is accepting his/her flaws....

anochuko01:
I intend doingsomething like this o, but was thinking "whats the point"

I staeted dating this very churchy girl in january, and i thought i had finally gotten a good girl o! no lies, shes the type that would be very loyal or committed to one man, not because the tendencies to see other guys arent there, but she's not just the type that would find pleasure doing those terrible things.

anyways, covid happened and after a while that i stop getting paid, madam started acting funny. started being the very "serious" and straight faced person. one day i called her "iyawo" and she gave several reasons why i shouldnt call her that (person wey don dey talk about wedding and name of pikin o ), she then ended it with "this isnt even a relationship, its just dating", na for that point i just give up on her mata.

now the most surprising thing for me is that throughout the 4-5 months that i havent been receiving pay, this girl never even joked about being of any assistance. no day she ever joked and asked "shey i should send you card?", even if na #200, thats despite me intentionally/stylishly telling her that i dont have airtime just to see her reactions. In case you are wondering, this girl works and gets paid. at least do the very very little you can to reciprocate the little effort i used in showing my love and care. Aswear, fear catch me!!!

back to op's story, i was thinking of using his CIA tactics by informing the girl that i just got a very good job and then watch how she acts. if she starts acting lovey lovey, i will just pull the plug on her life support

Toks2008:
If I may ask n if you don't mind me asking..
Please what is your age bracket?

Below 20
21 to 25
26 to 30
Above 30?

Your response will determine my advise to you.

Thanks

WallStreetfx:
Which money we go dey spend for there?

jimmychang:
Reverse psychology

yinkaOdutuyo:
But this is clear bro, a girl is not taking you serious and you're falling for her, ok what do you call this bro??

Fedupman:
Boss,I am a very, honest and lovable person,I am very popular in my area,that's not the problem,I have an office line,and all my customers numbers are saved inside,I just need capital, believe me if I have factory of my own in 3 months,the story will be different entirely,here in my madam's company I make a profit of nothing less than 900k a month.

BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
you are still living in your dream world. Get realistic

Jackyboy:
Yeye dey smell.....no be only ghost na spirit Cant wait for season to begin joor

YoungandDepress:
My story is quite a sad and long one.
I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess.
Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.

I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy.
Life is bitter.

I am a 23 years old guy.
My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16.
A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure.
I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.

They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.

Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.

Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25.
All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.

I'm still stuck in the same stage.
I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.

By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.

I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.

At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account.
I'm broke and miserable.

I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family.
My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.

Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself.
I have disappointed them a lot.


I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.

At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future.
I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.

What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?

I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out.
I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.

Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing.
Completely broke, damaged and miserable.

Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed.
I keep asking myself these questions but there
Seem to be no answer.