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go to the local government where you reside and get married in the registry there...you would be given a marriage document...a slip... just pay them...you can have it back dated if you want.... depending on your pocket


that's the document of proof of marriage

Iamyemmie:
Yes

okay,that means he can bring you to America by Marriage...

now,since he feels you want to use him to relocate...kindly leave him... because that Marriage will be filled with disrespect.

secondly be very very careful before that guy will come to Nigeria and marry you then goes back to America...that way you will be his "Nigerian wife" while he probably has his American wife....be wise girl...that guy may marry you and leave you in Nigeria...you will get frustrated...the Choice is yours ...he doesn't respect you or see you as someone productive that's why he can boldly tell you,you wanna use him to travel....whether you want to use him or not...just know that he will not take you to America... your best bet is to be his Nigerian wife...give him Nigerian kids and die of loneliness in Nigeria......while he sends you $100 a month...and rock his life in Yankee... be wise


I may be wrong but think about if I'm right...


good luck

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone,so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now,no issues
He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad,that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff,that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue
Cos if it comes from me,then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??

is he a citizen of the USA

bro you ain't cursed...this NIGERIA can make one feel cursed....THE CURSED IS NIGERIA NOT YOU


may your legit hustle pay you

where did you put anambra state from 2006-2014?... hypocrite....after the election now(win or lose)...you will go back to PDP or even join APC....greedy imps... believe POLITICANS at your peril


TALKING AS IF YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN PART OF ANY GOVERNMENT....OBI YOU ARE AN EX GOVERNOR...IS ANAMBRA STATE INDUSTRIALIZED?...HOW IS EDUCATION IN ANAMBRA?....HOW MUCH DID INTERNALLY GENERATED REVENUE INCREASE DURING YOUR 8,YEARS?


CLAIMING SAINT...ALL OF YOU POLITICIANS ARE OLD CROOKS,GREEDY AND CUNNING

at 28 what kind of advise would you want to hear now?...if abstaining is your style...stick to it....you didn't discuss it with her before the relationship got this far?...besides having sex or not is absolutely your decision....

date your kind bro... someone that shares the same ideology when it comes to sex... premarital sex....

hahahaha... wahala no dey finish...

Abfinest007:
are u ok.remember he can use his phatform to promote his candidate .u wat have u got

dreamers....look elections in Nigeria ain't won on the internet...you may not understand though....most of these NOISEMAKERS you see you don't even vote...the internet wanted buhari out in 2019...what happened at the end?...you that is okay...well done... continue to be okay....na where you know reach you dey talk...

Twitter has not influenced an election enough....it's nairaland...well done

Stallionhorse:
mumu man.. All those girls you pay 30k for hookup Del no dey carry STD?? Blockhead.. Street girls are wiser and more careful if you don't know..

funny little boy...just see the passion you have in dishing out insults just cus you want to get some girl layed...see your excitement... Lol... junkie... goodnight

the easier you get the sex...the easier you get the STI/STD...be warned

her visa class is important here....

doggedfighter:
He's a strong voice
Remember?

STRONG voice in determining the winner of 2023 election?
how many votes can he command in his street?

are elections won on Twitter or nairaland?
bulk of votes comes from people that are not internet users

seun has just one vote like everyone else
...what relevance is he in.the political sphere..... toothless bull dogs everywhere.. mtchewww

religion has done more harm to this country.... RELIGION/TRIBALISM HAS REPLACED THE VIRTUE OF COMPETENCE...

GOOD LUCK TO OSUN STATE

GOOD LUCK TO NIGERIA

music heals the soul

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elections are rigged using under aged registered voters in rural areas especially in the north....WE LIVE IN DENIAL A LOT IN THIS COUNTRY...I witnessed 6 year olds with PVC in bauchi state(jamaare LG) in 2011..make una dey DECEIVE una sef for this country

BENDEL INSURANCE WILL SURELY BE IN THE NPFL 2022/2023 SEASON....CONGRATS IN ADVANCE!!

get a clean glass
pour water into the glass

sit down
cross your leg
sip the water slowly
smile.....you know why?
BECAUSE YOU GOT NO PROBLEM

Bomberman:
My girlfriend's ex boyfriend wants to betray her..he recorded him and my girlfriend having sex when they were dating (my girlfriend wasn't aware)..he recorded everything and now,he is threatening my girlfriend that he will post the video on the internet just because she broke up with him..what should we do?

be careful bro,don't get too involved in this....how much do you that girl?..how much do you trust her?..so you will be sure you ain't been manipulated... before at the end,you find you so called girlfriend going back to the said blackmailer....things happen bro


anyways advise her to get a chat or recorded call evidence,then go to the police

one of the greatest effects of constant exposure of violence to kids in their environment (family, school etc) is the possibility of the child developing an I.E.D...

this might be lengthy but trust me...it's worth your time....SO YOU WILL KNOW THE LEVEL OF DAMAGE THAT VIOLENCE IN YOUR HOME COULD HAVE ON YOUR KIDS... please read

what's IED?.... INTERMITTENT EXPLOSIVE DISORDER

Intermittent explosive disorder involves repeated, sudden episodes of impulsive, aggressive, violent behavior or angry verbal outbursts in which you react grossly out of proportion to the situation. Road rage, domestic abuse, throwing or breaking objects, or other temper tantrums may be signs of intermittent explosive disorder.
These intermittent, explosive outbursts cause you significant distress, negatively impact your relationships, work and school, and they can have legal and financial consequences.
Intermittent explosive disorder is a chronic disorder that can continue for years, although the severity of outbursts may decrease with age. Treatment involves medications and psychotherapy to help you control your aggressive impulses.

Symptoms

Explosive eruptions occur suddenly, with little or no warning, and usually last less than 30 minutes. These episodes may occur frequently or be separated by weeks or months of nonaggression. Less severe verbal outbursts may occur in between episodes of physical aggression. You may be irritable, impulsive, aggressive or chronically angry most of the time.
Aggressive episodes may be preceded or accompanied by:
Rage
Irritability
Increased energy
Racing thoughts
Tingling
Tremors
Palpitations
Chest tightness
The explosive verbal and behavioral outbursts are out of proportion to the situation, with no thought to consequences, and can include:
Temper tantrums
Tirades
Heated arguments
Shouting
Slapping, shoving or pushing
Physical fights
Property damage
Threatening or assaulting people or animals
You may feel a sense of relief and tiredness after the episode. Later, you may feel remorse, regret or embarrassment.

IT HAS NOT CURE..CAN ONLY BE MANAGED BY SEEING A THERAPIST


STOP ALL FORM OF VIOLENCE TODAY...BE IT PHYSICAL OR VERBAL ABUSE...IT RUINS KIDS AND THE SOCIETY

this country na wa... SMH

this girl should shut up..guess she just wants to trend... fake love

what a man!!...having a side chick is not enough for him then he stylishly brought him close to the wife...that man does not value or respect the wife... exposing her to such danger...what if the side chick poisoned her.. anyways...that marriage is gone...the wife can't forget something like this even if she pretends to have forgiven him...too bad...foolish man. are you the first to cheat that you have to be this stupid...


madam leave the both of them before you die for nothing and leave your kids motherless and have them live like orphans cus that fool of a man will not take care of them...

TO EVERY WOMAN OUT THERE IF YOUR HUSBAND HAS A PERMANENT BABE OUTSIDE,YOU SHOULD BE VERY WORRIED CUS THE LONGER THE TIME YOUR HUSBAND DATES THAT SIDE CHICK THE CLOSER THE TIME FOR YOUR MARRIAGE TO COLLAPSE

it will have very terrible effect on the baby... effects like brain damage,down syndrome or stunted development.

that woman is terribly misinformed or ignorant

Shugavee:
exactly! , well he’s coming to my town , not too far tho , he was the one who set up everything. I don’t know what to expect from that

keep your expectations very low....go on the date,go with some cash...eat only what you can afford....let your order be way below what the guy is ordering for himself...KEEP YOUR PRIDE INTACT...very important...


I wish you the best

bro,you are a blessed man...you got a wife and not a girl....bro please when you hammer don't forget this your wife o...I mean it... don't forget her...her type is rare...love and cherish her endlessly...a woman that loves to see her man happy is really a gift....

more blessings and more years to your marriage

the person taking the other for a date should pay the bills....a date should be according to the budget of the host....LET THE HOST PAY...if you are taking him out...you pay....if he is taking you out...he pays... everything within the budget of the host...

couples/lovers could plan things like vacation together not little things like a date... c'mon

my opinion

sack should be the word... THIS IS NIGERIA,NO ONE RESIGNS......LOL

so your achievement in the whole ordeal is just a three letter word "SEX"? and you were super happy... funny

next time, simply ask her to pay for the service...you make some cash from tapping her bf phone for her


too bad what youths prioritize these days....


good luck buddy

that's why you have the room for dating...all you have to do is find out her mentality and perception about men, marriage and life as a whole....if she has and believes in the perception as her mum...I would advise you take a walk early enough....

DON'T GO INTO MARRIAGE WITH SOMEONE THAT DOESN'T BELIEVE IN THE VIRTUES OF MARRIAGE ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DO BELIEVE/CHERISH THE VIRTUES OF LOVE AND MARRIAGE.

good luck

they always have something to say...well,that's adesina doing his job( his family must feed,)