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ignore her....it's only the court that can evict someone from.an apartment after all due process has been met...these landlords just thrive on the ignorance of most of us...if she touched a pin in your apartment get a lawyer...I repeat...it's only the court that has the right to give order of eviction

hmmm..na wa

naija and chaos sha

how would chelsea replace and have them blend before the new season?.I wonder?

na wa

cus you were told to do your dishes?.. SMH...she cooked and even served you .... entitlement won't kill people Sha.... THIS WORLD WOULD DEFINITELY BE A BETTER PLACE IF PEOPLE GIVE THE RESPECT AND LOVE THEY SEEK FROM OTHERS..na wa Sha...na make communal life dey tire person

which kin yawa be this...abeg I dey go
..sun too much....

NOTHING JUSTIFIES KILLING ANYONE,NOT TO TALK OF SEX...OGA WHY YOU NO JUST KILL YOURSELF PEACEFULLY...WELL THE LAW IS WAITING FOR YOU, HAPPY RECOVERY

baba is living his dream...so na this thing make you cry to be 9ja president?...dreams do come true Sha...enjoy..2023 e go end



meanwhile God grant me my small oil work dream na..e do too tey o ..they say make I bring recommendation letter...I no get who to give me o .if naija no work.. catapult me go abroad go fulfil my dream na....mean while site hustle continues...sun wan kpi person here ..naija we hail thee

candidladyTemp:
Maybe when ieventually got kids(girls) like ah.nie imight drop it...

Thanks rikky for trying to look out for me.




Hell yeah fcking right ...

Guess you must think you are having it better or a better person that me ko?

any time girl..just be good and happy.. surely surely..you gonna have kids...baby girls. *winks*...stay blessed

candidladyTemp:
Ido know he wants what's best for me... And that too could be selfish





Yeah iknow but idont think one can find peace outside the herbs





Thanks ihave dropped a message explaining my reason for the lies

Just hope he understands

you are welcome...just don't feel confused,clam down and take anything you do..one step at a time...the best of everything you desire will definitely find you...I believe so...I understand the "lie"..just be calm and maintain an open mind those everything including the herbs and if any possibility if happiness outside the herbs exist....thanks to a anhie too...thanks for sharing your experience and how you gave it all up for your kids...God bless you ma'am

candidladyTemp:
He knows ispliff, dude been/being my shrink and itold him I'd drop it...

Whenever he around itry to wear another perosna just so he don't find out iam still in it..


Yesterday was just terrible...


Ihate being/been lied to. So iknow how he feels currently..




Thanks anhie... You are indeed a true African lady...

Your kids are lucky to have a mum like you..

you can't continue to wear another look in front of him...that's like hiding yourself from him....us that not a little more of a punishment?...girly the options are

he accepts you or he leaves or you change for real...no need lying to him or pretending...cus lie and pretense may even ruin the friend's you are trying to protect

candidladyTemp:
@B1
Make me a better person ko?!!! What makes me a bad person.. ??

@B2
Permanent peace lies outside?... Really funny


Thanks

... maybe he feels he wants to make you better...a habit may not sort him but that doesn't make you a bad person



happiness outside it (I meant the OUTSIDE THE HERBS)


just don't let anyone pressure you to a new lifestyle you ain't ready for... everything depends on you and your choices...please no pressures from him...change is your sole decision

so now it's more like,
do you want to give change a try,?

if NO,it's not a problem cus you will definitely meet people to accept you that way but would you really trust them as your true friends.


if Yes,then just see the bright side of life outside the herbs,it's not easy though but it will be worth it at the end...sue me if it's not!...

just think about everything removing all sentiments of family,friends etc,you are strong willed,you can do this.

on a final note... please don't let anyone judge you or pressure you...we all have or have had habits... change only comes from you and you alone...once you are willing then it's 50% solved with support from your loved ones...NO PRESSURES...if there's anyway you feel I could help.. I'm just a mention away..stay blessed and let your friend be a little patient with you

candidladyTemp:
My health got nothing to do with Nada... Iknow iam healthy cuz the natural herbs engineered by the earth to give fresh air (peace)


Don't you think its selfishness you wanting in your world but you can't stand a min in mine

.. yeah,it might seem selfish but again maybe he feels he wants to make you a kinda better person..if you must drop the habit though let it be for yourself first not for him..cus if you drop it for him,what if he leaves tomorrow would you angrily go back to the habit?,..but trust me a greater peace lies in a world without those herbs..you find happiness in them,I know my friend but a more permanent happiness lies outside of it...I know you want him to accept you the way you are...it's hard for him too....all I ask of you now is to take a time away from him...try to look yourself in the mirror and look at the good and bad side of the habit...then decide whether to give it a try to quit or continue,it's all about you first before him...sorry girl,this is a very difficult situation *hugs* but I believe everything will be fine and you will always be happy... ofcourse I will always support you and your point is valid about him being kinda "selfish" but again sometimes people walk into our lives and makes us try our new things for the better or for the worse..you will be fine whether he stays or goes

I use to smoke cigarettes...but I looked at myself and said this is not what I really want...this ain't me...and I quit...it's be 13years now...candidlady you can!...you can sacrifice more than just "lying to him about the habit"...go a little higher...you lying means you value him...just go a little higher...push a little

candidladyTemp:
Rikky speak your mic is connected to an outlet that can never be off

...lol...thanks

you see candidlady,I know you value this person alot from the way you called him a father figure in your life...you see it's hard to get people that would love us and stick to us even in the storm...first of all...your health,I know it's hard...very hard to let go...but first we have to know who we really are...the true you..is the true you the the you,you are accepting?..deep down the answer is NO..you can do this for your health then your friendship...only one enemy here..THE MG..defeat it and see true happiness with yourself and your true pal,i.e your friend.... whatever you do girl,your health first before anything else...it will take time but just make up ur mind and take the right steps and I'm sure he will support you through every passing day

sometimes is not about people accepting is the way we are but us accepting ourselves the way we are NOT,all we need is strength to let go of things that doesn't portray the true us.

candidlady this is more like a triangle..you want your friendship,but you need to be healthy to have that friendship and the only enemy to your friendship and your health is the stuffs...THIS IS NOT ABOUT HIM ACCEPTING YOU THE WAY YOU ARE BUT YOU ACCEPTING YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE NOT,THEREBY COVERING THE TRUE AND REAL YOU..




sorry for intrude...don't mind if I get bashed....#runs away

permitted to speak?

na wa

this case might implicate more people..#watching anxiously

amazingly amazed

candidladyTemp:
@bolded

The marigold got all that... And it fix the heart faster than any cardiothoracic surgeon out there

...sure........
how are you doing?...trust your day was good?

great guy...more blessings bro

na wa...sad though

candidladyTemp:
Well nothing repairs a broken heart like getting stoned

... Lol.....I need to sing...forget my bad voice ...singing.... ~when I put you through the fire,when I put you the test,nothing HEALS A BROKEN HEART LIKE TIME,LOVE AND TENDERNESS....you think your world is over,baby just remember this,nothing HEALS a broken heart like TIME,LOVE AND TENDERNESS...the hurt is not gonna last forever ohhhhh~ Lol

Efe42:
Thank you sir you understand me and now I'm feeling guilty for not loving her that's why I'm still begging her I know she's hurt

... don't really..all will be fine...just heal from the hurt from your previous relationship...you are good to go

hahahaha ..na wa... *grabs a cup of water*

adult rape is barbaric,not to talk of a child...na wa...LET THE LAW TAKE ITS COURSE .. NO MERCY

OP...you should have healed first from the previous relationship before going into this one,the baggage from that previous relationship is the issue.....

secondly hitting her was wrong and even in public...just calm down,work on yourself, while you continue pleading with her...she loves you,she would forgive but please try not to let this happen again especially the hitting her..good luck

RUN FOR YOUR LIFE BRO!!...fair weather love kills faster than a GUN... she moved on when she thought you were doomed in jail...too bad...but thank God for your life and freedom..better days ahead bro..the one for you would show up...forget this one

IF AS WOMAN ALL YOU OFFER IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS SEX,IT MEANS YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER ACTUALLY.

IF AS A MAN ALL YOU OFFER IS MONEY,IT MEANS YOU HAVE NOTHING TO OFFER ACTUALLY.

A RELATIONSHIP GOES BEYOND ALL THAT!!!

na wa...but a relationship should not be all about giving sex or receiving money....it shouldn't be just sex and money