₦airaland Forum

MBAleeyu583:
You, that already have the overall best Connect, The connect of all connectors which is the "Almighty God" stand up and pray hard, he hears and sees all mankind, he listens to all of our calls and he will surely answer our prayers, always have this faith in you that everything you see in this life is just a matter of time, just free your mind and let everything flow. All this connect you are hearing about, na Almighty God them dey tell their problems too, even if they can't pray for themselves, they usually pay imams or pastors to help them tell God their problems too

Be serious.

Englishisamust:
Ibadan the most underrated city in Nigeria. So peaceful and loving...

first and best.

Jayhome24:
Professor of propaganda. Madam no need to go to Abidjan to watch the game stay in your house and watch it or forget about it, it is not a must to go to Abidjan so pls meshionu biko.

No pain no gain if you all think your propaganda and ungovernable tactics you are using against your own country simply because one package fraud from my region lost election sorry it won't work, Tinubu as president from the South will spend 8 years in power you see that curse laid on Southern Nigeria that made us to used our mouths and hands pushed Jonathan out of power will never repeat itself never again.

Professor of lie and jargon watch the game in your House or forget it.

When she mention buying 20 litres of fuel to watch the match I just knew she wasn't serious one hit.

Ojemedad:
You reason like archaic man

Is travelling by road now archaic? A very good percentage of Nigerians have never been to an airport talk more of taking a flight.

Rabz4real:
Is next month not too long so??

Na your first time of applying for federal government Job?

noblechoco:
Pls sir , can you share your experience during training plssss 🙏🏽🙏🏽

Dey play

G00dharddick:
Oga does that look like a skit to you?

Even the boy's sister was busy defending her fraudulent brother, the mother gave her a very dirty slap until the yahoo boy interven. U Rush dey say skit

Lol, I burst out with laugher when the mumcy begin the deal with her after that saying work is a work.

Wetin deep inside here, abi your mind shallow?

They can't do nada to homeboy.

MaziX:
Those states that voted for tinubu should protest.. nonsense

Don't be naive.

Good one brother.

Coldspice:
This one's mother carried him for 9 months only for him to use his life and be promoting suyabet.

You're mother can never benefit anything good from you. No be curse.

An Example of a very very stupid moronic specimen with zero value for mothers and lack of perspicacity.

Coldspice:
You don't even know the difference between been and being, but you are saying the club is stupid.

You are also been very very stupid.

ggood:
The chairman is protecting his investment

The dumbass can do that without throwing his country under the bus.

NuCypher:
Chippa United will forever remain in South Africa, while Nwabali will leave at some time. They should choose their battle wisely.

The management is been unnecessary stupid.

IAmHim1:
you dont have to be their friend

thats 1

i wishh i could put it in way you could understand


but see it this way

lets use you for example

you go into a therapist office for a serious issue you're having with your dad and after 2 minutes with the therapist, he starts cravking jokes to make you laugh and cheer you up. he starts making funny signs with his face in a bid to cheer you up and so

after a while, it then dawns on you. that single truth: THE THERAPIST IS INCOMPETENT
the therapist was supposed to be a figure you look up to...not one that tries to make you laugh BUT ONE THAT MAKES YOU WONDER IF THERAPIST LAUGHS OR NOT. ONE THAT MAKES YOU WONDER IF THERAPIST HAVE A FUN LIFE AT ALL OR WHAT. that enigma.

now follow this thought: HOW MANY PEOPLE DO YOU EVER KNOW HAS A ROLE MODEL AS A FRIEND
i mean serious role model that they listen to and follow actively. exactly. half a spoonfull. that familiarity as friends destroys the foundation to be a leader that directs


the girls are not only having daddy issues but mommy issues too. now that their daddy aint around, THE GIRLS WILL BE LOOKING FOR A FATHER FIGURE. now that their mom aint around, the girls will also be looking for a MOTHER FIGURE ALSO.

take a page from single mothers. (now im refrencing ubunja's adventures of pickemisha)

for single.mothers to properly lead a home, she has to strip herself of her femininity. she strips herself off that because she needs to be a survivor for her children and survival is a masculine trait hence a single mother becomes masculine.

NOW SEE YOURSELF AS A SINGLE FATHER.
you cannot ever think of stripping yourself of your masculinity to become feminine cus your new "daughters" now would see you as their fellow woman further driving their need to look for a man that exemplifies a father figure in their live TO FILL THE VOID THEIR ABSENT FATHER LEFT

the girls need a mother figure and a father figure in their lives. you cant afford to be both.
early single mothers that dont wanna be masculine or late single mothers that are tired of being masculine bring in a MASCULINE MAN TO LEAD THE FAMILY SO THEY CAN BE FEMININE AGAIN

so thats what youre gonna do

YOURE GONNA INTRODUCE A LADY OR A FAMILIAR TO ACT AS THEIR MOTHER (mom sister, your blood sister) WHILE YOU ASSUME THE ROLE OF A FATHER

the motheer figure will teach the girl about being a girl( period, calculating ovulation cycle et cetera)
tbe mother figure would have to have a good track record and be role model-y ie no pregnancy out of wedlock, no tatoos or peircing, someone educated unno...someone the girls can look up to becoming WHILW YOU.the father figure will be mainly providing and disciplining

gonna be like the mother figure and you, the father figure will be playing good cop**bad cop unno

the mother figure says "you dont want your dad to find out" on some occasions when need be

and YOU the father figure says "did you discuss this with your mom first" when its issues you know you cant handle (Bra size, et cetera)

i wish i could put it all as it is in my head. but i hope this helps Ricky

Thanks my bro, I decipher what I could. Will implement.

Lavzz:
God gives and take, if God decides not even a so called doctor can stop

Normal compensation talk to allow the situation bearable, I don't rate that trash.

Have you lost your mum few minutes after burying your Dad? You done know what dead is my bro.

SoNature:
God called him when He wanted his spirit; his death has nothing to do with the game. RIP to the deceased and may God give the bereaved family the fortitude to bear their irreparable loss, amen.

How did you know it has nothing to do with the game? Are you his doctor?

TriCee:
Osimhen is quite experienced. Especially in getting those penalties for us.

Like Kanu that year, once him dey 18 yard box either him score or pk sure for us.

This kind news makes one to be angry and loss hope in the country, because clearly nothing can be done.

nairamaniac:
Is it really legit?
Also why do they need to first pay some money? I'm seeing something like 15k in some places

I don't know the person that is asking you to make payment oh, I point was that the program is legit. The matter na between you and the person wey dey ask you to pay.

Fineman2:
The kind of weird stories we read everyday in Nigeria eh

We don normalised plenty anomality for this country.

Kc3000:
This Yusuf guy is too rough.

Anything showed on slow motion always looks intense, VAR has spoilt football.

EreluRoz:
Engage them during those period and go close to them, guide them and build their confidence around you.

Seizing their phones won't do anything, I can't remember how many phones was seized from me back then but I had a secret phone for three years and nobody knew about it. You can never be smarter than a growing female child especially if she's the curious type.

There are certain things you can't stop them from knowing, they'll go behind your back to quench their curiosity but your assignment is to make them see the dangers involved and how it may affect their life negatively. Putting fears doesn't work with females it'll only make them smarter. Take my words

From the onset I try to be the cool uncle by giving them some freedom and encouraging them to the extent that I gave the eldest (who's 21) to be free and if she is to have a boyfriend let her bring him home and introduce him to the family so that we could relate with him, let him be aware of what he is getting himself into and the consequences should anything happened her.

I discuss all this in the presence of the 14 and 16 Niece, to let them know that they should calm down that once they come of age it's all good. But what was the outcome?

About the phone, this is not the first time of seizing phone, I take it and give them back after some days or weeks depending on the offence. I try been their friends and I don't think that approach would work.

Thanks for your input likewise.

My apologies house, I don't mean to derail the thread just need some cold hard truth and approach to this situation.

ValCon888:
Whoever put that signboard don tire for Nigerians with their coconut head.

Funny thing is, they will still dump refuse and say "back to sender" or "I cover my family with the blood of Jesus."

Funny enough I can see a Nigerian doing that, we na one kind people.

luminouz:
Ok. I get you.

Although, there are now at their puberty and raging hormones phase, you can keep up with the healthy fear stuff. Let them know you won't tolerate promiscuity , bad behaviour or anything that will disgrace the family. No boyfriends till they are in 300L or something (find a
balance that works for you) and there are consequences if they disobey these rules.

Taking away their phones sounds reasonable , at least till they enter the university (this may seem harsh to some other people but it is what it is). That makes them to focus on WAEC, NECO and JAMB. Don't restrict them from having any friends at all but make sure the ones they relate with seem focused on their academics and have good character.

All in all, these are my two cents. I wish you the best because it's never easy dealing with kids at that age, especially with the modern world bullshit going on.

Thanks Boss, would give it my best. I really appreciate.

The two, main parlor and visitors parlor.

luminouz:
The issue is the hand that trained them from birth. If it's you, then, you didn't set the ground rules early enough because they seemed too comfortable around you. A healthy fear for authority is needed for kids/adolescents.

If you didn't raise them, then, what exactly do you do for them? Where are their parents? Seizing their phones is a good measure but doesn't limit them from using their friend's phones but the fact that you at least showed some willpower to discipline them is good

Parents are late, both mine and theirs. I was mostly off and on at home with school, work and all that. But believe me bro them they fear (maybe not to the level I dey reason for my mind though) because I dey show them love normal when I can afford it.

The mum and dad trained them, but after the demise of their dad. We had to take them back into the family house some 3 years ago, that's when I started noticing the normality up close and as a normal guy man I can't just fold my hands.

Is there any manageable approach?

Pipefitter:
I don't get why most Nigerian male celebrities think it's cool to snap with cigars or weed

It's cool.