I thought they said we have gained independence... but in our own country we still
treat ourselves like slaves .. Imagine bandits asking for VAT.. even government no get that gut to ask from those category of people..But here we are o. ..A country wey get president all these are happening!
Very soon they will be collecting tithe from all workers... infact this country is a season film.. it will take a very long time to end .I'm beginning to believe the "Jubrill" story.I wonder the kind of manifestos this present govt will come out with against nx yr.Well time will tell.

Sweetplum:

So bad. While we v bad women, we also v the good ones.
May God heal you sir.
Meanwhile, have you ran DNA test on the other kids? If they are yours then I suggest you tell her to return the child to the owner.
I can't take such thing if I m a man.
Try and see if the relationship can work after she returned the child. If it can't work, separate. A broken heart can heal. A damaged home can't heal. Consider your children's upbringing/welfare before making a final decision. You v 3 legitimate kids and 1 illegitimate kid.
If you buy four shoes and one of them isn't your size, will you return the 4 shoes or only the one that's not your size?
Seek marriage counselors if you can't bear it alone or spiritual father/mother and the relation of you and your wife if necessary cos this matter no suppose reach public at all. You ll get more crazy advice like you are getting on Nairaland.
It's well with you.
Link to the previous thread of the op
https://www.nairaland.com/7252543/unsure-father-fourth-child

I respect your point of view.Shits happens in life but it takes the grace of God to overcome.Things like these have scattered many homes but even at that l hv a close relative. that this same thing happened to. ..it was the fourth kid too... It was hot at first that they seprated for years but came back together again.They are together as l speak...l don't pray for such evil to befall any marriage but when it happens the help of concellors n genuine spiritual leaders will help in many ways not the general opinion of people.

JoshTheStoic:
Same thing mine wanted to do, asking me where I wanted to exit to, said I must tell him the company after which he then put query on my resignation letter. Funny thing about training people is that I trained most of their new worker a year before I left, I noticed they will always attach me to new guys and once the guy becomes experience they will remove him from my shift and bring in another new or inexperienced guy from another shift.

Then they will always complain about my shift in which I hardly do errors as if they have been waiting for it. Other shift will have 4 experience guys while my shift will only have 1 or 2 experienced people and most time 2 newbies which means big workload. Then I later found out they were using me to train people.

Fast forward to 6 month before I left I stopped teaching people secret that makes me stand out. I noticed once you make people know the secret of how you do work smoothly and flawless with no error you become common and you will be easily discarded. You must always stay relevant at work place and most important of all, be very political in all your dealings.

I learnt this in a very hard way..Years back when l was still an employee l was the manager of this particular organization .. Although our CEO was a very wicked and nasty boss but at least l used to manage her in my little way..l was to go for maternity leave n another person was brought in by the same consulting company that brought me in to relieve me.. Don't know maybe cos of where the person is coming from ni o...l downloaded all the experiences l gained over the years to her in 2 weeks... Despite the fact that I parted with part of my salary to gain some of these experiences o,l gained some with tears,some
with insult ,some with query....

She ended up taking up my job with the help of the CEO...by the time l resumed.. l was just packed in one corner like sardine... When l
realized l can't work further l just resigned . Although it was hard cos l didn't plan it but at the same time l won't allow someone to treat me like an empty milk can .

Sometimes issues like that are usually stepping stones.I run same business today n l'm doing well by His grace... while the former company has folded up.lnfact the day l drove pass my former boss l really pity her condition.


No condition is permanent... Just be good to people cos table do turn.

That guy is sick in the head.Those things he dey smoke and drink no tally for him body.If na naija l phor say village people..but, sometimes when some lads are too comfortable.. they tend to behave unruly."ise ki n Pani,ayo lo n payan.Rip to the Mom.

Lawalabiodun:



That Osupa Saheed can sing even when dreaming.

I thought l was the only one that noticed this..He is very talented and can sing for hours with ease.

kushma:
The measures taken by Lagos state is very harsh there are other means of punishing defaulters than auctioning their cars off, many those are their means of living. Why don’t they fine them etc. if I see someone buying my car under auction, both me and buyer won’t enjoy the car…….

The measure is very harsh in my opinion too.Even in saner climes they make them only pay fine through their nose.. .I do not 100 percent Support disobeying rules cos some of the consequences are gravely..but,all the same l do not understand the law that gave room to auction.That law must open its face o make we see who wan use law kill Lagosians..
Abeg..oga judge tender justice with mercy next time o.

They were sentenced on the day of the judge birthday so she decided to give them a birthday gift.

eagleccentric:
Good day folks,
Much as i feel sympathetic towards the poor girl's case and pary that she gets a donor soon and her life be saved, i cannot but express my dismay at the situation and see the role of karma in all this. Our people say it is God that drives away flies from a tailess cow.

It brings to the fore the evilmindedness, selfishness and extreme wickedness of the political class in Nigeria. Note that i didnt say Leaders, but political class/politicians. i have not identified any of our politicians who doubles as a leader, how much more a true one, The lady's father, Senator Ekweremadu has been in the corridors of power for donkey years. He was a Deputy Senate President for 8 years and wielded the power to do and undo. He knew his daughter has such an ailment but he never cared to influence any policy to help her and the poor masses with regards to the issue. What do I mean?

Take for instance, the late President of America, Franklin D, Roosevelt. He was the 32nd President of the USA and ruled from 1933 - 1945. FDR as he was fondly called was diagnosed with polio and from 1921, he was paralyzed from the waist down. Infact, he spent his years as a President on a wheel chair. But guess what, despite the numerous problems that America faced during his regime (the Great Depression of 1933 and WW2 1939-45), FDR worked tirelessly to ensure that polio was eradicated from America. He was the one credited to have singularly achieved that feat. May God bless his soul.

Back home here, our politicians will never do that. What stopped Ekweremadu in the years that he wielded so much power and influence to ensure that a Specialized Kidney Hospital or treatment Centre was built in Nigeria for his daughters sake. He knew he had money to fly her abroad anytime he felt like. This selfishness is not peculiar to him. Same goes for former President Ibrahim Babangida, whose wife died of cancer. He never cared to build one cancer hospital for Nigerians. Oshiomole's first wife had the same case, but he didnt care to put one cancer hospital in Edo State. There are many of them like that. They identify a problem, but as far as they can steal state funds, and tax payers monies to take care of themselves and their families, the rest of us can go and die.

When will we have true leaders in the likes of FDR? Who will use his position to help the poor and priviledged? Our hospitals remain in shambles and our healthcare is comatose. Our God will truly drive away the flies from us.

As i said, i feel so much pity for the young lady. I know because i lost my dear mother to the same kidney issues, so i feel the pain she is right now. But let this be a wake up call to one and all and not just the politicians. If a stone stumbles you on your way, do you stop to take it out so that it doesnt stumble others? If your answer is no, then you are no better than the Ekweremadus, IBBs and Oshiomoles of this world. A little help today can save a lot tomorrow.

May God help us all. Amen

Dear brother.. You just nailed it on the head.Truth is bitter but it must be said.

CSTRR:
I am tall, but the excessive love of tall guys in Nigeria has done a whole lot of harm.

It has thrown many women into wrong marriages, drag many women into needless troubles, and made countless Nigerian women lose their rightful partner in life.

Anyway, that is their cup of tea.

You are very right.At the very long run...the issue of the height will be forgotten but it's only genuine love that will stand the test of time.

FalseProphet1:
I see you testing positive to HIV after 3 months, I see you becoming as lean as tooth pick whislt coughing uncontrollably.

I see you going to the great beyond to meet your maker to explain to him why you allowed a whóre to spit on your penís, I see you being directed to hell fire.

I see you and the whóre reuniting in hell to continue from where you stopped on Earth. I see her trying to spit on your penís again in hell but she can't cos the fire has dried all the saliva in her body, I see both of you screaming and trying to fornicate in hell despite the pains.

This I have seen.

This false prophet will not kill me with laughter..

Beni o.

Nigeria own for don reach 100,000,000%

Blunttruth:


You didn't overreact, there is something going on between them, the way you handle it will make her confess. Meanwhile what is your plan for your wife, are you bringing her to join you? Do you intend to leave her here while you will getting your groove on over there and thinking money will keep her body and soul together.

A lot of men abandoned their wives in Nigeria with no plan of bringing them over with them .
It is not all women that can hold spirit, body and soul together..But their husbands expect them to remain an angel while they are free like a bird in the air.
Btw when planning abroad plan with ur family...If you can't go together....try to relocate them asap.The devil has entered many families through this route.May our marriages not fail cos of greener pastures.

Although l'm not really a fan of any politician. But the way the recent government is treating Nigerians is nothing to write home about..So, now that their party has painted everywhere RED ...what will be their manifestos and how will they convince people that they are capable of making this country great again.


In this kind of mess that this government left us l don't think they are sensitive enough to know that a lot of people are watching their DEEDS not WORDS.

Also, it would have been better if President Buhari has left us where we were eight years ago before the change than where we are right now.


Btw, if BAT is not sleeping he should allow Tse Tse fly to bite him so that he can have enough sleep cos l'm sure...it is not because of Nigerians that he's not sleeping...It is for his pockets.

[quote author=Ubycare post=115386820]So that she can be with her wife!
Abeg, na man be this?[/quote


I thought as much.

I'm not really interested in politics but it seems all these polithieves are just playing on one's intelligence

I thought Oshi baba was a comrade and at one time hiding under labour party... wearing clothes like an old farmer.Now he don belle full and started saying trash.

No be person wey bring cripple man come go carry him go home...

Eni ba gbaro wa Loma gbaro lo.

Is it not Alagbado that brought bubu...So he is responsible directly or indirectly for who he presented .

Alagbado should know better that he would be affected by the catastrophies bubu has caused and should have called him to order before now .

I don't understand the grammar Oshi baba is trying to blow .He had better keep quiet before he received a hot slap from nowhere.

Typicool8:
Abi aye oshomole Fe baje no


Translation "be like say oshomole wan dey unfortunate"

You got me laughing hard

Kelsmatuc:
Men dis is so wrong.....what a country
If u are still supporting APC n Buhari....I think u are indeed on d right path to hell...cos no.amount of sacrifice n reasoning will help u

Hell is an understatement.

pacesetting:
Okay. And I hear one minister of Education saying Nigeria has no money.
But we get the one to dash our neighbours. Okay oo.

Not just neighbors o..Na blooders.Blood is thicker than water.

See the kind kobila shoe she put for leg..She fit walk with those heels..Slay queen indeed.The guy too no try at all..R.I.P to the guy in his next life if e hear slay queen he go japa.

Why leave abroad and return to Nigeria...Why not look for another job instead of coming back to this country.You wouldn't have had anything to do with the tout family of yours...Well Sha R.I.p to the dead.

SpecialAdviser:
I keep telling people. Please don't ever think Yorubas are against Peter Obi one inch because of Tinubu. Ignore what you read in this faceless nairaland forum.

A lot of my Yoruba friends are Obi fanatics.
You dare not talk against him in their presence. Same with many Hausas. Ignore agents perpetrated by APC and PDP to cause tribal divisions.

Who to dey suffer dey sweet abeg?
The only Yoruba Tinubu supporters are the middle class getting bribed or working in government agencies. And they are not only Yorubas, even Igbos are amongst them. They are still the people supporting the status quo, supporting Buhari but God will surely punish them in the near future. Their tactics is to tag anyone supporting Obi IPOB in order to gain sympathy.

Who to dey suffer dey sweet?Hmn that word deep for who know word.

I'm sure president Buhari is not aware of this case concerning his blooders...else they would have been freed by now.

Saying thank you is just pure courtesy...lt's not as if one is not entitled to his/her opinion



Btw when you thank some bosses they will be feeling like a demi God.But it's always good to say thank you as the case may be.It won't add or subtract from you.

gabolak:
Hope it won't reach the stage where those members of the National Assembly won't be able to hold their sittings in the chambers anymore.

LOL

I've always thought about this: that revolution will be the solution to some issue in this country.We are too calm on a lot of things... even at the verge of it taking our lives.



Nigerians tolerate a lot of shit.Part of the reasons we are still on this level.Make everywhere red if e wan red make everybody dey alright las las.Our government needs some vawulence from the citizens make their brains reset.

The pains and humiliations l experienced when l was an employee motivated me to start my business and turned the pains l experienced during those times to power and purpose.


I'm also motivated by realizing that all these 7 to 7 resumption and working round the clock without taking into consideration of holidays to cool and refresh the brain na wash n stress. We open for business 9 to 4 and observe most public holidays,go on leave and still get all things done and still make our good profit by working smartly.



Also been able to treat my staff better than how l was treated when l was an employee....and able to yield quickly to the needs of customers.I deal with each customer the way l wanted to be dealth with if l happened to be a customer.This also motivates me.

Some men/women can be very deceptive..Let's be faithful to our vows..lf you can't keep ur vows don't make them.. Stay single.Although what the Lady did was insane between it's not everybody that will leave matters for God to judge or will opt for divorce.


Some will take laws into their hands cos they can't handle the betrayal in a sane manner.l condemned what she did totally cos on no account must we take another person's life..when it's not as if she did for self defense.In summary stay truthful to your vows May God rest the soul of the departed.

anonymous1759:


Does Nigerian marriage law applies in the west too ? Eg if you marry her in Nigeria and take her over will she have the same rights like if you’d married her In abroad?
Because you barely hear Nigerian men loose their properties after divorce In Nigeria the law kind of protect the men too.

Very good question..

nairalander2020:
For example I be man you be man then I look into your eyes and say I love you, isn't that funny like madness.

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Honestly,e pass madness.To Imagine it is even sickening.

Who will see this thing n believe he can hurt a fly.... Sometimes look is deceptive.

FalseProphet1:
I see the north abandoning Tinubu, I see Atiku and Kwankwaso defeating him in the NE and NW, I see Peter Obi winning the Christian section of the NC, I see Peter Obi becoming the next president of Nigeria.

This I have seen.

On this one you will soon become a true prophet.