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maasoap:
Now, everyone has moved on with their lives and left him behind. The battle has become only that of him and his family. Even the remaining amount of money left in the account of #Endsars organisers was looted and shared by its coordinators but gave the public a bogus expenditure analysis. This is the reason I don't follow crowd.

I don't follow crowd too.. Those years in the uni, during aluta you can never see me with crowd.Do things really work by protesting in Nigeria...Se the endsars that they said no body was shot or got injured na in leave this guy like this.Na real wa for this country o.

frozen70:
It happens to every man

Women too are going through the same thing

But self discipline is the key

That is the word.... self decipline.lt's very important for men and women.Self discipline help you to overcome thoughts like this.. You will know your body is too important/ holy for you to be sharing it with everyone.

So many people lack this n that is why some people have multiple body counts even with a lot of issues.It's better when you are able to experience sex just with the person you are married to .When you didn't experienced any before hand ...it will be easier to stick to only that person...But when you have tried many kpekus/gbola you might not be able to tame yourself anymore even after marriage.

Sade and chief Okoya came to mind.HML

When l see that l'm the one trying to force myself on someone... his mind is not with me..l can never beg , struggle or compete for love.l'll rather leave you honorably.

frozen70:
Just be calm and focus on your children

You have to be strong and train those children especially on education

As for your spouse, don't give him shishi, don't even look at his direction so that he doesn't weigh you down

So far he is not caring about the whole situation and he doesn't bring food, feed your children, he will sort himself out

The more you become pregnant the more the burden for you

Beni ..any man that is not serious in the category of ur husband should not be allowed to father more than one child... infact l have examples close to me..At most 2 kids cos the burden will continually be on the woman..So it is very wise to be on an authentic birth control method around them or else sorry be that person's case.

Sirmuel1:
…and you think the Devil is so stupid to make you rich, and happy?

Abi o.Devil wey go give you 10million collect 100million from you.

Jestin:
3 square meal sure. I nor dey use my stomach joke with anybody coz las las , na the one u eat for ur body be ur own. The houses and properties will be WILLED to someone else

LOL... This is exactly what my mum says.If one is oppurtuned to stay with her.She can feed you 6 times a day.

Years back that was how one guy killed his brother in my street cos of 2 cups of rice.After cooking the rice the pregnant wife of the elder brother brought plate.. you know how pregnant women behaves now... but the younger brother insisted on not giving her part.
Vuah! that was how oko iyawo took the rice forcefully for the wife n this infuriated the younger brother n he took a knife to stab his brother on the chest..He didn't die immediately but due to carelessness of taking him to a muchroom clinic,he died days after.Not knowing he had an internal bleeding .

The door of their house was locked for weeks cos they didn't want any law to take that.That was how a life was taken cos of 2 cups of local rice .l don't know who to blame maybe na poverty , anger or the devil....

Btw,the faces of the bread couple is too fine for that nonsense story.The devil is a liar.Rip to the woman.

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lawanifumila:
Each Time I See A Beautiful Woman Without Husband. I Realized That Men Are Not After Beauty Again, But A Good Character.

That's true.. l used to think that it is the beautiful ones that get married quickly before but now l know marriage is far beyond that.

Karnice600:
I went for a night parry, back in Uni at a Friend's . His house was quite large and spacious with rooms. The celebrant's family house to be precise. The parents were out of the country to visit his eldest brother in the US, whose wife just put to birth.
I had a quarrel with my girl at the party and told the whole house I couldn't stay under the same roof with her. Despite pleas, I left the house to feed my stupid ego and went to a carpenter's house down the street. The guy was a guy who related with me quite well irrespective of 'educational differences'. I called him on the phone and he opened the door for me.
The whole environment been get light, na only this guy no come get light.
The guy house come hot pass furnace, since a large part of his room was usually exposed to direct sunlight during the day and he usually had less ventilation too.
The guy had a huge bed and his floor was covered with rug. Me wey dey sweat like kilode. I weighed the options and slept on the rug. I tried ignoring being soaked from my sweat but sleep left me completely when, after my body begin itch me for different parts, I switch on torch for my phone to discover clusters of bed bugs around me. Creepy feeling.
I got a plastic chair and sat outdoors, watching the stars and using my shirt to wade of quitoes. I pass the night like say I be vigilante. Recalling that experience gives me an itchy feel I can't explain.

Exactly the same way l slept in a friend's house over night .. in the middle of the night all my body started itching me n l thought it was mosquito n when l couldn't take it again l stood up to on the light and lo n behold l saw the most magnificent bugs l've never seen before.While my friend was snoring away.l couldn't sleep over night..Na so l do vigil cos of bed bugs o.if you see all my body the next day..ha! na catastrophe..I hated my self for days bf my body smooth back..l never went back to that house again.

habsydiamond:
Does her dying means the guy will not date another girl... some people sha... why do u have to let a break up end ur life... a disappointment ought to have a positive impact in one's life and not the other way round.

Most of the success l have recorded in my life has been as a result of dissapointment, hatred,betrayal, frustration et al... These have helped me to use my brain,my energy, leave my comfort zone and use the God given wisdom given to me.Only if she knew how to turn the dissapointment to a good situation .

Badabada:
So wetin dis one go tell baba God now

... That death dey hungry am.

advanceDNA:
It always looks weird to u when the tables have turned..... when a man says he doesnt want a parasitic woman in his life....u women will call him broke, immature, and all manner of names........

U women actually know the right thing.... but when u are on the collecting end...u see nothing wrong with it

In as much that l'm a woman...l like this analysis...No one must be a parasite on another.lt must be a symbiotic relationship.Nevetheless it is not too good for either a lady or a man not to go to school, have a business or learn a skill before getting married..The end result is mostly a catastrophe .

It has nerve been this worse.May another Buhari never happen to this country again IJN AMEN.

Alphamale101:
Nah to begin fast and pray make madam get belleh ooo

Abi o

MarketDispatch:
Used to date a lady that moaned loudly back in the days. During sex she will be moaning loudly and I will be shouting shh shh shh shhhh.

I had to stop saying shhhh shhhh shh when she asked me during one of her moans if I was owing the Landlord.

You people no go kill me for nairaland.

Bintabisiriyu:
When ever they start fu,cking just go and bang on their door and yell, "oga let me hear word na una too dey shout"

You wan use laughter kill me..

Some yrs back l had something similar to this.. infact terrible than this that l can't go out during the day without being embarrassed...Thank God say l don marry that time....
I went to a teaching hospital..UCH to be precise n started attending a skin clinic.The medications worked actually but it keeps coming back.Not untill l met an angel that told me to buy a small cream of ..then it was 50 naira .. after l don spent fortune.
Na..50 naira authentic herbal cream did the magic o.uptill now l no hear am again.

atdscentofwater:
Oh my God
Dear human, whatever you going through, just know that "This too shall pass"

It shall surely pass.l have been there before as an undergraduate.. What the devil always whisper to my ears is to run into an uncoming vehicle..but thanks to my maker who delivered me .
Between ,as if the certificate is a sure banker to secure a job..Lt is not how far but how well.
May God rest his soul and deliver other people with this thought..It shall surely pass.Though time never last.....it is well.

What kind of stupid friendship relationship is he having with a drug addict...May God give him sense next time if he have the opportunity to come to this world again...Drug addicts are very unstable ..u can never predict their actions.

"Ole gbe ,ole gba"Thief carry am...thief snatched am.See the lady's eye lashes like eagle wings.What a life!

azikiweironsi:
On this, I support the governor. In as much as I like Oyetola, I think promoting about 30 directors to position of Permanent Secretaries on the eve of his departure is very distateful. Over bloating the size of civil servants payroll immediately after losing the election is not only barbaric but to cause confusion and setting traps to the incoming government. Politics apart, why doing all these when Oyetola had ample time in four years to employ but rushed to do these in order to unsettle the incoming government.
On this Oyetola,in my opinion you are wrong on this. It is not fair politics apart.

Yes it is not fair.He just wanted to cause chaos for the incoming governor.Baba don dodge his head from stone.Baba ti "yeri foko."

faithfull18:
If you marry the right one who truly understands what marriage is about, truly loves God and keeps his commands, doesn't cheat or sleep around, is 100% honest and transparent about everything, is diligent and you both can work together to achieve common goals, you will enjoy heaven on earth

To marry the person that has the fear of God is very essential cos there are times that it'will be the word of God that will keep them going.Other things might not matter again.

Moreover it keeps couple away from a lot of distractions like: adultery,night crawling,unforgiveness, fight,hatred,malice and so many others.When couples have God as the author in their marriage then they have a good will.Though marriage is not a bed of roses o...but they will be able to conquer most things that comes their ways .

A man or a woman must standup for something and it will be the driving force of a marriage and what or who we stand for goes a long way to determine the type of marriage we'll build.

meobizy:
That man lived a hard life. The average forty-five year old today looks a lot fresher.

I dey wonder too if the man is 45.He looked like one 60 something person.l wonder the miracle a carpenter can perform in a school...When it's not a show room.Na by force to collect ur wife's property?Na sorry be ur case now.

[quote author=olatade post=118589864]Where were her parents, friends and relatives during this time of imprisonment? This is too barbaric![/quo



I wonder too where her people were.
Na only eyes remain for her body.. other parts don melt.

How many of his children work on the farm before they eat?A good leader leads by example.

Part 11....... loading @the loo.

Upon all the things we are facing in this country na to dey change naira note be the next thing...This country won't stop amazing me.

Grasshopper.,.,the big brown one.When l was in primary school ...na so l catch am for school bring home and as my grandmother sighted it like this..she just roasted it for me make l chop..it was sweet anyway but,l no fit chop something like that again.

FalseProphet1:
I've eaten toad. It was raining that night and some of my friends caught it, killed it and prepared it. I ate one of the legs and it was so delicious. I'm hoping to eat more soon.

This I have seen

Prophet you didn't see anything on this one o...cos you've eaten it already.