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Blu03:
And the young woman would still waste her time and energy to take care of his baggage children. She would cook for them, wash the dishes, wash their clothes, etc

After doing all this , she still doesn't deserve a pass ;- Says Martinez

Michellekabod2:
Martinez39s is a liar,a colossal liar,hypocrite and coward.

You can say that again .

He's one bloody hypocrite .

proclinician:
This is awful. You can tell anyone what you wish to tell them but leave their parents out of your rantings.

Here we go again . Pot calling kettle black .

You're in no position to tell me if it was awful or not .

If he wanted a sexmate , why ask me ? .
*******

And Yes , I know it's was awful but I'm not feeling apologetic .

Single dads get a free pass because they are the ones financially responsible for their kids

This level of hypocrisy is on a level unknown .

Single dads are financially responsible for their kids ?? .

Where does that happen ? .

Because they're financially responsible they automatically get a pass ? .

Meh , After reading this write up , heaven knows I almost threw up at your level of hypocrisy .

Kennedyiheme02:
if i was gay trust me I'd be the one bashing men... we see alot of men on Romance section bashing other men... those are the gay ones..

You're a gay whether you admit it or not

Kennedyiheme02:
lol dont ridicule yourself anymore.. even your friends know I'm stating factm. You're the onlyone always forming strong head

Which of my friends agree with you ? .

You're the only one ridiculing yourself here . Always carrying women matter for head .

nuel101:
You’re just a bitter soul ... �

You're no different .

Offpoint:
Riele stop insulting people parents, it's a terrible character to throw insults at some parents.

If you have the urge insulting someone, keep it within them.

I know it's a terrible character even I am ashamed of doing that .

But some peeps here need to know their limits playing nice with them won't help .

Dande55:
Maybe, you in particular. Cos, upon all the news ladies see on internet about fraudsters, kidnappers, ritualists, drug peddlers, rapists, cultists, politicians squandering money etc, no lady has ever generalised any type of name for these men. But somehow, you think you deserve to be called a hoe or whatever by online riffraffs cos of some few misguided ladies.

Loud it please .

Kennedyiheme02:
i thought you were gonna say "where's the lie". Isn't that you girls slogan

You claim to know a lot about women .

When will you come as a gay ?

Kennedyiheme02:
you're just a girl who loves her own lies.. the funny thing is you're making quite a mockery of yourself cos everybody herr knows men dont attend shiloh

Smh . Only a man who attends shiloh knows the number of women there . You are a regular member there for you to know only women attend it .

I'll rather love my lie than accept your lie Sissy .

Blu03:
i personally don't like the sight of a man kneeling down...

Loud it sis .

Kennedyiheme02:
lol back then in 2013 i remember promising alot of girls marriage on Facebook .. on average i knacked maybe 5 a month.. i was taught the technique.. i pity any lady believing marriage posts on NL.. you can thank me for saving your asses here and revealing the trick

Modified** alot of men attend shiloh? You girls on NL tell too much obvious lies

Yes . Men attend shiloh too so don't be surprised .

What you did back in 2013 is your problem . The men here searching for ladies to marry ain't you .

Please swerve

Kennedyiheme02:
lol those ones are fools probably just playinh around.. be real with yourself and tell the truth for once ... have you ever seen men go for shiloh?.. marriage is very easy for men.. not so easy for you is it.. ever wondered why most nigerian female celebs aren't married..and thier male counterparts are..

And what makes you think they're playing around ?

Yes , lot of men attend shiloh .

Our celebrities are single cuz they want to remain single to save themselves the stress you men offer .

Don't think you as a man have anything to offer . Most people are disgusted at the sight of you all .

So swerve .

sassysure:
Forget online brouhaha.
Single fathers will never have problem marrying miss world.
It's never a gender war.

Even the ones hunger dey wire.

U know, I love being realistic most of the time.
We preach one thing and do another.

In this nairaland alone, I know like 3 ladies married to single fathers.
Single fathers don't usually have baby drama. For any man to opt to be a single dad, he must be good. So ladies actually seek them out.
Ladies who have medical history of getting pregnant,are above menopause, etc. Their luck.

I'm talking about what happens in real world not nairaland.

It's never a gender war. Wonder why people made it so in the first place.
And based on our societal norms, if u make it a gender war, u will always lose.
There are so many good men out there as there are so many good women.

We are not AA but from sub Saharan Africa where patriarchy still rule.
The AA people we are imitating, are they not lost?

This reality you're talking about , I also haven't seen single mothers having a problem when getting married .

For the rest of what you're saying , I don't see it's correlation with my post .

Kennedyiheme02:
lol these are words you know its true but you'd pretend to not understand

Your response to me was laced with lies to cover up your already depressed life .

I won't believe a load of crap .

Lot of men are on this forum looking for ladies to marry , so cut the whole crap

Kennedyiheme02:
oh you know well we do you guys a favour by marrying you... isn't that why we see women desperately searching for husband for 5 years with no hope ... have you ever heard a man look for a wife that long?.. almost every girl i date wonna marry me .

Load of crap! .

Sorry , I can't decipher what you're trying to pass across in your words .

Kingrexyl:
When will you start being serious? why don't you get engaged with your books?
you are always here arguing with people, what's actually wrong with you kiddo jeez!

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EasternPrince:
It's not your womb, nor the fear of bareness yours.

Mart, give the woman a break you've been murdering them for 2 days straight.

He'll call you a simp now .

That's the only thing he's good at doing .

I really don't understand the logic behind Kneeling to propose .

****

Who deceived this OP into thinking he's doing a woman a favor by marrying her .

Men like you are the one's I bide and cast away from my life .

PapaNnamdi:
they are not one-sided ,pls stop derailing this thread,

They are one-sided but you're too much an hypocrite to see it .

As far as you keep quoting me , this thread will be derailed .

crackkhaus:
You must really be slow to presume to instruct me on what I should mind or not mind.

OMG

I'm so sorry . I didn't know I was arguing with some retard .

Jeez , To think I thought you had sense .

Phew . Iranu

crackkhaus:
Another dimwit.

So let's assume that I'm worked up.
How would you explain this?

Am I the society, or the menace, or the single mom?

What exactly should make me worked up about the OP telling people not to stereotype single moms?
Are you slow?

Woah woah woah .

Mind the use of words ! . We won't want to go down that lane


Your comments here shows you're worked up .

crackkhaus:
Menace is a strong word. I don't think single mothers or fathers are a menace to society I just don't believe any young man/woman with choices should be involved with them up till the point of getting married.. It makes no sense.

Of course single parents can get married, but let it be balanced -
Marry someone who understands your struggle and situation it's that simple.

They're not a menace to the society ? .

Why then are you so worked up ?

Barristabola29:
So giving her money is now the deal breaker

You didn't answer my question

Barristabola29:
But atleast she should still be chatting with me like before na

She should be chatting with you like before because ?

Petyprincess:
Lol nigga she's done with you!! Mission accomplished

She didn't ask for money o . He decided to give it to her .

I don't know why he feels entitled to her .

Mission accomplished jare

Blu03:
blasphemy!

crackkhaus:
Anytime someone with limited thinking ability tries to makes sense of things beyond their mental capacity, these are the kind of rationalisations they end up coming up with.

That men should do well to avoid getting married to baby mamas is not stigmatisation, it's common sense.

There's no logical or sensible reason why a young man with a full life ahead of him ought to get himself involved with a woman who has a child(ren) from a previous relationship or marriage, none whatsoever.
I don't have any issues with those who do though, it's their decision but if my own brother or son tries that shìt, I will do my best to discourage him with very good reasons.

Life is already complicated, there's no need to complicate it further in a bid to appear woke and modern.

Let single mothers/baby mamas be with single fathers/baby daddies... SIMPLE.

You're right , you know ? .

Life is too complicated , why complicate it further ? .

I have an aunt that's nursing the idea of getting married to a single Father , like why the hell should a reasonable person like her with lot of life dreams decide to get married to a man with kids from a previous relationship too bad his baby mama is dead

Single Fathers are menace to the society , marrying them is something I'm strongly against .

Kennedyiheme02:
lol you do.. if not you amd your freinds wouldn't be attacking every red pill thread

Define Attacking pls

Where did I attack redpillers ?

Go do your search here , I only wanted his reasons for attacking single moms ! . He couldn't place a reason .

Telling him his meme's are one-sided isn't called attacking . They are really one-sided .Trying to paint men as saints .

Kennedyiheme02:
i know you're threatened by the fact that all we are doing threatens your relationship goals. you might end up single

I don't remember saying I needed a man in my life

You are the only one feeling threatened here .

This whole argument started from the fact that OP couldn't answer a simple question thrown at him , I don't know why you all are acting up