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So sorry about your situation. It happened to a friend of mine. She got pregnant for this guy and the guy told her to abort the baby girl. she didnt. She bore the shame all through. She got pregnant for the guy the second time and the same thing happened. He told her to abort it and she didnt. Now the plan getting married after the two children. I pray it works for them.

Most guys dont think with their heads. The enjoy the koko but if the outcome turns out like this, they arent bold enough to face it.

My advise is---- dont allow him see the pretty girl, he is not worth it.Dont be threatened by him, he cant harm you.

I was thinking he came to apologise or something cos there was in naija film i watched that something like this happened and the man was to come and apologise to the lady becos he wldnt have children of his own. I think after the apology the man cld now have his own children.

Anyway, dont have anything to do with him for now. Just take ur time to think of what to do.

Cheers!

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How long have you two dated? I think he is not close to you and he is not ready to have any serious relationship with you.

Why bother yourself?

I strongly disagree with people that are saying that 27year old guy is too young for marriage. If you have a good job and you are in love with a girl your heart truely desires, what are you waiting for?I've seen younyer guys settle down.

Actually there's no harm in waiting if you are truely sure the guy loves you, but i advise that if you really love him and he does the same and you are VERY SURE he will marry you when he is 32 as he said,then wait.

Apart from that i advise you find someone else cos five years is no joke and as u said u are both working so what is stoping you guys from settling down?

I put too much salt in the moi-moi i was making. Another day, i put too much water in the Yam porridge i was cooking.Now i'm very careful when adding extras.

Personally, i dont see anything wrong with him having a child. Atleast he told you about it on time,moreover you've only known him for three weeks. If the relationship will lead to marriage, you still have enough time to know if you will be able to cope with the situation. A friend i have has a girl child and i dont see that as a threat to me if the relationship will lead to marriage, even if the child was a boy it doesnt make any difference.

So just find out why he left his former girlfriend after having a child for him, he should have a reason.

You really need to be strong and have a good heart towards the child if you are going to be his step mother.

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I called the number, a lady collected my phone number that she will get to me.

I havent bought shares before and would like to start with this Daar Communications own.

Please i need advise, is it a good deal to start with. I asked a colleague of mine who is into shares and he said Daar may not do well in the market.

My boss is also into big time shares, right now he isnt bought Daar shares yet.

Should i go ahead and buy?

It's like any other day. I'll go to work, come home and sleep.

Nothing so fascinating about Valentine's day. If you are married, ur wife/husband should be showing you love everyday of the year. It must not wait for Val's day(14th Feb.).

And if you are single and hooked, it's same thing, your Guy/babe should be showing you love everyday of the year. (Personal opinion)

Freedom to do what you want to do and when you want to do it.(I'm not talking about negative /bad things). You visit who you want to visit, go where you want to go etc no one telling you what to do.

Though someday you will want to get married, but you just have to enjoy your singleness cos when u get married you cant be single again.

So singles, enjoy this moment.

N70 is a very nice phone. Though i'm not phone freak. But the phone is a nice one. I see something new in it everyday.

Calabar is really a good place to live in. I've stayed there since i was born, but because i served in Lagos i had to stay back and job hunt. Right now i long to work there because its a quite place,clean,peaceful and what have you? Its a good idea.

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