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They are boring outside NL

I will akiolued her mistakenly

stunningjudy:
Rittyben, thanx for posting this, I got the job! I'm resuming tomorrow.

Congrates dear

peeparty:
u knw d code.okpo records

yes na
Ndi eyen

peeparty:
......so my friend complaining. He said he had a misunderstanding with his fiancé, and for 3month there was no physical contact just calls and chat.suddenly she decided to pay him a visit unannounced.when it was time for end time tinz.......He discovered she was wider wider wider,..And it wasn't like that before.

...if you found your self in such situation what will you do?what would be your reactions? and what decision will you make.







....dem never chi chum chin.

Them never chi chum chin

jamex93:
Like any funky gathering

Lol

jamex93:
Yea sure


I can allow dat occasionally


Depending on where we wanna go, and wat we r going for

Lol
Biko like where?

wunmi590:
Pishure or u are.......

sweettease:
What exactly did you see

wunmi590:
Pishure or u are.......

Its there now

ntwk o

I just saw this. i wont rock it.

Well u dont wanna know

peeparty:
We're av u been my goodfrnd?

Have been great.

Send your CV

IDEApro:
pls op is this job still open, cos am interested.

Send your CV

Hmmmmm! as una dey sing war so, na only for movie e dey sweet o.

During the Biafrian war, The Yorubas betrayed the Igbos and the war was lost to the Hausas.




Amaechi might be an Ikwere name, but Rotimi is definitely a Yoruba name.
I rest my case. So sad

During the Biafrian war, The Yorubas betrayed the Igbos and the war was lost to the Hausas.




Amaechi might be an Ikwere name, but Rotimi is definitely a Yoruba name.
I rest my case. So sad

Kagame:
Election going on where in PH??

Thought all elections were concluded yesterday in Rivers state ,except for some riverine areas.

No it wasnt. I am in Obio/Akpor LGA

Am in PH now and election is still going on. Pls who is stopping them from voting? SMH

Tallesty1 Happy Birthday Dear

Good looking and intelligent single ladies that are interested in working as Sales assistants in a boutique in PH for salary btw 40-50k send your CVs to raddventurestrust@gmail.com before Wednesday 1st April 2015. Thanks

Happy Birthday Mizmycoli.
I wish to meet you oneday
Keep being who you are.

Phoenixfrank:
Yo girl where else am I suppose to drop this other than here.

Lol

Phoenixfrank:
I was attracted by the words "single mother", because it's kinda related to my project. Firstly, how are u gonna disrespect the idea of single mothers by narrowing it to some lady without patience, self control and complete disregard for the societal norms and values. To be more realistic than judgemental, marriage and family is a social value in the Nigerian culture. So deviating from the approved procedures of having a child is a shame. Am more provoked by ur limited idea of single mother because my mother has been a single mother for 15yrs with 5kids there are so many more like girls who had be sexually harassed and are living with that, widows with 6-9kids and even newly wedded whose husband left them with 2-3kids and all the responsibilities. And u come here trying to justify ur silly deviant behaviour and the consequences package that came with it. Yeah we all make mistakes but don't be magnifying urs like it the worst in the world.


Secondly, how u respect the challenges of single mothers like that... narrowing it to the psychological effects u suffering for ur deviant behaviour?
Girls am pissed better start putting ur brains to better use. start thinking. A single mothers challenges are far greater than that.

Channel this anger to the right source dear.

[quote author=SAMBARRY post=31720035]Wetin consain you and society. Woman up and stand by your decision after all if you don't stand for something you will fall for anything. If you woman up and face your baby nobarryyy will have the effrontery to face you. Even if them give you one give them 5

The only thing I am against is that if you don't have the resources to be a single mom don't bring a child to this world to come and suffer. We already have enough nuisances in this world including nl[/quote
LOL

coogar:
come off the pity-party rubbish.
you knew the kinda society you come from before you made the decision to bear the child. since you knew the criticism of the society would get to you then you should have aborted or......avoid unprotected sex.

lol Am glad i took the decision i did.

MizMyColi:


Waiting for those who are the perfect expression of judgmental(ism) to fill this thread.


Rittyben

Lol
They are arriving

Our society frown so much at single mothers. People see them as irresponsible girl(s) that "God decided to expose". You introduce your child, the next question is "so you are married", or "thought you are single". You confirm that you are single, the next respond is "oh" or they make one funny face.
But in truth, our only crime was to say NO to ABORTION.

Lazerus

Just note interested. it feels like whatever they have to say r lies. where as not same with online stuff. Does it still have to do with my Temperament?

sollex:
@rittyben, I believe @mizmycoli and @bedfordng really gave good explanations for you. However, I will like to buttress their points by saying, You often find it easier to chat online because ample time between conversations are there and u don't feel tensed will conversing and hence gives u time to think well and compose your self before responding which is not the case with physical interactions. This often times is a function of your kind of person ( temperament ). To overcome such, you will need to learn to express your self and your thoughts when u have a physical meeting with someone. This involves been confident, putting away fear of screwing up, composure etc. The list goes on and on. Try to also consider areas you feel are your weak points in physical conversations and work on them. And mind you, for most people, meeting someone for the first time often takes time before acquaintancy is achieved.
I hope you are satisfied now. Enjoy.

I just saw this and thought to share. Are christains not allowed to be romantic? SMH.