MizMyColi:


Yeah

I can relate with that.
Especially when you live the 9 to 5, triangular life.

Work-Church-Home.

For some of us, it's a straight line.
Work-Home.

And then there are times when it feels like, will I ever find someone I like?

Lolz.

Well, if you're that interested in getting a girl, you might wanna force yourself to start socialising in your area, going to parties, small get - togethers et al.

I used the word "force" because as much as we like to shy away from it, some of us prefer the comfort of our rooms and phones to weekend famzing.
It boils down to personality types.

My candid opinion is that you let that happen naturally. Perhaps you work in a place that is devoid of or filled with girls --- you'll meet her someday. Just keep believing.

Personally, I reckon that I have no control as it pertains who I'll settle with. So I learnt very early to abandon that department to my creator while I keep Living and Learning.

Ultimately, it matters not how many guys or girls take a liking to us, what matters is that we actually meet and settle with THE ONE.

Qualer:

i have been watching you in silence all these while and i can confidently declare that you are the most eloquent female on this forum. just a little tweak in some aspects and you'll be the bomb. keep up the good work, we are watching!

Okay. Thanks.


By tweaks, how do you mean?

MizMyColi:


You should ask questions first before jumping into conclusions.
You on the other hand quoted me to make a rather unscrupulous comment by implying that I might likely get to have more than meets the eye with a person who harmlessly asked for my help and I gladly reciprocated.

Now, that's rude.


If you or anyone else think of me as rude and whatever ill-thought there is, it means my goal is gradually being accomplished.
It is perfectly okay to be human, flaws et al.

I am Human, not God. Like everyone else, I am capable of faltering - it's your cup of chinese tea if you can't stomach that.

Cutehector:
women!

MizMyColi:

Cutehector:
lol.

I'm sorry if my harsh/angry tone got at you okay
I'm just tired of people having this perfect image of me when I'm a human being just like them.

Pele shogbo

Let's not talk about this anymore.
Nuff Derailing Already

MizMyColi:


I'm sorry if my harsh/angry tone got at you okay
I'm just tired of people having this perfect image of me when I'm a human being just like them.

Pele shogbo

Let's not talk about this anymore.
Nuff Derailing Already

simdam500:


For where? Love isn't...

Teespice:

stop being a pessimist.

rittyben:
My strongest, longest and sweetest relationship is always online. physically i cant do one. i dont know why.
cc Mizmycoli

bedfordng:
it is more easy to chat with some one online since you will be in the shadows. Online chatting can even make a shy person talks as if they are master in dating but physical meeting will expose their real self.you begin to wonder if the person you chatted with is really the same person you meet due to the way both of you would relate physically.online dating is more easy to come by than physical because you don't see each other and can say what you like to each other but in physical, it is a different ball game which requires physical approach, not online anymore since it would appear like it is your first time seeing each other in person, so the espectation would be a mixed thoughts from both of you.those sweet things you used to say will be kept mute, those lovely and funny jokes you make will be kept mute because your real self will manifest.you can't form james bond on chat and become love doctor in physical.it all boils down to approaching meeting by being you and let it flow naturally

@Rittyben
I think he has captured it really.

It's just that most times, our feelings take over, but I think the best thing usually is to keep the feelings at bay and wait for a meet, that way you can both be sure.

But then, our feelings almost always betray us

MizMyColi:
I usually unfollow my threads as soon as they're created.
Please, if you want my attention, I'm a mention away.

MizMyColi:


The new girl, you mean?

MizMyColi:


@Jhidey08
You never quite got around to answering this question.

MizMyColi:

@Rittyben
I think he has captured it really.
It's just that most times, our feelings take over, but I think the best thing usually is to keep the feelings at bay and wait for a meet, that way you can both be sure.
But then, our feelings almost always betray us

bedfordng:
it is more easy to chat with some one online since you will be in the shadows. Online chatting can even make a shy person talks as if they are master in dating but physical meeting will expose their real self.you begin to wonder if the person you chatted with is really the same person you meet due to the way both of you would relate physically.online dating is more easy to come by than physical because you don't see each other and can say what you like to each other but in physical, it is a different ball game which requires physical approach, not online anymore since it would appear like it is your first time seeing each other in person, so the espectation would be a mixed thoughts from both of you.those sweet things you used to say will be kept mute, those lovely and funny jokes you make will be kept mute because your real self will manifest.you can't form james bond on chat and become love doctor in physical.it all boils down to approaching meeting by being you and let it flow naturally

sollex:
@rittyben, I believe @mizmycoli and @bedfordng really gave good explanations for you. However, I will like to buttress their points by saying, You often find it easier to chat online because ample time between conversations are there and u don't feel tensed will conversing and hence gives u time to think well and compose your self before responding which is not the case with physical interactions. This often times is a function of your kind of person ( temperament ). To overcome such, you will need to learn to express your self and your thoughts when u have a physical meeting with someone. This involves been confident, putting away fear of screwing up, composure etc. The list goes on and on. Try to also consider areas you feel are your weak points in physical conversations and work on them. And mind you, for most people, meeting someone for the first time often takes time before acquaintancy is achieved.
I hope you are satisfied now. Enjoy.

sollex:
@rittyben, I believe @mizmycoli and @bedfordng really gave good explanations for you. However, I will like to buttress their points by saying, You often find it easier to chat online because ample time between conversations are there and u don't feel tensed will conversing and hence gives u time to think well and compose your self before responding which is not the case with physical interactions. This often times is a function of your kind of person ( temperament ). To overcome such, you will need to learn to express your self and your thoughts when u have a physical meeting with someone. This involves been confident, putting away fear of screwing up, composure etc. The list goes on and on. Try to also consider areas you feel are your weak points in physical conversations and work on them. And mind you, for most people, meeting someone for the first time often takes time before acquaintancy is achieved.
I hope you are satisfied now. Enjoy.

MizMyColi:


@Jhidey08
You never quite got around to answering this question.