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Learning to write things in my mind!

Beautiful! And this would make a girl come running back to you in the days of our grandparents, but not now! Love is a foreign word that seems to have lost its place in the hearts of our ladies. All your efforts in putting up this piece together would be like water poured on the back of a duck. Our girls don't understand this language anymore. There's only one language they understand and I hope you can learn it soon enough to communicate with them, if you've not already. Good luck.

onstelly: Big fat lie, girls cheat so do guys stop making it look like is only the girls. Some guys cheat while on business trip and so on

There's no disputing the fact that guys cheat too, and they really do cheat, but some of those guys have learnt the hard way not to trust a girl especially if she is not married to you yet. Girls are moved by material things, lies and sweet words while the guys are moved by emotion (especially sex desire). Very few girls can be trusted especially now that every girl wants to be better than her friends/neighbors; the competition among them is intense and they are constantly looking for greener pastures among men, falling for the deceits and lies they are told which suit their fantasies and tickle their emotions!

95 + percent of girlfriends who travel during festive periods cheat on their boyfriends and 95+% of girls have more than one boyfriend.
So if you're a guy and your girlfriend has travelled during a festive period, there's 95 percent liklihood that she's cheated on you!

MRbrownJAY: kai, see how so many are saying forgive?! for where?!

@OP
here is what you have to understand here:
- if your gf wanted to help your union, she should have told you about her evil actions BEFORE doing them. LACK OF COMMUNICATION/TRUST
- the deceit is what you have to take from this affair..... this woman would have never come clean if you had not found the camera. DECEIT/DISHONESTY
- just because she paid for your school fees, it doesnt make her a better person OR any of her actions right. ONCE AN ASHEWO....
- is that how this lady intend to solve problems in your future life, by sleeping around with richer men? LACK OF MORAL/JUDGMENT/DECENCY

sentiments aside, you want your woman to do all it takes to survive, but there is a line she should never cross, and sadly this lady is way passed that line. you need to thank her for what she did (and how she helped you in the past) but explain to her that, with such mindset, there is no way you can ever trust her, let alone have a family with such woman. you should forgive her, and subsequently FORGET about her.



bro, let's say your woman starts whoring herself in your back because you guys are broke, would you accept it and forgive her....... because she has money to pay the rent?!

...... And you think the op has the moral right to be angry? What is 10k as a monthly salary to a single person let alone helping out a fiance with school fees and also extending help to his siblings from that same 10k? Did he ever stop to think she could be getting the money from somewhere else? Or that 10k is not enough to take care of her own self? Ofcourse, as long as his fees were being paid he wouldn't care how the money came about.

By the way, did you ask him what he was looking for in her bag? Was it money?
I hope he's not looking for an excuse to dump her now that he's through with school!