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Odilafta: Stop trying so hard to prove a point .If you as a bachelor go to eatries to monitor ladies rather than eat and take a walk,then you are either jobless or you work as a waiter.

There's no proving of any point! And in your thinking and wisdom, it's only waiters and jobless people that take notice of what happens around them in a restaurant!; you only fix your eyes and concentrate on the plate of food you're served! Good for you!
In any case, you seem to be missing the point!

mtcheew: coming home to cook after work is something that most women dread

Huh?

marieolae: it doesn't mean that it just means tasting the same food with the same taste gets annoying sometimes. Sometimes u wanna eat out. It doesn't mean anything

Does it not mean that if your food gives the same taste, even if you want a different taste, you do not know any better? A good cook prepares her meals to her taste!

MrsChima: Women like to be catered and cooking is not being catered to.

Once men understand that a happy woman is a happy life for him...the world will be less chaotic.

Huh?
Coming home to meet a table with dishes cooked by one's wife is something that most husbands look forward to! But to some, it's just a dream; a dream that's stretched beyond the bounds of reality!

marieolae: There's. Nothing wrong with it. [b]Sometimes u get tired of your own food[b/]

Huh? Could it mean that your food is not tasty enough? How could you go to a restaurant and eat the same food you have at home?

dytbabe: Did u nt see EVERYTIME?
Shior

I cook everyday as hubby don't eat 2 days meal, so its tiring for me

Ok, my bad!

urhoboman: So resturants are now setup and designed for men ONLY?.

Not really, but you seem to be missing the point!
Anyway, let me ask you. Would you prefer you and your wife (if you're married) eat in restaurants instead of cooking at home? Wouldn't you ask questions if you go to a particular restaurant and each time you see a particular lady ordering food just as you do?

dytbabe: I am a wife n a mother
I don't like to eat what I cook everytime
I cook every morning bt I might take smth else at a canteen when I get to work.
I don't see anyth wrong in it

Huh?

I see quite a lot of ladies in restaurants and my thoughts have been lingering on why ladies should be so interested in going to the restaurants instead of cooking at home! The traditional place for a woman in the home is the kitchen!

Yes, we have career women. There’re ladies who are just as busy as men, I know; but is it ideal for a lady to go to a restaurant as men do?

MrCork:


Team light skin females.




or




Team dark skin females?


The final debate...your preference?.

Bro, what colour are you?

nichole2: Ok so I fell inlove with the wrong person ,he hurt me ,I got pissed at that point I hated him, but now I can't stop thinking of him, its like I hate him for treating me that way but still remember the good times he was like my bestfriend, and now whenever I listen to songs we listened together I cry , am mad at myself for loving de wrong person, I guess we can't help who we fall for .- been praying seriously maybe its soultiestuff cause he was like whenwe where together, when ever he shows a girl affection sherefuses, after a while when he doesn't care she starts to love him- I don't get it any more,I can't even tell my friends they would be so mad at me, cause only one of my friends knows de whole bullz she's like call him - am like no I hv pride , but I feel so much pain in my heart - its like one side of me wants to kill him 4 treating me like dat & de other wants him to hold me close to he's body and tell me its gonna be fine, I feel stabs of pain like a wound in my heart - so please advice what's the way out of these( to stop feeling these way) thanks everyone in advance•¤

Take heart. *Hands her a handkerchief*! Stuff like this happens but they only make us stronger at the end!

We’re all human and would feel hurt when treated badly, especially from those we hold dear to our hearts.

But since you’ve said you shared wonderful moments together, it’d do you good to bathe your mind more in such beautiful memories than the hurt he must have caused you!

I wouldn’t advise you to call him, if he was the one that hurt you! If he wants you he’ll make a move to mend things with you.
If in time he comes back, fine otherwise you mve on!

Meanwhile, free your mind of all hatred towards him; your happiness shouldn’t be tied to the whims and caprices of another person. I know it’s not easy but you have to try. You have your whole life ahead of you! *Now, can I have my handkerchief back?*

Bro, move as fast as you can to the next bus stop, your time is up!

unyours: I don't know if being romantic is a 'follow-come' for all ladies cos every lady i have friended will complain i'm not romantic. My question is: Ladies, please what is the definition of romantic? And, are all ladies naturally romantic? Cos i've not overheard a guy saying a lady aint romantic.

Forget about romance and line your pocket with cash! Romance had value only when our grandparents were still boys and girls!

deneris: as for me it would be when i actually let my guard down and foolishly trust only to be seriously hurt by my "best friend".. i totally regret doing that.. but hey its life..

Is your best friend a he or a she?

deneris: we all have that one desire.. want.. need.. that thing u secretly u had.. or did or could do.. so lets hear if u had a wish that would definately come true what would it be??

If only wishes were horses, I would have made a wish!

Yomieluv: Lady from wealthy homes are far better,than ladies from poor homes.

Poor ladies are simply gold diggers,who are usually swayed by what they see. A lady from a wealthy home usually are truthful in relationship,and show more love.

Interesting point of view!

izyrach: Hmm,,imagine you were in church, sitting next to your ex and your pastor says..#tell your neighbour I love you#...will you?..

That's simple!

freshprincex49: You write very well. Simply impeccable, thumbs up!

Thanks, bro.

argon500: Mine was at the age of 17

It was so romantic, too. It was up in my room when my parents were gone, it was raining hard outside and the window was slightly opened right beside my bed.

He guided me down onto the bed and gently kissed me with the rain pouring in slightly and the wind blowing on us.

Too bad the actual kissing part wasn't that great, but the environment was movie-worthy.

So you still remember this kiss?

MrCork: .. light skin women are more wifeyrable coz they ain't agreesive and they can cook..period!!

Would there be a difference in behaviour if these light-skinned women of yours are raised under rich or poor parents?

Solange3: Last kiss: November 2013

That means you will likely kiss this November! Seems like a yearly thing!

pussygotlips: Yea


U wan try?

What every man wants is a good home!

marieolae: If u are insecure u will have problems wid dat

In your phone, don't you have male contacts? Why would the pin on a facebook page get the guy particularly worried?

Sweetestlady: yes dear!I am...

Good to know! But how can I be sure that you really are?

By the way, are you really the sweetest lady? @op

Sweetestlady: Hello guys,,,gat question for u all...Wen u check ur girlfriend's page on facebook and find a guy's BBM pin on her wall,what will u think?what will be ur reaction especially if u r a jealous kinda? ;DHello guys,,,gat question for u all...Wen u check ur girlfriend's page on facebook and find a guy's BBM pin on her wall,what will u think?what will be ur reaction especially if u r a jealous kinda?

Who cares? Thank God I don't even have a facebook account to log in to check her page!

durella4: I don't agree with ur point#op.

Which of the points?

pussygotlips: Most of us are arrogant,we always bust about our family wealth, living with us is like we are doing you favor.

Is that so?

Flipping through the pages of history, one is bound to come in contact with the saying “Behind every successful man there is a woman” time and again; which means that, if my understanding serves me right, a woman is the propelling force behind the success of every man!

If the above is the case, then it stands within the stretch of logic that a man is unsuccessful because there’s no woman behind him!

Perhaps, it’s this pursuit of success that attracts us, unconsciously, to seek a wife at some point in our lives!
But then here lies the driving force behind this post.

There are men who’re married yet they are unsuccessful; unsuccessful not in monetary terms but their expectations of a married life! Reality seems to be giving them the opposite of what their thoughts and expectation had shown them!

Now, my question; Do girls from rich homes make better wives than girls from poor homes?

From a societal lens, it can be seen that rich men exude more confidence, exert more authority and command more respect than poor men! Extending this to the family, a rich man is more likely to instill discipline and command obedience from his children than a poor man, hence raising more disciplined children!

In view of the above, a girl from a rich home is more likely to perceive the consequences of acts that are at variance with decent behavior as passed on to her by her parents; she’s more likely to obey the warnings and advice of her parents.

Now, the girl from a poor home is free-willed and does things her own way with little or no regard to parental warnings and advice! The parents overlook so many things since they can’t afford to give her the things she may want! Her actions are judged right or wrong from her own court of internal convictions.

Perception, they say is not reality!
So, ladies and gentlemen, do girls from rich homes really make better wives?
Let’s have your opinion.