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luxoire:
why dy'all think it must beabout the money

I don't do married / atached guys, but maybe these girls, do it for the freedom and independence, GUYS CAN BE VERY CLINGY when they are in love, they get all possisive and think they can monitor your every move and they possess u, so some girls, like the fact thatthey can maintain their independence and still have someone to 'shag' when they want, it's all about retaining some measure of control

Thanks lux, for belling the cat for the girls, I agree that  some people do that because they are not ready for serious commitment. But how do they intend to cope when they are now ready to settle down wont they still go back and face their fears. I am very sure that a very few percentage fall into this category. I think the main issue hre is money.
We need guilty girls to talk Dont be shy.Why do you do this?

Yes you are correct that some despite having boy friends still go ahead to date this men. I was sitting in a company of few guys at a time and there was this girl that was supposedly dating one of the guys who happened to be married. While sitted their the girl's phone rang and she picked it, it was her boyfriend that called. They engaged in a connversation and without sending the married lover she was been so real in the call that even a deaf person will know who she was talking to . After the call the the man asked herwho she was talking to and she answered the boy friend. It pained my heart to know that the boy friend is beign decived that much, Lots of I love you, I miss you, I am sitting alone at home thinking about you during the call, all that really made me to feelfor the boy friend knowing that the girl will be getting married to him soon. You know what I know , If you destroy other people's marriage and happiness by sleeeping with their husbands, when you get married people will sleep with your husband and destroy your home and happiness, and by that time you will remember that you did sow a seed that you are reaping. I am sure some girls have read this and they ignored it because they are guilty. Dont be shy , own up and tell us why you did that. Still waiting for a girl to contribute. The longer it takes the firmer the confirmation that a good number of girls are guilty. Speak out.

Silly, I pray God touches your heart before then too. You might enjoy dating young girls as a married man but you may end up destroying your home. Girls where are you is it true its all about the money? We really need a female's opinion here.

It is no news again that young girls this days are fund of dating married men. The baffling question is why, is it the money, or is it lack of hope for the future. I still can't understand how these girls feel comfortable dating married men. Can somebody give me an answer? Please if you have ever been in this type of situation please tell me why you did that. Girls please talk.

Your daughter if you have any should be taken from you cos You can do the same to her. You are going down whether you like it or not, You have destroyed your family and your frinds family already. Only suicide can help you now. Idiot.

whats up silly, good to know today is your birthday, Wish you many happy return and also the very best in your endeavors,
You and this mcube girl, Hmmmmmm I think you are too silly for the girl What do you think.

All your answers point in one direction.Premarital sex , A good number of those marriages are carried out mainly because the girls got pregnant and by all indications, abortion is not an option considering the girls age and the number of times she had committed abortion in the past. For some others it is a deliberate carelessness on the girls part to finally nail the guy into marrying her. Some few guys on the other hand want to be sure that their wife to be has not lost the God given productive values to some promiscuous past through series of abortions and careless past.
One thing however is common to marriages of this nature, they lack happiness and most end up breaking up because of the wrong foundation that was laid.

Nothing is wrong with it, just be sure there is no unsolved question surounding the death of the husband such that the family of both will not start to think you cleared the way  for your self.also  also be ready to love the duaghter like your own child and lastly be ready to adjust because she already has an experience of what marriage  looks like, so you should be ready for serious adjustment as there is bound to be a little imbalance at first. There shouldn't be problem though cos now you know and before then you should have been prepared. Go ahead only if you  have perfect peace in your spirit concerning that. Wish you the best.

prof

The prof.

Why is everyone missing out an important factor? Yes most of those things might be right but one factor that i believe play a major role in this is a simple principle of life. " YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE". What do you expect from a man or woman who got used to sleeping with every tom dick and harry before marriage? Do you expect an automatic change in that way of life after marriage?I DONT THINK SO. FOR MOST MEN AND WOMEN  IT HAS BECOME A WAY OF LIFE ALREADY, And they have lost control over that part of them totally
My conclusion is this, If you have an unfaithful girlfriend or boy friend now as a partner dont expect him or her to change after marriage. Take a close study about those people you talked about, find out how they were as youths,  You will find out that a good number of them lived a sexually reckless life. Also if you are not faithful  in  your relationship now that you are not married, You can not be after marriage except God steps in. Ask the married, they will tell you sexual temptations for men are far more when you are married and more comfortable than when you are still single.
Finallly, if you are not married cage that thing for now so that you will not be lost in the world of lust and peasure that is always seeking satisfaction. Good luck.

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Please take cover! I mean your nose

killer cat

topeorekoy, what was that! Disgusting sets of dentition, you you spoilt my meal

Silly, please forgive akintos , i can see he had really gotten you mad. He has learnt his lesson. I am sure he will not do that again.

Akintos, I think you should appologize to the house.
sorry about all chimp!

Last month. When was the last time you solved someone's problem

Yeah this is mine. A pure roadblock

Akintos, you have to beg seun to remove this post? What if your girlfriend stumbles on it. I bet you she will be mad with you. Pls do on time before I draw crowd to this post

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Shout - Sout

Ibadan People abeg no vex

chei! ika who did this to you, I have always thought you were good looking.

yes---- Yels
Chess- Chelss

Never.

When was the last time you prayed for someone

Not just wrong, Very evil and that guy must be very wicked. For you what you need to do now is face your studies and forget about any relationship. The paramount thing to you now should be your studies and how to be a better person in life. That guy is almost old enough to be your father. You should also Tell your mum about that guy.

what is this that you have done? Did you not hear about adeyemi who posted his picture to know how people feel about him?Do You know what happened to him, He had to beg Seun to remove that post. How on earth could you do your self this great harm. Ol bot I check your pix and I saw there was not even a tailor around you to help reduce the cloth to your size, that one for improve your omo baba   face  small.   Ol boy! make I tell you truth, you take tsyle wowo small and very rass join, Please beg someone beautiful to marry you so that you can at least help your children! There is nothing you can do again about your own look but you can at least help your kids unborn.
last advice- Beg seun to remove this post before  too many people see you.   .

Ol boy make we talk true, you yab!

This post is hereby roadbloked

[quote author=luxoire
@Roadblock
ohh so now, u think there might be instances where it is difficult to not have an abortion. Well, now i believe you are human. Cos depite the fact we all know it is wrong by religion, we might sometimes find ourselves in situations where we have NO other opiton, and bringing the baby into the world, would only make us depsise it[/quote]Yes you are right that there might be instances where humans regardless of how spiritually mature they are will consider abortion but that still does not make it right. In some cases you dont even know what is right and what is wrong but those cases are rare. Like I said if I find my self in cases like that(God forbid) I will be sure to know what is saying concerning it before acting. Interesting topic Lux.

what a dress on a poor little baby, Pheesayor where did you get that picture from?
Some parents are very sick.