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What makes you think someone like bill gate will have a problem with his documents. On the contrary to all your submissions i believe that that happened because the officials in charge knowing who bill gate is, expected him to wet the ground , which he must have refused which resulted into his being denied a visa. no be Naija we dey. Leave matta all na beef. wetin edey find come naija sef? I sure say na Ikeja computer Village the guy wan visit to take im eye see wetin Emeka dem take im softwares dey do .

I didn't dey there o!

mdsocks:
@Road block
wasn't you d one who was blocked of the road on my ways to work

mdsocks, you is correct. I does that to naughty peoples

I doesn't understand, I am tell you.

I am seriously dis appointed in this thread. Comon English you guys can[b][/b]not SPOKE  Wrote

obitobe, go back up and read your post again.
Abeg carry your wahala go!
Oda Mabinu!

obitobe:
@post
why must we alway turn to God when thing are bad for us and forget him when the going is rosy.Am sure my guy did not remember God when he was shookig the babe and also he did not bless place before entering the hole if your story is not true i bet you you will contact the virus and this time it will be TYPE A and B and you will die gradually and you will see it happening but i f not just go for conselling

I can see that your level of resoning is quite low. Sorry about that.
I think you should suggest what should be done when things are a bad, when you have tried everything and they seem not to be working?
What i was able to pick from your post is nothing but sef righteousness and undue condemnation. You Even went ahead to curse him. 99% of you that condemed this guy do exactly what this guy did or had at a time done that. The fact that you have been fortunate so far does not make you any better than the guy.
Even if you dont, Who are you to Judge anyone? Look inside and see How righteous you are. may God forgive you.

This one thing i want you to know, Sleep with him and you are gone even faster than you would have without sleeping with him.
Advice: Dont resign yet, dont sleep with him, start looking for another Job, and watch life sort itself out.

I can see you have already resigned to fate. Not Good enough. Just one advise for you. Turn to God not because he can/will heal you but in repentance and just to serve him the rest of your life even if you dont get to leave as long as you have expected. Please dont make a mistake of turning to God because you want healing. Be sincere in your heart about it and see him deliver you. I wish all the best.

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Major battles are won in this world by patience and endurance, threatening him or beaten him up will not solve any problem but will rather worsen situation, which could change the face of the battle from phisical aggression to spiritual. I believe it is a lot better when you see what your enemy is doing than having him to be fighting unseen. The best thing is to ignore him. Even horse riders that have been used to beaten there horses for years get touched later and some of them vowed not to beat there horses again. You keep beaten your horse, It never revolts also does everything you want it to do . After a while even the devil sef go repent. There is an adage that says when the drum continues to sound so loud, then it is no its way to being torn. Ignore him , be patient and see him disgrace him self.
About teaching him a lesson? Forget that

angola_g:
I am so infuriated and feel like executing him or have him killed some how since he has refused to respect him self.He is a aggressive,Diabolic ,a tyrant and a bully.

Please nairaland what do u think I should do as I have gone crazy before I let blood flow . Very wicked man

I don't WANT Critiscims just your advise,

Yes Critiscism is all you will get because you are not in anyway better than that man you mentioned. If you can talk about killing the way you did, Then you have serious issues. In fact you sounded like you have killed before. My advise for you is that everyone in that place you say you live should check your self. IF you respect yourself well enogh I believe anyone would respect you.
Mind you IF you have killed before and nobody knew about it, Try it this time and see if you can get away with it.All you will get is in the pix,

oju imale ko kuro loti

Iskwew:
I agree with u all d way Roadblock. It erodes the issue of trust between a husband and wife. I will be getting married this coming fall, and my beloved and I have both agreed, that despite our strong attraction and physical desires, we want our marriage bed to be undefiled when we come together as one after marriage. Yes we are both older and have been in a relationship before this one, but since being together, at this point, we will be each other's last - and are saving ourselves to give to each other AFTER being wed. We cannot do anything about the past except repent, learn and turn away from those things - which means to come back to priniciples of our faith together. So 5 - 10 + years from now, my husband will not have to look back and wonder "if another man pays her attention and she is put out with me - will she lay with him?" And i will have that same trust in him. THAT is a large basis of building a life together. IMHO

Iskwew, I am very happy for your decision, May God continue to see you through and make your marriage a point of reference to others. You have laid a very good foundation. It cant be any better. Religion apart that is the first step to a lasting blissful relationship and marriage. Congrats.

e-babe:
Girl, just take your time and don't be a a hurry to make any decision. Nobody can tell you what to do, its all left to you

What an advice. IF she happens to be your sister is that the advice you willl give? If she is my sister my approach wouldnt have been any different. Only love speaks the truth.

What are you talking about ?
What help do you need from us?
To Chain you down so that you wont go to your friends mother alone or To give you the money your friends mother is trying to use as a bate?
So you mean you have already been that close for her to tell you what she told you. I am very sure you have done every other thing with her except the sleeping part.
If you love your life you will flee and stop asking for people's opinion about what you already know.
You post looks to me like you gave it a thought and you saw the possibility of giving it a try. You will be dead before you know it.
You try it.

:-x

Get no evidence, there is no time for that and you dont need it, tell nobody cos you can do this alone.
You need to be very careful as any 'serious' action you take is likely going to come back to you. You will be the one to suffer for it.
This is what you will do,
1. Involve God
2. Avoid been alone with your father inlaw as much as possible
3.Politely tell him that you respect him but if he continues the way he is you might have no other choice than to tell his Son and Wife.
4. And lastly be careful in eating anything he gives you alone, Dont even try it,That kind of man will be ready to cross over to the Jazz level. What stops him if he can already say what he had said earlier? nothing.
Be prayerful, take all the steps above and in a very short time your father inlaw is sure to back off.
Please dont do anything srupid as that might cost you your marriage.

All you want is for someone to endorse your action or at least give a go ahead so that you will clear your mind. The reason you gave for his divorse is not convincing at all. If you really are a christian then what I am about to say will be highly meaningful to you.
In christianity the only ground allowed for divorce is on adultery basis. If you get married with a divorcee on any other ground you have locked your self up in adultery.

when in your post I saw "one thing I've got to say, " I hought you were going to say something sensible, but to my disappointment you shamelessly displayed your lack of decency by reporting that as a teenager you slept with a man who is likely to be older than your father. or a little younger than him. You should be ashamed yourself, not only for doing that but for still see that as a virtue.

For the guy I am sure you did not expect him to give the real reason why his marriage failed especially when he was at fault. I am qiute sure the wife divorced him when he refused to change his ways of chasing small girls there by bringing shame to the woman, i guess the woman could take it any longer she had to leave. What kind of man at that age will go after girls your age. Believe it or not your was not the first and willl not be the last and also you are nott the only one he is keeping. He is simply an agabya(An old Fool).
I am happy you mentioned that your parents will not accept him, that is not because he is too old.But because they know better. If you want the best advice as to this Talk to parent or adults that are as old as that boy you called a man

There is nothing to pray about because if you do you will only be wasting your time because God will not be a part of a filthy and disgraceful relationship.
If you love your life you will flee.
Sorry to hit you this hard, this is the only way some messages can be understood.

dissy k falola nko?

this is a case of cricifying the chiken for laying a small egg, the person that was feeding the chicken should be the one to pay. But I am enjoying what is happening now. A lot would have be learnt by the end of this year. How I wish that baba would pay for those careless and uncaring ways he handled this country.

teeirl:
Men respect your wife, young girls cop on,

Very well said.

Girl, just one advice. Don't force Love. It does not last. Has it occurred to you that when you go after flies you hardly catch them, but when you sit on your own with cream and other irresistible things to the flies they come perching on you. That is what you should do with your self dignity, self respect and great personality just sit  without giving much attention to the fly and wait for it to perch on you. If it does good, if it doesn't,  move on. May be you don't have what he needs and I am sure he doesn't have what you need either.

Also I want you to search your heart, Are you sure this is not lust or infatuation? Cos love doesn't just jump on people like that. There is more to love than what i think is happening to you.

mcube:
@ poster

Although i don't do ave one but i do ave a friend that does. but i don't think she is keeping a married man for the monetary aspect because she is okay herself. she once told me she is dating him because he is older and caring and doesnt give her any emotional problem.

Older and caring, Care has nothing to do with age, I think what your friend tried to tell you is that she wants to enjoy everything she is meant to enjoy in a normal relationship without any emotional or serious commitment. Eating ones cake and having it? She mght get all without mush attachment but in the end, more than her commitment goes with it. Wht do you think.

Lux, you are very correct, the men really need to talk to themselves, for some of this men they have beautiful wives at home and yet they go around intimidating young girls with their money. Be that as it may, I still believe that girls are becoming unnecessarily loose nowadays and if those girls are not just overly covetous and long throated I think they should be able to turn their backs at these advances. I think the girls involved are just lackingcontentment just as Aisha noted.

Silly boy! dont be sillly. You people should drop your real email addys.
Here is mine- umaruyaradua@hotmail.com

Going by what I see around these days i am begginning to believe a married my that said "90% of married women today had at one time dated a married man before getting married. And going by the law that says "what you do to others will surely be done unto you" can we say this is responsible for the allarming rate of break ups in marriages nowadays? I think it is logically right. I think it is pay back time for most women and also the agents of payback should be ready to be paid back too when they are married.
ko ki nse epe

lux , you know my problem with the way of life? Not so bothered about how nay one that does that spends her life, but it pains my heart to see good home and family happiness lost to this girls careless and undignifying way of life. To make matters worse non of this girls can really take cope with the fact that one girl is seeing their husband or boyfriend. Let us agree that these married men too have problems, but the girls should know that they are married already and that they are the ones left to do that. they should learn to say No. But most of this girls are self willing and they go after this men. Why destroy other people's home. It is painful.

good conclusion sill "trust no one" though I trust my babe sha, Where are this girls sef, does it mean all naira land girls are guilty except Lux. We need them to talk cos they are the only ones that can give this infos. My be the question should be made personal. Do you date married men and why?
I am very sure most of them did not like my 3rd post and that is why they are not saying anything. It sounded like a curse . Well It depends on the way you see it. I am sure some married women would have said amen to that.One man's meat,