₦airaland Forum

marlet01:
Hmmmm!!

But marlet, is that not his name? I just called his name that is all

sillyboy:
@lovemoney. How could you describe such an interesting gymnastic nasty! If it's a joke you better stop it right now! That thing is very SWEET.
@topic. Please don't say Silly boy is here again ooo. I think I would support an abortion for anything! You never can tell, the child could be as silly as possible! Infact, my church mind tells me that the an unwanted child will be and should be Silly(don't even think about me being an unwanted child! ).Back to the topic, If the parents could be sill not to use protection and decided to behave like he and she-goats on hoy heat, then, don't you think sperm, will be a hot silly one? Just asking

You are a very sillyboy

A question just came to my mind now, I earlier said abortion was wrong . I still believe it is and nothing can change that. In fact any man that will suggest an abortion to a friend is wicked and evil. Because everyone knows that the risk of loosing the girl is high but the guy only wants to remove his own neck. For the girl It is folly.

But in a case where medically it was proven that the mother will have to choose between her life and the baby's life it might be a difficult situation to handle with right or wrong perspective. also in a case where a hoodlum had raped a lady(someones girl friend, wife , or even mama) then in that case It will take only God to discourage the option of abortion. that one pass me. May that king of faith test never come my way because I have made up my mind to fail it already. I dont know who can stand that.

I think you are right , with the eyes of faith nothing is difficult, but in reality some things are too difficult to handle. In the last too cases i earlier mentioned, I will consider abortion humanly.

Aproko:
@ topic,

why are most people on the thread preaching instead of answering the question logically? so since the bible says an eye for an eye, how come most people around are not blind?

if you object to trini's opinion why not object with logical proofs instead of trying to justify your insecurities with some biblical preaching?!!!

getting married just so you can have sex and not call it fornication is the biggest lie you will ever tell yourself. because if you fantasize about the person and think about what sex will be like with person, and then go ahead to get married to relieve your fantasies, then your 'fornication' is even double.

premarital sex is what ever you choose to see it as.

Makes no sense! How else do you want us to explain the issue of sex or what is right or wrong  other than bring in the view of the one that judges over all. A look at the poll will even tell you that you are stictly on your own on what you believe. Will you say YOU are right whiles a lot more people than you in proportion are wrong? I guess you are confused and not comfortable with religious matters. Even Trinny that posted this topic qouted paul in the bible.
I am not even sure you know that the topic is posted under RELIGION
You are Simply confused

Pls dont be pissed off by the topic. How do i get your attention if not this way. The post is not interesting  but important to me.  How much will I get an original honda accord shaft in abuja and where.thanks

I am going to be brief and short .

When a man releases sperm into a woman . You have millions of baby potential in that release and all swim to the egg at the end of which only one gets to the egg and the others die. When I was released as sperm into my mother and I had to compete with millions other baby potential, I ended up winning to the egg even though I had no special smimming skill than others. The truth is this, Each baby that made it to the egg today was chosen and that exactly explains the part of the bible that says Even before you were formed in the belly I knew thee. It also means that there is no one that was formed in the belly that was not earlier known by God. So why will I kill/abort or put an end to the existence of a life just because I feel i am not ready. That I will never do. No matter what. Not because it will be convenient for me to handle but because I am alive today because my mother spared my life despite all odds. What if I was aborted.

Lastly people are born into this world through different circumstances, Yes one might be unprepared, it could be shameful , it could be in a way we can not handle but the truth is this That is the way God had designed it to happen. He brings good out of none. Not preaching though but i think most times the reason why we opt for abortion after doing what we are not supposed to do is just because we beome afraid that people will get to know and also what people, friends and family will say.

What has happened has happened I would rather move on from there than opt for abortion.

Some people have been married for years and they have never been pregnant for once.

I am sorry for not keeping to my words. Not too long is it?

Trinny, i think your mind is made up and nothing can change it. I am not even sure you are out to only seek people's opinion on this matter but to impose you belief or try to force people to see it the way you see it. Every post is like rubbish to you.
My advice for you is this Since you think having sex outside marriage is it, pls go ahead and have sex as much as youi can since you own your body and you dont care about giving an account of how you spent your life after you must have died.
I wish you the very best in the sinful, sexfree and shameful life you choose to take to.

Please all, let us put an end to this post it has gone on for too long.

Abeg no insult me sha!

You may call yourself Rev just to make people listen to your ideas on religious matters, but the truth is this every one knows your mission. How dare you talk about God the way you do. You know what happened to other antichrists that had lived before you, Check the Bible for details and look back into history for details. I do not care what your belief is but to me you are a cheap little demon that is on a sucide mission and if you dont desist from your evil intentions, then in no time your sucide mission will be accomplished in no time and no one will miss you. at least not me. I wish i could see what you look like? Do you have a horn too.?

It is a personal thing. To me, till date it happens to be my best year I have  ever lived. I cant but be thankful to God for making that happen. It is individualistic

pick up your crush and move on

monsieur p:
following the resent happening in the nigerian polity i have only one conclusion OBJ is nigeria's most corupt head of state. more corupt than saddistic ABACHA and IBB put together

How old are you Guess you are still in primary or secondary school, you dont know history.

sweetchick:
It has always been my personal opinion that the sexual revolution was started by a man so that men could indulge in sex without committing

Sweetchick, what do you mean? can you explain.

babaflaky:
Xtains (real Xtains) believe divorce is not an option. I believe one can always work things out.
Moreover once you continue to pray God would intervene

THAT IS NOT RIGHT . In christianity divorce is an option but only on the ground of adultery. That is very biblical. Let me open your eyes to the reason why even the bible encourages divorce in this case. I am sure you know that a lot of people have lost their lives to lovers of their spouses just because those lovers feel getting the wife or the husband out of the way will open the door opener. How do you intend to work it out if your wife after 10 years of marriage is still cutting shows and you know about it, yet she denies it and even refuses to change. You will be very unlucky if she kickes off an unholy relationship with someone so evil nd ready to marry her. knowing that the only possible way to get that done will be to get the husband out of the way, then you will be in for big trouble which can also take your life.

Moreover, this thread is not primarily meant to suggest grounds for divorce but to make people cautious of what they need consciously to work on, It is all about know how different individuals see things.

Ol boy you yab o! what came over you.
There is a serious danger for both of you. She can die anytime and you are tied down and can not move on until that covenant is broken. Let no one deceive you just like she was deceived that it meant nothing, covenant is spiritual and even God respects it. also the DEVIL will sit by that to make it a trap to deal with you guys. My advice for you is this, forget that thing you called still having love for her. The love that you had before and yet you were so insecured to go into a covenant. that is not love. Be ready to move on but make sure you break that covenant. For you to have used the Bible that means you are a Christan by religion, what I am not sure is whether you are serious with your God. Clear your side with God first then feel very free to open up to a trusted man of God about it. That settles it. Also encourage that girl to go ahead to break the covenant cause she is in a deeper danger cause she is in the trap already. and act fast too.
Good luck.

Ol boy you yab o! what came over you.
Ther is a serious danger for both of you. She can die anytime and you are tied down and can not move on until that convenant is broken. Let no one decieve you just like she was decieved that it meant nothing, convenant is spiritual and even God respects it. also the DEVIL will sit by that to make it a trap to deal with you guys. My advice for you is this, forget that thing you called still having love for her. The love that you had before and yet you were so insecured to go into a convenant. that is not love. Be ready to move on but make sure you break that convenant. For you to have used the Bible that means you are a christain by religion, what I am not sure is whether you are serious with your God. Clear your side with God first then feel very free to open up to a trusted man of God about it. That settles it. Also encourage that girl to go ahead to break the convenant cause she is in a deeper danger cause she is in the trap already. and act fast too.
Good luck.

you are confused. why not carry Gun, kill the husband and carry the girl as girls don finish for town . you better wake up she is gone for good.

What is the purpose of sex? Why did God create it? 1. If it was for just for the fun of it, then it won’t be wrong to have it with anybody. you will agree with me that it is more than just for the fun of it. (2) if it is for procreation, then you have only have it with your husband for the purpose of creating babies. (3) Lastly, if it is to bring closeness and cordiality between two parties then you can chose to have it with anyone you intend to have a close relationship with which will make it ok with anybody even the so called prostitutes. You will agree with me the kind of closeness that can be developed through sex is meant for the married, Husband and wife. Have you ever wondered why some people find it difficult to leave relationships in which they get beaten blue-black every time? It is simply because their soul is tied to that relationship. That is what sex does. I am sure you will not like to tie your soul to a wrong person.
Final word- Premarital sex lands people where they dont like. It rids a relationship of trust. If I can sleep with you before marriage just because I am your friend and i believe I love you, then anybody can sleep with you as long as they give you the kind of attention that I gave you. A better looking guy, more comfortable, and more caring guy will do the magic. Also fore the guy, he can sleep with any girl that he feels comfortable with and all these continue after wedding.

A good time under the shower will make any girl wet

This post is meant to help every one, both married and unmarried to know what to be cautious of in marriage. The question is ''On what ground can you divorce your spouse" As for me I will not think twice about divorce if I discover my wife is have an extra marital affair.

You better run for your life

Trini girl, if you are to go by your understanding then No form of sexual intercourse out side marriage is wrong as long as it is not with the prostitutes. Let us assume you are still very young, say about 20 years of age,  and like most people you end up having about 5- 10 relationships before finally getting the man of your dream. Are you saying sleeping with those ten people is not wrong? Even though at that time you had thought they were going to lead to marriage. Trini let us face the fact, It is not the name given it that determines whether it is wrong or not. Even without bringing religion into this, it used to be the custom of some parts of the world to excommunicate anyone that indulged in sexual acts before marriage. I will leave you with one last question. What is the purpose of sex? Why did God create it? 1. If it was for just for the fun of it , then it wont be wrong to have it with anybody. (2) if it is for procreation, then you have only have it with your husband for the purpose of creating babies. (3) Lastly, if it is to bring closeness and cordiality between two parties then you can chose to have it with anyone you intend to have a close relationship with which will make it ok with anybody even the so called prostitutes. You will agree with me the kind of closeness that can be developed through sex is meant for the married. Husband and wife. Have you ever wondered why some people find it difficult to leave relationships where they get beaten blue-black every time? It is simply because their soul is tied to that relationship. That is what sex does. I am sure you will not like to tie your soul to a wrong person.
Final word- Premarital sex lands people where they dont like. It rids a relationship of trust. If I can sleep with you before marriage just because I am your friend and i believe I love you, then anybody can sleep with you as long as they give you the kind of attention that I gave you. A better looking guy, more comfortable, and more caring guy will do the magic. Also fore the guy, he can sleep with any girl that he feels comfortable with and all these continue after wedding.

I will go on my knees , thank God for opening my eyes, then simply walk out of her life without much thinking. What if I did not get to know. thank God joo.

Do you know of any musical studio or video directors/editors in abuja.  Pls kindly help with addresses of any you know. I just relocated to abuja and I need to urgently finsh up a project that requires the earlier mentioned. thanks