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Jossyman0007:
From your write up,it's obvious you are not ready for serious relationship, better let that young lady find her desired man and live her life.

I'm sure after wasting her time with this your nonsense attitude, you'll end up dumping her over a non issue

All these Alpha male wannabe




UNAM IKOT

I don't joke with her bro. I take very good care of her. I even sent her 5k for data on Sunday evening. But there should be some boundaries you know. Besides, as a creative writer, l'm very good in chatting and l type quite fast. Infact, l used to enjoy chatting with my girls from morning till night back in those days. But l don't have that kind of time again. I'm 30. So if l loose my job now, na chatting we go chop abi But everyone is still entitled to their opinions sha. Shalom

40yroldman:
You fucking should have no business with any fucking relationship if you are still too immature to know how to balance work and your relationship.
You fucking lack the wisdom a man needs to keep a woman by his side. Just 2 minutes was fucking enough to fucking address her but you fucking turned a simple matter into a fucking chaotic mess.

I don't joke with her bro. I take very good care of her. I even sent her 5k for data on Sunday evening. But there should be some boundaries you know. Besides, as a creative writer, l'm very good in chatting. Infact, l used to enjoy chatting with my girls from morning till night back in those days. But l don't have that kind of time again. I'm 30 bro. So if l loose my job now, na will chatting we go chop abi But everyone is still entitled to their opinions sha. Shalom

Fekumzi123:
I don't know what you're talking about but your work should come first. It's like you have never been jobless.

Don't mind them. I take very good care of her. I even sent her 5k for data on Sunday evening. But if l loose my job now, na chatting we go chop abi But everyone is still entitled to their opinions sha. Shalom

VicM6:
With all what u wrote, na small tin u take spoil everything...
YOUR WORK COMES FIRST BEFORE ANY OTHER THING.
Bro, Man to Man...You can't build a family yet with this ur mentally.
Definitely, u will choose ur work over ur family or over something more important than the werey work u are doing....
I just pity that poor girl bcus even in emergency, u will pick ur work over her health....
Now imagine if she was calling you on something like an emergency nko....
Chai, bro abeg pray for wisdom...No b work b everything o....people wey do am pass you, some are 6ft down.

Peace

Lol, this one really got me thinking out loud But thanks sha

Peskid147:
Bro unblocked her and tell her your stands that you love her but you also love your job

Alright, thanks bro, but l will give it like 3 days at least. So we can miss each other small. You know what l mean na

So l'm not a particular fan of bringing every relationship dilemma here. But let me just do it for once to catch the feel of it at least. So my girl knows too well that as a script writer, that l'm always busy working online throughout the day and that l normally chat with her towards the evening after work. But this early morning, she sent me some texts on WhatsApp, just the normal morning greeting stuff, nothing much. But l wasn't in the mood for chatting at all, cus l was still going through some severe Monday Morning Hangover(My fellow bros that love the green bottle can relate better here.) Besides, l was also preparing to start my working day, so l ignored her. So this afternoon, eight or nine hours after her texts, she started calling me on WhatsApp call, while l was working on a script for my main client. So l ignored the calls at first, but she kept calling and calling. So l was forced to send her a text on WhatsApp that l was working at the moment and will talk to her later. But she kept on calling and calling and even sent me a text that "this is my punishment for ignoring her since morning." That was the point l got a bit angry cus her persistent calls were interfering with my work, and l needed to fully concentrate on the script l was writing. And honestly, that was the whole point of my ignoring her chats, cus l really needed to focus on the script. Now, most people don't really know what it takes to succeed in script writing. I mean like, you need to concentrate 1000% on the script you're writing, cus any single mistake in grammar or tone or diction or any hole in the story, your client, who of course is a more experienced writer than you, will surely call you out on it later. And even if he/she doesn't catch the mistake, the editors higher up the channel's hierarchy, who are mostly Americans will definitely catch the mistake and call out your client, who of course will then turn up the heat on you. And you do have to spend extra time correcting the mistake. So l really needed to concentrate to avoid all that. So l texted her that she should better stop that nonsense else l block her. She kept calling and calling and even texted me "Oya block me na." And l knew too well that she's very headstrong, and wasn't ready to stop calling. So l blocked her. And she has never directly called me since then. So l know she's hurt already.
Now, this girl is just 22, and l'm 30. So she's definitely acting her age. But l honestly love her and l know she loves me too. But even at that, l still want to strongly pass that message across to her that "My Work Comes First Before Any Other Thing!" So l'm thinking about not unblocking her till after a week at most. But even at that, l still don't want to hurt her so much cus she just lost her Airport Attendant job last week and l know she needs me to be there for her at the moment. Besides, she was there for me two years ago when l was going through the most difficult period of my life. So l'm really in a kinda dilemma right now and needs some mature advice.

Update: l was planning to unblock her in the evening like most senior bros here adviced me. But she chatted me with her second line early this morning. So we've made up and we're good.
Thanks for all your mature advices. I really appreciate!

With the way this North abi na West is currently going, she will die of drug overdose very soon if care is not taken.
This l have seen!!!

Intresting...Here we go again

PulaPower:
But most greatest men on earth were born poor..

Stop saying all these things that nature doesn’t recognize. Life has no manual..

Oya na, go and start breeding like Rabbits. Good luck!!!

That Erigga guy talks too much

Na that one dey call Apama dey vex me pass. Dude only talks and eats and eats and eats. One day he will surely eat himself to death. And people are watching and following him oo. Like, what's so special or funny about all these influencers that Nigerians worship them. It really beats my imagination, l swear.

chigopat1977:
You gave birth to the first child. You saw the condition of your life, saw what it took to feed, clothe, educate, and care for that child, and still kept having more till you got to 8 . So who exactly is supposed to train, feed, educate, and provide for all of them?

This is not poverty but foolishness. If you ask them now they will say children are blessing, God will provide. Ask her to go do family planning, she will say is dangerous to the health, I pity the children.

A lot of people were raised not to ever take responsibility for their actions.

That is why they often make poor choices.

The man and the wife knew that they can't afford these children, but they can't stop having them.

Big madness oo, not just small madness. If you're poor and unfortunate in life, then just suffer and die alone. Stop bringing innocent kids into this brutal world to suffer with you.
Ethiopia, the second most populous country in Africa is just around 139 million.
Egypt in third place is around 120 million (Muslim-Majority country oo) But you people are chasing 350 million, that's if una never pass that level sef. Na only una sabi fvck sef!!! Tufiakwa!!!

PlasmaTV:
Yep
APC. That's all they do. Chaos. Bad economy.

Uber
Shoprite
Proctor and Gamble
Unilever

Bro, you forgot Norvartis International pharmaceutical company. I know someone previously earning around 500k monthly that became jobless when the company left this zoo early last year.

Your dad is really trying. Kudos to him. At least, he had plans for your future right from day one. Not all those useless ones breeding like rabbits with no future plans or support system for their children. If you're poor, then just suffer and die alone. Don't go and bring an innocent baby into this brutal world to suffer with you!!! As for me, even if l'm rich like Dangote, l will never have more than two kids, cus anything can happen! I do even rather abort a baby and send it back to wherever it came from, than to bring any innocent kid into this world to suffer with me!!!

Nawa oo, hope you're not trying to say that Suya isn't cow beef oo, cus na Suya finish my last salary. Hope pesin no dey chop dog or camel or whatever meat all these while believing that it's cow beef oo

Nawa oo, not even ordinary natural weed sef, but Colos. So the prisoners will smoke it and Colo

Praktikals:
They won't approach a person like you. There are some people who think I million is very huge amount of money. I remember someone was asked what he would do with 1 million naira. He said he will buy a car, build a house and help the needy. Lol

True talk bro. One million likes to you👍👍👍👍👍

This selling of one kidney of a thing is not just worth it at all. How much they wan pay me sef I heard it goes between 1 to 7m. C'mon that's chicken change!!! But even if it's 50 million naira sef, won't the money still finish Naira wey no get value again at all at all. Sometimes, l dey spend as much as 1m within 2 months, upon say l still dey single oo, and at the end of the day l will be asking myself wetin l use the money do, and l won't even remember any concrete thing l spent it on at all. Even if the money won't finish, how will l spend the rest of my life with the knowledge that l'm just surviving on a single kidney? So no more highness C'mon how can you enjoy life without highness At times, l always wonder how women enjoy life, since they don't get high. That's why l dey always pity them, and also give them benefit of the doubt when they misbehave sometimes Cus l know too well that the only thing that gives them joy is a guy's attention and sweet words

Evaress:
What makes you think its every girl you see that you will go hit on? Or what makes you think every woman will lower herself to a street money olosho? There are still way lot of classy and independent ladies out there and we get irritated when these horn*y ass men keep touching us in public and trying to flirt with us inappropriately.
If you need a ha*rlot, you know where they stay.

Stop sending me email horn*y ass guys, i'm not your type and i will never be.
You wan come give me infection. I reject it in Jesus Name!

l just scanned through your earlier posts and discovered that you have been battling with depression and even suicidal thoughts for a while now, so l understand where your rants are coming from. But just take heart my dear, we all have crosses we're carrying in secret, but that doesn't mean we should channel our frustrations to some other trivial issues, then start ranting on a public forum. Just let bygones be bygones. And try to get busy. You said you're a writer and a nutritionist but currently jobless, but you can actually get busy by writing stories or articles in whichever niches you're good in, and sending the samples to blogs or YouTube channels that specializes on those niches. One of them will surely hire you if you're good enough. That was how l started off as a creative writer 3 years ago. My first job was just 15k per month working for a romance blog. But today, l'm relatively comfortable as a remote writer. l make at least 200k in a bad month, and up to 500k in a good month working from home. And l'm aiming higher. Intrestingly enough, l get most of my clients here on Nairaland. Infact, l've connected with more than 10 clients here on Nairaland at one point or the other. So instead of you wasting your time ranting, why not use that same time and energy and look for writing connections here. Above all, just try to be happy no matter what my dear. Happiness is the greatest. Shalom.

But identical twins dey really amaze me l swear. Like how do you look at someone that looks exactly like you. I mean like what's the feeling like I know the kind of weird feeling l always get whenever l stare too long at a mirror. Like l will start asking myself "Who are you?" Then just imagine seeing your face on someone's else head almost every single day. Nawa oo

lilyheaven:
You sef na spiritual man

And who told you that my dear

lilyheaven:
Manage your spiritual wife, she will give you plenty money

Hmmm l see🤔. Thanks for the advice sha. Ciao👋

The only thing you Africans know is just to born as many children as possible. No plans for their future. No support system put in place for them. No nothing!!! Just fvck fvck and born born finish! Tufiakwa!!!

lilyheaven:
😆

Or do have anyone for me Just that my very jealous spiritual wife won't allow me to maintain interest in her pass a few months

lilyheaven:
You can’t be alone.
Jesus said he was going to send you a comforter, haven’t you seen urs ?

Nope, my dear, l haven't seen oo But don't ask me why oo

lilyheaven:
Waiting de vex you?
Why you frown face.

Hubby de , he’s doing his best.

Yes, l dey vex cus as a single loner, l hate seeing couples that are happy together. You know say misery loves company

lilyheaven:
Na you wan carry me go shiloo, me say na mosque I wan go.
Na you are saying I’m roaming inside bush.
E good ?

My friend how's the family (in Sabinus voice) Hope your hubby is doing you well?

lilyheaven:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆
Na mosque I go gooo

if l hear, you think l don't know you're married already just tell us how many kids you have already and stop beating about the bush

lilyheaven:
He didn’t give me because he has kept it specifically for you

Don't go and marry and fulfill your feminine destiny you hear See you see Shiloh 2027

NewOrlleans:
See money ooooo

But truth to be told there's money in drug business ooooo only if Nigeria could legalize it just as Sowore postulated few days ago

Yes, once they legalize it, they will first give all your family members Colos or Bonza or Black Mamba to smoke or even the regular weed to either smoke or eat raw, let's know how far.