Having 3 househelps from january to sept just tells so much about u
I wouldnt say you re not a nice person but you sure dnt know how to profer solution to a problem
So for just stealing you sent someone away?
You dont know how to handle a thief without insults and parking them out?
Just go through your tips you wrote down and see how worn out you will be in no time
So when do you and your hubby go out alone without kids
Am not saying you must have an underaged or live in help but watever way try get someone
It could your mum or MIL
Your son staying in a creche till 7pm.does it sound sweet to you?
Allow that boy have a normal childhood of going home when he closes
I can see you trust the people at his creche so well
Try to be more accomodative,tolerate people
So you can live with a stranger without much hassles
Btw how did you know the last help had Eyes for your hubby if your hubby wasnt looking as well
But in all please since you said NO help in 2014 always try not to disturb other peoples help with running errands for you oh
Like going to buy salt or maggi

Kulyie kulyie
Sometimes i wonder if truly you are a Lady
You make so much noise,run your mouth,claim Miss independent
What kind of car do you even Drive,how much is your worth in the Labour Market
A lady is meant to be seen not Heard(Noise Making)
I thought you were Engaged in 2011
So what happened?He dumped you cos of your attitude?
You really have to work on your urself
You are so lonely you need a Man

Lol,if you all believe those threads about Sleeping with my ex,then News flash.I have a plot of Land for sale in venus planet.I entertained this boring family section with my previous thread and someone thinks is my personal life

Am a Lady
Continue to sleep on NL nah what's my bizness.Time u would use in thinking of better ideas to make more money you are here.Help your self so that your kids don't have fly bikes to school anymore.Help your self so that you and your hubby won't be sharing that 1999 corolla.for your mind u don insult me abi .how long do u intend to live in that rented cheap 3bedroom of yours.imagine the area sef Iju ishaga. .serious work resumes tomorrow.Tk

What kind of cheap,insecured, atakara sch does ur kids attend.No sch I'd?So anyone can just walk up to pick any child?
Besides the kind of thread you open sef.I can see you work in a govt parastatal that's why you ve time for such

Medical practitioner can't stop the flow of breast milk.na wa o

chaircover: @poster a lot of people have rightly condemned your actions/thoughts but at the end of the day, you are going to have to consciously do something about things or you will end up doing something stupid and making the biggest misstate of your life.

I know your type; the wild airhead ones!!! the ones who love the excitement and are naturally attracted to "bad" boys and "good" boys bore you. Your husband is a good boy and that is why you are not satisfied. well let me tell you young lady, there is nothing out there and you will only end up messing up your life. Bad boys are no use at the end of the day. The feelings you have for this ex is just animal lust and by the time you sleep with him once or twice you will be over it, but stop for a moment to think about all the tings attached to those few minutes of lust. The lies, the deceit, the betrayal, sin, risk of STD's, pregnancy and a whole heap of other things all for what I ask? a man who upped and left you? A man who if he hadnt been deported may never have bothered to set eyes on you again? Is this the man you want to give up your marriage for

You honestly dont know how lucky you are to be able to describe your husband as a good man. so many people out there are looking for good men to marry and the ones that are married are praying everyday for God to turn their wayward husbands into good men and here you are ready to risk that for a few minutes lust. Why not invest that time into moulding your husband into what you want him to be, tell him how you like it, tell him what you want and if he is as good as you say he is, then he will want to do anything to make you happy. What you are loking for in Sokoto is in your sokoto.

My last point may be rather controversial and depends on the relationship you have with your husband and the kind of person that he is, but you may consider just telling him in passing that your ex is in town. This may work as a control to curb you from doing anything stupid, cos his knowing means that you cannot really do much behind his back without him suspecting something and you wouldnt want that.

Tanks a lot CC,my hubby knws he is in town but he trust me So much not 2 cheat or do anything funny.He always tells me hw God blessed him wit a beautiful and faithful wife.dat breaks my heart.I ve decided 2 be d woman my hubby tinks I really am.as for d spicing up aspect my hubby really doesn't want to accept new tins.He can't finger me,or go down on me.take note dat am very clean,young and pretty.he is always bothered abt me not gettn hurt during sex and dats makes me so furious.its a lot of distractions.keeps askin,Baby re u ok,hope its not painful(because his manhood is a little on d big side)hope dis and dat.pls be careful dnt hurt urself all in d name of sex.is he cos he is 10 yrs older dan me.Buh I will still try 2 initiate a lot of spicy tins.

Gd day everyone.my story is someone long buh ve 2 make it a short one.am married 2 one of d best guy on earth buh still not satisfied.wen I was in my 100 level in sch I was dating my Exboyfriend who later travelled 2uk for greener pastures(cos he thot life was much easier deir)we continued dating till my 400 level wen tins changed.our relationship was not too smooth anyway,ups and down and d istance also.buh he tried his best 2 make sure I was comfortable in sch,money wise.he was not d one seeing me thru sch buh he was doing sometins.I finally got tired cos I was not seeing him and one evening I met my hubby.Not long he proposed 2me,I accepted.I didn't tell my ex because we were still datn den.and one saturday we had a quarell over d fone and he said he was tired of d relationship,so I used dat as an excuse 2 break up wit him.few weeks 2 my wedding,I got a call from him dat he was in lag and that he was deported.I neva agreed 2 see him and didn't even tell him of my wedding.buh he later found out.all of a sudden now I miss him so much and am tinking of having sex wit him,buh he doesn't really want 2 even give me his pin because he said I broke his heart afta all he did 4me.so my prob now is I still ve feelings for him and I dnt mind sleeping wit him wen he finally agrees for us 2meet.I miss d way he kisses me and makes love 2me.I feel for my husband,cos he is so nice 2me.he is any woman's dream.pls wat do I do 2 take my mind off my ex.pls dis not a nollywood tin,am so real.I can even drop my pin,2 show am so real