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ib4real95:
What sites are those?

clothing sites

I cant access 2 specific sites on my laptop
I use mtn as my browser,
this problem just started months ago
how can i go about this

kaorama:
Lecturer. What do u need that for? Some people think upside down.

God bless you

lazy ode
mama never die,he don dey think of property

And the home appliances takes care of ur child when you and hubby are at work abi?
ode

chival:
I still don't understand why many women can't live without domestic help, and please don't give me the career excuse. I have a career, a husband who isn't hands on and a child and I manage just fine.

Invest in home appliances like a washing machine and if you need help with cleaning, get someone to come in once or twice a week.

This domestic help a.k.a house help issue usually doesn't end well, because there is always a sharp delieanation between the househelp and madam's kids.

Your cousin's behaviour is bad, yes, but she is still a child just getting into her teens. How would you treat your child if she exhibits the traits you talked about? Would you be here complaining about it?

Please send that girl home if you are tired of having her around. If the whole idea was to assist her parents with her upkeep, then send them a monthly allowance to do that. Get an elderly nanny for your kids or use a creche/after school service. There are still some good ones. And then roll up your sleeves and keep your home.

When hubby and wifey works from 8-5 is it machine that would look after kids?
Am lucky to have a 28 yr old good maid
2yrs now and no serious issue ,she doesn't live with me
Most older nanny have more issues than younger girls
I can't do this at my age or she insulted me
Any little thing is an insult to them

They feel they are the only one having a nice time with some girl
Don't know where that thought came from

Just March ?
You are not serious
I pity the poor guy

MarvellousGod:
I don't know about Nigeria being a nation of wife beaters but I do know my dad never beat my mum, my Father-in-law never beat his wife, my brothers-in-law don't beat their wives and most importantly my husband doesn't beat me..
so as I already said I don't know about Nigeria being a nation of wife beaters


I didn't read your write up though. ..

Do you live with your brother in law or you lived with your father in law
Say what you are very sure of

Babymama1:
What is that?
I wasn't brought up in the village
I had dolls to play with not leaves

Who is this one again
God why

Egusi soup that i know cant even afford a wife
maid ko
Go to bed jare

why is she not working
is she sick
how do some women cope by doing nothing all day?

We all know to get a dubai visa is the simplest
Maybe he doesn't really want you to move in with him.He might have somebody over there with him,he just wants you to be the Nigerian wife

The man deceived you oh.once your baby is a month old please go back to ghana without even letting his parents have an idea about your plans,cos they will take your baby from you.
I won't ever forgive you if you become so careless, thereby depriving your baby of a motherr.pls act fast

Don't tell me you have been a stay at home mum for 14years oh
If not...

Ewuro4:
Oga speak for yourself and stop hating on NL married women ko? There's nothing to lie about, marging 2 different lifestyles cordially is not an easy task, everyone is trying their best and tolerate each other to make it work. No need for unnessary jab abeg.
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OP my dear, sorry, your post is split into parts so I cant figure out what your story/consern is all about. From what I gathered..

1. He ignores you (how)
2. Insensitive about what exactly?
3. Doesn't make love to you?

My first q is ; have you spoken to him about this? Secondly, is he okay at work , financially, is anything bothering him? Have you tried to investigate ? because men are the simplest being to manipulate. If they're in the right state of mind (financially& psychologically), that is.

Who is this again

What you are going through is not new it happens in most marriages especially in naija but most women esp on NL will lie about it.The days of dating is different from marriage but what I don't understand is the intimacy part
Did you say once in 2 months?he doesn't want kids from you or what
Hmmn

Nice queen
Take your issues off NL
It's better to take it to a false prophet
Most of the women here are something else
And I go with dyt,if u re idle pls get a job, asking for tampons and panties Can lead to the biggest see finish

Godmother:
OP, it could be you have slim genes but anyways, you can also try WEIGHT-ON. It worked wonders for a girl I know who was naturally slim.

Wate on or weight on.no side effects?

boolet:
Hahaha. Are you hungry? Why are you angry?

I can't be
I get breakfast and lunch at work.Say something else

LewsTherin:
A machine does the laundry
A cleaning lady comes in once a week for a thorough cleaning
Services like www.easyshop.com do the shopping once a month
We cook once a month and freeze in small batches
A creche watches the baby during the day and she's learning much faster than her peers



Why get a maid at all?

If you work at Night like a Doctor and hubby goes offshore am sure your baby would spend the night at the creche
Your way of life is totally different from Millions
So that "who needs a maid"is uncalled for

What is Love?
The way people use the word gets me amazed oh
Did u say he can do anything for you even if it makes him...?
You really don't understand life yet

boolet:
Meanwhile, take care of ur staff. Do not emphasise the poor economy to justify the favour you are doing them by giving them a job; without the fear of God, they could fvck you up immensely. I hope the kids will be safe.

Someone just resumed work,next thing kids are missing
All u can say from ur gutter is Take care of ur staff?

Ewuro4:
I'm sorry but who's this Ambode ?

Rich men have been taking advantage of poor man's wife since time immemorial so it's not news to me. And they will never stop.

By the way its a simple case of two consented adults to shine congos, the woman got too comfortable and kicked her husband to the curb.

Poor Mr. Edun, life goes on dude, you just saved yourself from a dangling wrecking ball. Pick yourself up and move on.

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Shine your eyes when choosing a partner, people marry for different goals in mind , so when things ( finances, health etc) goes spiral, they keep it moving.

You don't know Ambode and you are from Nigeria
Abeg shift with your Fake life

sincerenigerian:
Baba, just tell Jonathan to return all his loots and also Jonathan should tell his fellow thieves to return what they stole.

We need all the cash.

The one stolen by Tinubu
What happens
You are funny oh

Op did you just return from planet pluto?

What is plane doing in this matter
Were you trying to explain the distance

Adesuwa is not a yoruba name
People from Edo state bear such

Chei
Op take your matter off NL
So many Negative comments.na so Nigerian men bad reach?
Some women here don already dash the op husband an invisible wife
It's so easy for you all to say my hubby doesn't cheat but can't trust another person's hubby
Op shebi you have a family in the uk

Talk to them

I really feel for kuylie

Later in life someone's kids will be friends with yours
May God save our kids

Well Done
12 to 15 shd be in school abi

Your mother is your mother and I know you love her so much but bro be very careful.
Your mother has not gone to see her grand son?
What kind of mother is that.i think you should focus more on why your mum would hate this girl and her grand son so much
Talking about manners,did it just start?shebi when you were getting intimate unprotected the manner ish was there
Can't say more