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Hello House
I just started this journey and I am getting discouraged already.
Few friends and Family have been saying I would never practice my profession when I get over there.
They said the best I would get are menial jobs.
Some say it takes years to work as an engineer or a medical doctor.They said it’s like going to the university again.
So my fears
This is a skilled entry program
So why would I not continue my profession over there?
Please can anyone shed more lights?
People that live Canada now through this program,how is life for you now?
How has it been in the past years
Thanks .

Thanks alot

Uzoreen:
Please dont be discouraged. I felt the same way after i did mine. I remember trying to figure out how to pay another 68k and i finally just allowed God to take control and stop worrying. I decided to put in more effort in my other exams. Let just say, it all ended with a very huge praise to God.

Long story short, Pls, be confident and don't loose hope. Focus on the ones to come

Hello guys
I took my speaking test today in Lagos and I feel I won’t make it���
I am fluent in communication but I felt the examiner wasn’t convinced
Maybe it’s my thoughts anyway
Preparing for the written test next week Saturday

Abort now that it is at the early stage
Don't listen to people telling you to keep it
They won't be there for you,when you need people.
You would be sad for the rest of your life if you end up with him.
Nigerians and marriage sha

Devguru am begging you again
Kindly go for a DNA test
Just read one story now relating to yours
What are you scared of

Why is the op shying away from DNA issue
Devguru what are you not telling us?
stop being so weak

Dear op
Few years ago we were in the same shoes
I fasted,cried,fought and he didn't change
One day I just decided to love myself more
Did things that made me happy(aside from cheating)
Fix my nails,got a good job,nice hair,well fitted clothes
I go on dates with my friends
See movies in a cinema
Then he started accusing me of cheating,so uncomfortable when am out.He would call like 50 times.
He tried to bully me into sitting at home all day but I refused
He even reported me to my family but I continued to make myself happy
Please note that all I did was NEVER TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS,i just had to be happy
Then all of a sudden I stopped seeing used condom pack
He stopped going out
He wants to go everywhere with me
And no reason to think he is unfaithful
Am not saying you shouldn't pray
Am not saying you should do what I did
It worked for me
But in all PLEASE LOVE YOURSElF AND BE HAPPY
Most Nigerians feel is prayers alone,No
Pray and be practical
You are a full grown woman you should know what am talking about
Wish you well

Mauritius
No visa required
Thank me later
Best beaches

Lowest level of self esteem
Because of a man you go under a knife?
Someone that will still cheat on you
Don't you love yourself?na wa oh

So this maid baths with cold water then your kids hot water?i saw where you said after putting water on the fire you asked her to go and have her bath.
Madam does she bath with cold water?
If yes that could be the reason she just wore her uniform
under age kids should be left with their parents and it is not your business if they can feed or go to school

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Sarifat:
Not so true, one of the reasons a woman will start adding after marriage could be rest of mind, when you are married and there is peace... Also, the fact that u are in total control of your kitchen, you can eat whatever u like. Also, u must add weight ones the kids start coming. Was a size 8 b4 I got married,became size 10 after my first child, size 12 after d second child, I nw have my 3rd child but not sure of what my weight is currently but I think I have not added aside d lil belly fat...

You are just a lazy woman
You must not add weight when kids starts coming

Chidoks:
To me it's about doing the right thing. It's about showing love and care.
Keeping fit is the right thing to do, packing his lunch is the right thing to do, praying for your marriage is the right thing to do.
There's a way you pamper your man that he remembers you with fondness no matter what he does. Love begets love, care begets care.
I don't compare my home with anybody's. What happened in otedola and danjuma's homes shouldn't have anything to do with mine, after all I don't have all their details.
It's not a battle per se, it's taking care of your own.

Can you sure tips on how to pamper a wife

so his siblings move in with you guys?
please why are they there?
Cant they come and visit

Ragner:
Knowing the Illness won't Change anything....Thanks For your Concern anyway....She already Told me Not to Help her atal

Go to bed please.

5 kids and still pregnant?
Is family planning too expensive where you live
Abeg you have been cursed

Why 5 children?
So all you have been doing is giving birth?
In this harsh times 5?

The problem of most Nigerian youths
They see school as the end
What did you study in school
How about building yourself in your career path
And yes you don't need your certificate before you build yourself
So what did you study?
Let's start from here

Man when nor won spend nor dey look woman
Run for your life
That's how I thought I could change my hubby
Now am depressed,sad,confused,quarrel everyday
My own even get serious mouth odor join
To buy clothes for himself na problem
Imagine someone dey wear green shoe and pink shirt
I don die
Everyday I dey pity my life

So what happens if bread winner passes on?
What about finances?Do stay at home just keep asking for tampons all year long?
I cant be financially dependent on my hubby oh

Nigerians with this 'The earlier the better"
where have we gotten to with 'the earlier the better"
make una continue
in fact let your kids recite A for Abimbola at 2 months old
which one concern me
No wonder an average naija kid is so dull(even if they come out first position)just discuss with them and you would find out is all cram work

Phema:
My kids will be home schooled till they are 4.

I'm not ready to put kids under so much pressure.

Wise

What is all this
Thought marriage is meant to be enjoyed
which kind slave be all this
Abeg Goodnight

Don't ever feel your MIL can love you like her child
Big lie
ALL this "she is like a mother to me" they are all BS
am not saying hate your mil,just be neutral stop the too much closeness,when she gets used to it she wont have anything more to say to your hubby
MY STORY
my SIL was getting married so i went to my MIL's house
I was involved in the cooking prep just like everyone present,
cooking,cleaning and others(i wasn't expecting a medal for it anyway)
then i committed a BIG CRIME in their midst
what was the crime?I didn't eat the Egusi soap they prepared.
whenever i take Egusi soap,i always this burning sensation(so uncomfortable) that could go on for more that 12 hours
i was not ready to trade that for a pass mark from my in laws
so i calmly explained to them(if it was my mum,no need for all that))
so i drank tea and went to bed
The next time they saw my hubby,it was that Egusi soup matter they brought up
You wont believe what they said just because of soup even after explaining
If it were my mum,would she be upset? NO
Since that incident i cut off every communication with them and since then no issue of wifey did this or didn't do this

SAMBARRY:
sorry jare my darling. That is shaki pomo liver and eforiro soup

Stop living a fake life for once and attach real pictures
how long are you going to keep stealing pictures from the web

Poor idle family
The cousin is the only one with a decent job
Eye dey pepper ismart
them buy car,prolly tokunbo sef
iphone na how much.Chei the trip to SA dey pepper you because you never even go ghana
Kpele may the Good Lord visit you soon,just as he visited your cousin

and who wants to kick her out?
dont you have sister
Please get a more tasking job,so you stop being petty

All i see is a hungry little guy envious of the material stuffs bought for the said girl
wetin come be dubai abi iphone again
i blame the girl sha...Marriage first before pikin

Nigerians and the usuall crude way of doing things...

therealdeal10:
D parents may av over pampered d little boy dats y e hates going 2 skull dis much

Or beta still d parents shuld put some fear in him not beating him cuz wen he's scared e wnt b told twice about going 2 skull, 4rm dere e wuld get used 2 it

So who is the slow spoke Here
ODE
Must a help be under aged
Because your s illy mother used 8 yr old kids doesn't mean i use them
Dog that refused to die

chival:
You obviously have a problem reading, retard. Meanwhile you and Kimoni should kindly let me be. Keep using underaged girls as slaves. What goes around comes around. This is the last I'll say on this matter. I frankly don't have time for this immaturity and foolishness.

4yrs and 3 kids?
You try oh
Ok that aside,what drastic measures have you taken to get a job.its very important oh

I just started hearing that some side chicks abi girl friend actually go after wifey
I don't understand what could bring such boldness
It's bad enough that the man is cheating then girl friend comes to harass wifey?
Does the man spill out so much info to the girl or the girl goes through his phone?
Has anyone been through this?
How did you handle.it seems very strange to me
That is the highest level of disrespect any man can give to his wife
It is not really easy to stay married