₦airaland Forum

Shukuakukobambi:
Another threat? how will the north repay it? By you voting Atiku or Saraki for 2019?

Have they finished repaying that of 1967?

When will you learn to shut your mouths instead of chest beating and blowing hot air?

though sorrow may last for the night, joy comes in the morning, everyday for the thief one day for the owner, a day will come, u and ur pipo will beg for visa to visit southern Nigeria.
go mark today's date.

i am not insinuating anytin but tins like dis will reduce wen we all learn to work hard and not look for d easy way out

wat buhari did in the east will never ever be forgotten and d north will repay dis debt

only an ignorant fool will disagree with this man

as a man, pls help urselves, go and make money first,
if not, u will regret why u accepted her love

people in certain positions shud be subjected to psychometric tests pls!

seguno2:
Buhari who is not obeyed by ordinary IGP is the one that you are expecting to rule without fear or favour?
Are you joking or you are a joker

who's advocating for buhari? i want both of them out!!!!

darrellg9:
why not just ask osinbajo to run in his place...osinbajo is the best man for APC dis time around. Osinbajo for president 2019[b]why not just ask osinbajo to run in his place...osinbajo is the best man for APC dis time around.

Osinbajo for president

no experience, he condoles rubbish, no courage to speak the truth, he is controlled by tinubu.
we need someone who will rule without fear or favour

buhari is not fit.
APC members and supporters dont mean well for nigeria by campaigning for him

she will realize how foolish her statement is, when she is divorced and old.

nanauju:
Thank you very much for this assertion. You were really unbiased in your examination having looked at the situation from all angle, and still letting us know that any action wasn't entirely wrong.
And also thank you for communicating your idea without resorting to abuse and immature speech just because of conflict in ideas and reasoning... You're what a true communicator is.
As for the man, I lost nothing. I didn't go and I'm still happy I didn't. He reached out to me again and still insisted on making a big deal of me not coming to house for the date, and how meeting people in house makes him connect more(whatever that means) with them.
If going to a man's house suits anyone or if a man is used to ladies coming to his for hangout especially on a first date, well that is not my principle, and I'm unapologetic about it

indecent dresser with principles good morning.

onegig:
I do agree with SheisElle that talking bad about her appearance is not too cool. Everyone is beautiful in their own little ways and we should honestly shun abusing people based on their physical outlook. You would not find it funny if someone calls you a monkey all because you are black.

As for the putting down due to location. It's her own problem not that of the ex. I doubt he even bats an eye. Except you are blinded. There are some neighborhoods in Isolo that you would have to be really loaded to even rent a mini flat in let alone have land and build a house . It's all relative.

quit bn a sissy n condem her for talking down on her ex"s location of residence like u r condemning those bashing her looks. Where r ur balls?

SheIsElle:
Of what good purpose will telling her this truth achieve? You think she is not aware of her looks? She has even probably been mocked and ridiculed as a result of it. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine how she will feel if she is going through these comments, most of them are really very hurtful and the worst is that there isn't really anything she can do to change her appearance, she didn't create herself and am sure had it been she had a choice, she would have chosen better.
We all too fast to ridicule her because of her outward appearance without even considering her inner beauty, she could have the most beautiful soul ever. No one deserve been called all this hurtful names, Its really unfair.

stop bn emotional u hear. D lady in question has bad mouth. Do u tink her ex that lives at isolo will appreciate the way she put him down due to his location of residence?
I can barely tolerate rudeness from a cute girl, but for an ape like her, she deserves to be alone for bn rude wit a crass attitude.

I'm always weiry abt sucking girls v cos d place is like a vacuum of death with the monthly rubbish that passes tru.

Amakababe:
Who cares?
Just enjoy yourself. Even if it's unhealthy, it's the man that'll end up sucking all the bacteria away.

You have nothing to lose abeg

u r a beast. Evil woman.

SheIsElle:
That is not fair, she didn't create herself. She is still a human being. Show some emotion.

truth say mk dem nor talk am? Those that showed her emotion in d past obviously confused her my dear. Can't u see?

dominique:
That can't possibly be the only reason. Richer and more successful women do find love and get married, you shouldn't be an exception.

tell ur fellow woman the gospel truth and don't be a politician.

They lied abeg.
With someone like U, money is not everytin aftetall

MissJoy29:
Feminism? Where does it factor here?

u untillegently got hooked on the word feminism while ignoring the crux of the matter as analysed. Ur friend is a hoe my dear.
Just so u know, persons b4 u have tried to engage me but failed woefully. Cos I decide who to engage. I make d decisions here so run along kid.

MissJoy29:
A clear case of a kettle calling even a cup black.

As an uncertified(yet) psychologist myself, I think you have succeeded in embarrassing the likes of us. As a psychologist, you have to be discerning, wise and most of all, calm. Otherwise, it....., it just won't.......never mind.

You have already concluded your argument with the op amicably. I was even impressed by your maturity at letting things go. Only for you to give this totally uncalled-for & highly irrelevant outburst. She wasn't even talking to you. Even if you think she's all these things, is that how to say them?


#nohardfeelings

Feminism will not kill u my sister.
I was even very mild wit d op.
She is actually an irresponsible girl for the following reasons;
1. Indecent dressing in public
2. Exchanging numbers with a randy man knowing fully well he was lusting after her
3. She is a materialiatic gold digger who was obviously moved by wat she was told.
4. In preparing for her date, she placed so much emphasis on d money she spent. It's a date not an investment forum.
5. She wasn't really interested in the man but wats in it for her.
6. I see a hoe
NO HARD FEELINGS MY DEAR

DonroxyII:
U lack
Attention to Details
Scenario based analysis
Decision Efficiency/Effectiveness skills
Human relations

You are :
Temperamental
Judgemental
Generalising
Bittered
and Dumb

Learn how to correct civilly, if it doesn't go your way, don't profile the other person .... Why must she adopt ur view .... u dey there

wen it concerns u directly, i will dignify u with an appropriate response. But for now, continue bn discombobulated in obfuscation. Cheers.

DonroxyII:
Damn think, You meet someone in public , chatted a while and GBAM , off you go to his house .... D dude Na stewpid Konjified nigga !!! .... That's not how it's done mehn ..... He already got this girl but fvcked up !!

@NanaUju, u should have known when he asked make una branch for bar at that odd time during una meeting time .... Na DAT ass way u use sit on his legs burst ihm brain

I don't make comments to please anyone or appear as holier than thou.
People still meet up in public, have good communication on fone for a while, understand each other overtime and meet up at home. I have done it countless times and it's not a crime. I do not pander to the expectations of the sanctimonious.

nanauju:
Funny enough the guy suggested bar, you're the only person here saying Eatery. It's such a shame you couldn't read past the 'slay queen' spice of the story in drawing your conclusions

u hav a funny personality aftèrall.
As a psychologist, I tink ur a lil too quick in decision making.
Temperamental.
Judgemental.
A little bit of bitterness n negative minded.
Poor in human relations n not so intelligent.
Work on these my dear. Cheers

nanauju:
For what it's worth, I can't go to a guy's house on a first date. And stop trying to play the maturity card here, it makes you look like you don't have a superior argument. Hope you will go to church though

ok I rest my case. Not going today. Cheers

nanauju:
U try well well u hear. I should go to the house of someone I've barely had communication with. My dear wisdom is profitable to direct o. This ur advice sha is not helpful. Abi u think food is my problem. If we can't meet in public in public on our very first date, please let me be. Thanks though

Btw, eatery isn't the only place that is public. Cinema, fun park or even bar is. There are some things you should know by now

did u suggest those places to him n he refused to go with you? U concluded too fast.
N again, it seems u became interested in him because of wat he does n his achievements he told u abt.
He saw a slay queen n he became a slay king immediately. Just may be

nanauju:
U try well well u hear. I should go to the house of someone I've barely had communication with. My dear wisdom is profitable to direct o. This ur advice sha is not helpful. Abeg u think food is my problem. Thanks though

u said u both kept chatting b4 the date, dats communication n u shud av bn able to discern his kind of person from his chats n response to ur questions. About going to his house, u still wud av ended up there anyway, the eatery outin will not stop his evil plot if he had any. Remember the story of the son of ex deputy gov of ondo who used his gf of many years for rituals?
I am not saying u shudnt be careful wit guys but have ready made questions to reveal people's personality to some extent.
I bliv the guy was not totally funny like u trying to make us bliv, I think u didn't handle the situation maturely.
Good morning and happy sunday

dnawah:
Chie the thin was So small that she cannot feel it

that's her way of telling him in a coded way but baba no wan gree bliv

U r the funny character here.
U like him enuf to eat food from eatry but not the food u will cook at home together.
U r just playing to the gallery young lady.
What if eateries don't exist?
Think outside the box next time.
U just may have lost a good homely guy.

Dnt ever marry without going for medical check up.
Test everytin. From fertility to HIV n genotype.
The level of deceit is extremely high today.

Wetin we gain?

IamPatriotic:
I doubt this information, still I'll get in touch with the wife's school mate who first told me about their relationship and how Musa met the lady at an Abuja nightclub.

night club wife.
Musa na goat

People say I'm stubborn because I always do me.
Refuse to pander to the expectations of the sanctimonious