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You're so proud.Well too bad for you the people that come to you are hungry and harlots.They know who they come to(proud guys like you) so do not say 98% of us are like that because Nigerian girls are home trained. Please don't call yourself a Nigerian self.You're proud that you're not black.We are more proud that you aren't because it will be an insult to the rest of the guys so please if you're asked,don't say you're mixed,just say the other race abeg before they think we all are like you.Have a happy married life with your Turkish abi Brazilian wife.Hope she knows how to cook egusi and Ogbonno to make you fatter and healthier and she won't go with half of your money if you divorce.Guy I'm just seeing your picture!Hahhaha and you said you're not black lol(maybe it's the picture or the filter).Please don't post anything again.you can go to brazillianland Abi Turkishland.

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Wow..she might be ovulating.Dosent she calculate self.sha if it's around the middle of her cycle(which starts from the first day of the last period to the first day of the next) and Ranges from 28-35 days then she might get pregnant

Is she ovulating? Because if she's not then she won't get pregnant

Period dates changing mean absolutely nothing so no fear

LoL tell her then..tell her you want to be interested in her period jist and all but that it's getting too much

It's all in your head...Go to the hospital if it persists though.

Yessss you guys are meant to be that free.My ex even knew the dates but not all the time though,starts getting annoying.

Abeg invest and stop disturbing us and yourself

It is not bad at all.You are free to like anyone and it's good that you know that it'll be wrong to do what you feel like doing.Allow other guys into your life to take your mind off him and don't spend all your time drooling over him.

Please tell your parents...they might be harshe on you and all but they might not support the abortion issue.discuss with them especially your mum(she'll give you the best advice) and she'll be the best shoulder to cry on

Then be both a mum and dad to your kids..giving a child up is hard.You will never stop thinking of that child and how the child feels without you.Dont you have relatives to financially help you?

Self pity is the worst thing you can do to yourself.He moved on Yeah!you're allowed to cry and all but not for long.Once the crying days are over,wipe your tears,stand up and make him regret ever leaving you and make other guys bow down at your feet.What if that child you're planning on aborting is going to be the reason for your happiness.Girl you don't know if you're planning on aborting a future pilot,doctor,enginner or lawyer who'd love and cherish his/her mother for fighting all odds and taking care of him/her.Abortion in this state will come with a lot of depression and may even lead to suicidal thoughts and not going to make you feel better.Please be a great woman abeg and stop living your life based on people and circumstances.Life is not a bed of roses,you either learn from your mistakes so it'll never happen again and you'll have a better future or you keep on dwelling in self pity until you commit sucide or even start taking drugs and all that.

We're in the 21st century so yes

Lol see me thinking you're like 25 and you've been dating someone since secondary school.Please you're a guy and you have like 8-10 years to have fun before marriage.Ask her if she still likes you and if she doesn't,fashi her and move on but you guys can still be close though.Maybe she's tired who knows

Light skinned girls are naturally attractive.If a dark skinned girl and a light skinned girl are walking together, the first person a guy will spot will be the light skinned girl.You really have to see a dark skinned girl up close to appreciate her beauty.

Give her fem fresh vagina wash as a Christmas gift

It depends on the congenital malformation.Euthenesia can only be allowed for terminal illnesses.Many people live for so long with congenital problems with not much complications.The best solution is evacuation of a congenitally malformed embryo before it is fully developed(this is still unethical in countries like Nigeria but it's better than Euthenesia)

So this is mostly for ladies but it would be really good for guys to know about it.A lady is 100% sure of getting pregnant on only one day in a month.This day is known as the ovulation day(the egg is reason this day).The normal menstrual cycle ranges from 28-35 days.Every lady should know their own menstrual cycle to maintain a healthy sex life.I use a period calendar app on my phone though but it can be manually calculated.Your menstrual cycle starts from the first day of your last period to the first day of the next.Knowing your menstrual cycle is the first step in maintaining a healthy sex life.For instance if you're menstrual cycle is 28 days.Divide it by two making the 14th day your ovulation day.Do not have sex without protection 2-3 days before and after the ovulation day to avoid chances and on the ovulation day itself.The safest time to have unprotected sex is 2-3 days after and before your menstruation day.
N/B-Signs of ovulation include increased vaginal secretions,desire to have sex(so guys be careful),increased temperature,stomach pain and little blood discharge in some cases.
N/B-Please note changes in your menstrual cycle because this will shift your ovulation date

Yes you can have normal children but you have a 50% chance.Read more on tests that could be done early to detect sickle cell anemia and get a family doctor who specializes in Gynecology.i have heard of a family with this same situation but to God be the glory they had no child with sick cell.So you have 5 options 1) Do not marry her 2) Marry her and do not have kids 3) Have kids using medical support(ask a doctor for options) 4)Pray fervently and have kids(God won't give you something he knows you can't handle if you're faithful to him so even though you have a sickle celled child just pray that God gives you strength) 5) Adopt a child
Sickle cell is no longer a death sentence nowadays sef

Hey guys!!! I know most nairalanders know that the man is responsible for the sex of a child but I'd just like to inform the others who do not know.Okay for quite a long time women have been blamed for been responsible for the sex of a child in developing countries like Nigeria.In this post I'd like to clarify this misunderstanding in the simplest way I can.Every month,every woman releases an egg waiting to be fertilized by a sperm.It degenerates if it is not fertilized and the monthly menstruation occurs. Every man's semen(that is the liquid containing the sperms and other healthy materials like proteins) has sperms that can be of two types-the X and the Y.X stands for female and Y stands for male.During ejaculation,millions of sperm move towards the egg.If the first sperm that fertilizes the egg is an X sperm,the child will genetically be a girl(XX) and if the Y sperm is the first to fertilize the egg,the child will genetically be a boy(XY).As you can see XY indicating the boy shows that a man can give either X or Y and the XX indicating a girl shows that a woman will always give X.If you don't understand please indicate and I'll go over it again till you do.So as you can see the sex of a child is based on Luck so the fact that you got a boy when you married another wife doesn't mean that you're former wife was the reason behind you having just girls with her.

So I just want to ask if it's possible to be a surgeon,own a restaurant,cook,bake and own a food blog,be an event planner and inspirational speaker and satisfy my future husband and kids..most people say I can either be a good surgeon and bad wife or own a restaurant,bake,be an event planner,a food blogger and an inspirational speaker and be a good wife..I'm so confused because I'm currently in my 3rd year studying medicine and I love it but I don't feel complete.

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Pray and stop dwelling on finding a perfect person.

Turn on's- he must be smart(N/B-you mustn't get 5.0 but at least talk like someone who knows what he's saying),Good sense of humor,a guy who thinks with his brain not his stuff,neat with a good sense of style,a low key type of guy
Turn offs-I hate guys that choose drugs,cigarettes and alcohol over their babes,guys without a mind of theirs(always listening to peers and all),talkative,always everywhere, needy guys(calling everyday)

Thank God for social media..you mustn't necessarily talk to a girl first before getting to know her..you guys can get to know each other on social media first then when you get comfortable,you guys can hang out freely..And if you really admire someone,all that shyness will go..

Love and Maturity

I'm am an introvert to others but an extrovert in my comfort zone

You're asking from men to serve God..lol you're funny..Just pray and ask God if it's the best decision not us

It depends on your guy or babe..I seriously hate a needy relationship so for me once in a week but we'll chat often though but if he/she likes attention,care and all please call everyday.