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irishCream:
Dear Family I'm in deep shiiit, so confused on what to do right now.

I just turned 29 few days ago and have been out of a serious relationship for over a year now.

Have been waiting patiently for that right man to come along but unfortunately it only the wrong ones that keep coming my way, they just want to have a feel of my sweet body and off they go, no genuine intentions.

Now there's a brother that have been friendzoning for over two years now yet he keep persisting, good a thing I'm not the type that pretends so I told him from day one he asked me out that I'm not interested in him except on friendship level, I told him I don't feel him emotionally but he keep hanging on hoping I change my mind with time, my reasons for rejecting him is cos to me he's not presentable enough and I can't be proud introducing him to my people and again he got no good paid job (why on earth must he be poor and ugly at the same time, what kind of torture is that ). He's just managing in a private firm that pays less than 50k.

But what makes me have a rethink is the character of this my friendzoned brother, he keeps in touch despite my rejecting him, he even offer little financial assistance when I'm in need, when I asked him why he's doing all these to a girl that openly reject him he claims he has faith that I'll consider him one day, sometimes I'm forced to suspect if he has cast a spell on me so another good man won't come my way.

Now he has called to schedule a date tomorrow and I know as usual he wants to remind me that the year is running that I should consider his request since he hope to settle down this year.

Please dear Family advice me accordingly is it advisable I say yes to a man I don't feel a thing for emotionally? Can I ever get to love him? I do hear love grows but I don't believe in such!!!

xynerise:
Going through the developmental stages in life, some teens tend to take a wrong detour in life. Many teens are becoming rebellious to their parents and causing disunity in the family. Setting their own rules in the house and disrespecting anybody who tries to stop them from doing what they wish to do.

"Spare the rod and spoil the child". Does this also applies to teenagers? I guess not. What other psychological ways can we correct this rebellion?

5minsmadness:
Hello RoyalRoy.
It was titled My Pre-wedding Pics by 5minsmadness.
Ishilove undeleted it and relegated it to the jokes section after I made a little protest though I still don't know what rule I broke.

5minsmadness:
Sorry for veering off point but I just noticed my thread was deleted
Is that normal? @timbuktou,pickabeau1 edwife?

FrancisTony:
Err', thanks, I never even wanted to reply her on this thread not until one of her roforofo girlfriend indirectly referenced to me. You can see I ignored her silly rants on that thread until one of the moderators she mentioned came to lock the thread.
Maybe that her friend would care to read the thread.
She's still butthurted after I ignored her on a thread she quoted me, I guess.

Well, you can see how she went all gangster when I opined about sending message to a super-moderator inorder to track her IP; hence prooving my suspicion.

*Dangotesmummy, I know that's Sambarry.

[color=#000033] Mr Francis, you have an issue too.


You seem to like the back and forth trading
of words.

Why not just stick to your points and move on ahead? What's all this 'she said this, they said that"?

If you have to reply everyone who is opposing you in one form or the other, then u probably have too much time in your hands with nothing to do with it.

A lot of people will quote you for all the wrong reasons and u can't be going on and on replying them all.

Biko, stop all this bickering and learn to ignore.

Its a very simple thing to do!!!! [/color]

Adufetohposh:
RoyalRoy seff dey view this thread

Ewuro4:
Stalking, Name calling & Falsifying info .. to name few

5minsmadness:
Thanks RoyalRoy

KelvinGraphics:
Hello His ROYAL Majesty, KING ROYALROY..

#TeamTOMFRENCH says Good morning to you and we wish you wonderful day ahead

edwife:
RR i will hold you to this,trust me....From now on i am your belt-whenever you go i will follow



Tomfrench

cc NLJega

edwife:
Akposi I honoured your invite



cc NLJega

[color=#000033] Oya modify and add Tomfrench to your vote too before 6pm. And enjoy immunity for 100 years..... [/color]

Tomfrench:
able boss, i sight you, just type 'i vote tomfrench cc nljega' so it would count

edwife:
My sentiments exactly.I don't understand how can someone who has never been around a cheat or raised by such,will know what to do exactly.How can someone raised and surrounded by positivity only have negative advices and sermons about marriage?

Shouldn't such a person be more positive than negative?

Why should i learn self defence when my life has never been in danger?

if you know what i mean?

BALLERON:
1,8m

Inception:



CHAI!


then if them scam you now you go dey pray fire and brimstone,

My guy dont live above your means, be humble!
your price cannot even buy a clean naija used 2007 toyota corolla!




[size=20pt]HABA![/size]

[color=#000033] God bless you for this post.

A 2009 Highlander for 1.1m?

Sometimes I don't blame those OLX scammers. As long as people like this exist, who have 1.1m and wants to drive a 2011 Honda Accord used or toks, it still unbelievable


@Xyoung, please take to the advice you got above. If anybody should even offer you any of those cars you requested for at 1.1m whether toks or even used, you should be very wary.

The only realistic car in your list is the 2003 Nissan Pathfinder. I hope u either up your budget for those cars or you trim down your "taste" and go for something realistic.

Cheers.
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SAMBARRY:
RoyalRoy when is Zeus going to get married like this?



aren't this his mates abi he never old enough to tie the knots ni

YoungWiseCash:
I intended to obtain a loan of 50k from an organisation in my locality which I will pay 2800 weekly. Any one with an idea on the business I will invest such amount that will generate at least 3000 income weekly.

kromoto:
Good one!

I will be more happy if she is aware of how government politics killed the production of NICOSAN, a promising drug locally produced by NIPRD to TREAT sickle cell ailment and the determination to ensure that this is revived.

Along the airport road abuja is an international cancer center yet to be operational despite that on the day of its fund raising about 3billion was realized on the spot during the reign of Turai Yaradua.

This country na wa!

MizMyColi:
Mrs Osinbanjo looks unhappy.
Does she have an inferiority complex or are certain issues weighing her down?

I wish her well.

[color=#000033] That moment when you find yourself in an unexpected position.... It takes time to sink in.


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Onegai:
Ah, fret not, on hubby's birthday this year, the kind fight we had in the car eh on the way to pick up his birthday gift and the rest of the wahala that continued that evening. Poor man just endured his birthday. So the next day, I was on a mission: went out to pick some fresh flowers, grabbed all my tea lights and scented oils, bubble bath and a bottle of his favourite wine.

And he got a great massage! And I was 6 months preggers o!

At least you tried, you can decorate a cake, I can't even measure flour to bake.

[color=#000033] Babe!!!


That's a party after the party!!!

Very nice. [/color]