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I think this situation varies in individual not on tribe.

As Igbo guy i dated one. Akwa Ibom lady sometime ago. In shot she was my first girl fried after my school.

To my best knowledge she was in love with me probably because i was on money and i hardly say no to her financial need.

When things changed for me to extend that i sold my car and also lost my apartment. This girl look into my eyes and told me that she is not interested in the relationship anymore.

I tried pleading with her because i needed a place to park my things and to save my self from emotional downturn.

She made it clear to me that i can come and stay with her but i should not put eyes on her matter because she has moved on.

To save my self from constant emotional trauma i turn down the granted help. That was last time i spoke with her till now since 2018. T

Sorry bro he is not being bias, when ESN was given weapons to sack all the federal security Agencies didn't know it would end like this. Today we are not only fighting the federal security bodies but we are killing our brothers.

This is what we wanted. I was strongly against the establishment of ESN, now see where it has landed us.

The federal government has been looking for opportunity to monitor economic growth in the region now they av gotten one.

Mnamdi Kalu is a calamity upon Igbos.

I knew it would come to this point. God help our region

Three years ago when the so called ESN was established I know it will definitely end as terrorists. Nnamdi Kanu has destroyed the peace and tranquillity in the south east hence the region was regarded as crisis free zone. He has written his name in the book of blood suckers.

Sure

But the message is passed. How do u mean when you said "paragraph". Kindly teach me thanks

But the message is passed

You are playing with ur happiness. She always talking about the guy whenever she is around you is a red flag. Visiting the guy is the end of the relationship. There is noting like innocent talk. My advice here is try to withdraw attention, love, and caring u are giving to her, it will help u see clear. Try talking to other girls and observe her reactions to it. Just take ur time and develop a big heart for ur self

I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks

[quote author=yarimo post=123963959]and June 12 is democracy day [ Alright]

To some extent

As long as power is legally transfered, the deputy Governor should act as governor, I mean been able to make his own decisions. He shouldn't wait until the Governor who went for medicals permits him. He should be acting as a governor: and that's what he is doing

Umeh wants to use peter obi presidential influence and win Anambra Central . hahahahhaha old politics

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[quote author=Aniwetalu thats what happened between Gowon and Ojukwu that led to civil war. Aburi accord

African way of reasoning is very bad. I do not praise them by dacing while on duty. But question is how dacing on duty distract them from working. Better thing is to call them and warn them that's all.

That's y they I'll always been seen as sex object nothing more.

Kazeem47:
Hijab with four leg

ur voice is too loud . please lower ur voice am busy inside

U realized ur mistakes though too late. If the guy wasn't cheating too he wouldn't have forgiving u all these while. Once u started cheating u can't stop it for any reason. From the first day he notice u a cheat that was the day he broke up with u. Work on ur self den wait for better opportunity.

Dilijingsly:
My girlfriend is now pregnant and I never planned for it I told her that i am not ready now but she told me knows what to be doing after sex and she won’t get pregnant, she just sent this to me now, what do I do . Abort. Or what I am not financially stable that’s my only problem. I want the baby but money no dey for hand

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