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Romance / Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by rueshappy(m): 6:41pm On Jun 21, 2020
stanliwise:

The worst thing anyone can do is to give people gift because you are in a relationship with them and not because they worth it, and if things goes sour you then want your gift back. undecided

First thing first, you gave her the phone as a gift, let it be, the most immature thing you can do is for you to collect it back.

She owes you nothing for buying her a phone and don’t expect she behaves like the way you wanted.

Next time don’t act angry if she misbehaves, it only shows your immaturity and high level of frustration. If a girl finds out their actions frustrates you then you are done for. Act angry only when she is trying to play with your intelligence or don’t keep to what she promised or when she does something physical to you. Other games of silent and not answering calls shouldn’t make you act angry even if you are truely angry. If e too pain just simply state it to her in a calm tone once and leave it.

She asked you for something and the worst reply you gave her in this context is that let’s see. I call it timid. Simply tell her you don’t have the money or you can‘t get it now and don’t promise her any date. Giving a girl is your decision and purely your decision don’t let anyone push you.

Now she has the guts to ask you for phones and slippers, mirror same energy and guts and ask her exactly what you want, if you want a relationship, be bold and brazen. Ask her! If she don’t want to agree to your terms then fine you too act lackadaisical to her own terms too.

Stop feeling low and ashamed your are been played, if she is telling her friends what you think then let it be. Once bitten twice shy.

From now stop putting her only in your basket, be open minded and seek any other female available.

Please give her just the same attention she gives you. If she start showing 40% readiness, then you too 40%. Just ensure you sometimes take the lead in doing thing and wait for her to reciprocate before another one.

Please please leave the phone for her. Next time she does something obviously wrong, I mean obviously wrong which doesn’t warrant a physical reaction just jejely call her and tell her without any show of anger in your face. Then forget it. Only in cases where issues are severe you should act angrily. E.g she cheat on you or lie to you or steal from you or implicate you. Aside this moment don’t act angrily in front of a girl it gives her a sense of Unnecessary importance And shows your frustration.

Next time don’t ever give people something in-expectation that they would behave nicely, the best moment to give someone a gift is when you realized they need it, either because you noticed it or they inform you about it. At all cost avoid giving people things that are not necessary especially when it come to a girl that thinks you admire her. And your giving should be based on your own agreement not out of persuasion.

Girl are complicated

best reply ever...

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Romance / Re: I Think This Girl Is A Player/Gold Digger, What Should I Do? by rueshappy(m): 6:36pm On Jun 21, 2020
thesicilian:
I don't think any smart guy would ever be in your shoes bro

Hahahahahahahaha...! sarcasm

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Romance / Re: Have You Dated Someone Who Desperately Wanted To Get Married? by rueshappy(m): 9:55pm On Jun 13, 2020
Blackmoran:
Yea my ex..... She came all the way from benue to leave with me, every day she keeps bombarding me with pictures of people wedding, fantasising on babies and us having kid together... Though this girl was cool she is homely can cook clean and kind of intelligent to spice it up my family loves her so much especially my dad, she has this free spirit personality.. But my instinct wasn't good with the idea it was too good to be true.. And secondly I wasn't ready financially to take on the burden of marriage but this girl never mind.... During December she travelled with my junior sister to his home town, to cut the story short I followed my instinct and today am a surviver of what would have given me heart attack....... During the thick of the moment she started showing are true colour, that homely girl started showing arrogant trait, the change was fast that I thought this can't be true... I did the right thing I broke up with her... Though my dad was sad about it but I let him know I know her more Than Them and what she portray is not who she is... A week after we brokeup my junior sister gave me the shocking news of my life.... That my ex was pregnant. . I didn't believe her cause We haven't had sex up to 4 months meaning when she was with me she was banging another dick... I waited till eight month later to find out she gave birth to a baby boy...and here let me burst your brain the father of the baby was my best friend who I trust so much...na that one pain me pass ... Lesson when a girl is trying to rush you into marraige run for your life.... If you want to get married do it at your convenient time... All girls would be at there good behavior during courtship, this one even take it to the extreme she even dey cut grass for compound... Na after marriage woman go show you are real colour....

Mad ooooo

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Food / Re: What Is Your Favourite Meal Of The Day And Why ? by rueshappy(m): 10:28pm On Aug 12, 2019
3 days old beans...
Business / Re: Hubmart Omole: Inside The Hubmart Store Omole Branch (photos) by rueshappy(m): 8:43am On Jul 27, 2019
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



What's the fuss about please, we are in 2019 for Frodd's sake!

I don't see what's here to be celebrated.
It is not even well stocked, the building looks like a warehouse with glass windows, it is relatively small and obviously unorganized. So I wonder why I should be impressed by a less than regular mall in Omole?

GTBank can do better than this fvckery.

In Nigeria, there is Shoprite, there is Spar and there is Marketplace and this does not come in anyway close to this 3 upcoming malls in terms of state capital-class standards let alone worldclass standards.

Even Bata had a better showroom in Enugu as far back as 1992.
You're just a big fool..

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Romance / Re: Matchmaking: Ladies And Gentlemen, Fall In And Feel Lucky by rueshappy(m): 4:11pm On Apr 20, 2019
I need a lady between 38 - 40
Education / Re: The Men That Made Science Very Difficult In One Picture by rueshappy(m): 8:42am On Apr 10, 2019
I won't be sitting that close to Curie If I were Planck.. Too much radiation..

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Events / Re: Man Buried In A Helicopter Shaped Coffin In Edo(photos) by rueshappy(m): 5:12pm On Mar 21, 2019
Which kind Future helicopter be this..? Some bloggers sha..

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Romance / Re: She Slapped Me For Doing This by rueshappy(m): 11:10am On Mar 12, 2019
I no want this your touching body.. Because say my mama no like am.
Sports / Re: A Birmingham Fan Runs Into The Pitch, Punches Jack Grealish On The Head by rueshappy(m): 8:29pm On Mar 10, 2019
majamajic:
can't wait to see Man Utd trash arsenal Today,

How far.?
Romance / Re: I Flew With My Daughter To Port Harcourt To See Grandpa Today - Photos by rueshappy(m): 8:25pm On Mar 06, 2019
See this confused man Wey talk say em go share 30k card for em wife bday.. So u still get mind to come here upload ur pictures..

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Romance / Re: Having Issues With Smallsized Manhood Come In Here by rueshappy(m): 10:21pm On Feb 27, 2019
Una want make person get craw-craw for dick..
Romance / Re: N30k Recharge Cards For 8 People On My Girl's 24th Birthday This Saturday by rueshappy(m): 1:53am On Feb 24, 2019
Where the card Airforce1 23rd don finish oo..
0803-197-6175 MTN
Romance / Re: N30k Recharge Cards For 8 People On My Girl's 24th Birthday This Saturday by rueshappy(m): 3:54am On Feb 23, 2019
Happy birthday to ur gf.. Abeg make I dey among the 8 people oo..
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@ACCESS BANK
Romance / Re: Can Anyone Please Offer Me A #15000 Loan by rueshappy(m): 10:27am On Feb 18, 2019
Bloooody:

Are you mad?
I told you to drop this 2hrs ago!
I have changed my mind.
You nor get hand work oo.. If u no wan help the dude no dey show ur self oo
Crime / Re: Sarah Death: Mat Ice, Auchi Shut Down In Edo by rueshappy(m): 8:09pm On Feb 15, 2019
This is the hand work of *L* (Kira)
If u have watched Death Note, you will knw what am talking about..
Her death was so staged and planned.. Meehn village people wicked oo
Romance / Re: What Did You Get Or Gift For Val by rueshappy(m): 2:31pm On Feb 15, 2019
Pets / Re: Lady Carries And Kisses A Smith Bear by rueshappy(m): 10:39am On Feb 13, 2019
How's that a Chimp naw... Una no ge eyes ooo.. Its a bear pls..

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Celebrities / Re: Photo Of BBNaija's Nina's Boyfriend, Collins Revealed. Nigerians React by rueshappy(m): 2:11pm On Apr 28, 2018
grin

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Sports / Re: Super Eagles Players Camp In Poland (Photos) by rueshappy(m): 2:51pm On Mar 22, 2018
nairavsdollars:
Hey guys, Don't score plenty goals. Just score 6-0. Spell P-O-L-A-N-D
embarassed
Crime / Re: Zambian Man Kills Himself And His Children Because His Wife Enjoyed Masturbating by rueshappy(m): 1:58am On Mar 22, 2018
This is really bad shocked
Crime / Re: Man Who Disguised As A Lady In A Nightclub In Port Harcourt, Caught (Photos) by rueshappy(m): 1:52am On Mar 22, 2018
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