What is the  difference between african women and african american women?  What about the same thing as far as the me? Are the women allowed to talk back to their men?  Women in America, most of us don't take any crap from men.  If you can't fullfill our need, we say NEXT!

well well well, Mr Vader, see we meet again. My post conercening ladies may I have your attention please got you upset. I am sorry, take your boxers out ya butt. and the only reason I chose my name nick name ruffrider, is because I love to drive motorciycles

Well excuse me Mr. Vader, you looked upset. This was for ladies only, but men feel free to comment also. I am not trying to cause any conflict here. Just my Opinion. I know alot of us brought up in different cultures, so ladies have respect for ya also, but I think the world does not revolve around them

Ladies! My I have your attention for a moment.  
Let us stop worrying about what men want and how they feel about us.  Let us stop worrying about what's on their minds, we are not mind readers.  Let us focus on us for a while.  Get into a good interesting book that will keep us eager to find out what happen next.  Get yourself all doll up, hit a nice little spot and let it be all about us.  Get you a ladies club, take turns with the house parties, reading clubs.  Go out with the girls. Plan a all girls trip out of town and spa. If the men aren't acting right, whatever whatever whatever.  Keep your hair fix and nails nice and trim and ya clothes right, and let your haters be your motivators. [/color]

hell to the h e l l no

I don't know if I would call it love, i would call it "shooting the breeze,get it"

When men or women feel like they are being nagged, they shut down. Sometimes I get in my world, I just don't want to talk. I just want to be left alone until I feel like talking. I am a female and there comes a time when I just want time to myself to think or anything. If you feel that he lost iove, find you someone until he comes around. No, don't do that, hey, but that's what I would do. If I think my man lost his love for me, oh well, I find someoneelse to have fun with in the mean time, until you he comes around, so be it. MY OPINION

Are there any members that live in Atlanta, GA, if so send ya shout shout out.

When you do talk to him, be calm and laidback with the discussion.

Don't worry about it. If he is taking care of home and making sure your needs are met, don't worry about it. Spending more time with family and friend will get your mind off of this. If you are not going out for fun, then start. Go out with your friend and dance and have a good time. invite friends over for drinks and conversation and meals sometimes. , take the time to learn another skill or something. Me for one, I don't care about that type of stuff, cause I know who I am. If a man changes his mind or not having a good day, I am still who I am. My opinion only. It is good to ask for others opinion, but everyone thinks differently. That's why it is an opinion. Tell your man, you are thinking about getting some advice from other people concerning you all relationship, because you are confuse about it and it seems like you can't talk to him about it. He might say lets talk. Men don't like other people in their business, so he might talk.
Tell him "no one knows best about our relationship but us".

I don't see how you could show your picture with a statement like that. I pray for your safety. Pray and ask God to take that spirit away from you at once. It is not normal, it's a spirit from the devil. Get some therpy and ask what made you decided to be gay. Then come from that unclean spirit. Jesus Loves you, he wants to loose you from that unclean spirt.

I enjoy communicating with all Nairaland members and guest. I hope everyone many blessing .

Please don't think you are pest to us. I appreciate your post and communicating with you by computer. I am talking about people you SEE EVERYDAY, EVERY EVERY Day, get me drift

Sometime we can turn people off

I said i wanted friend at once upon of time, but this girls turn me off, by coming to my house all the time, always wanting me to do her a favor. Gosh, I love to help people, I don't like needy people or negative people

It is good to have friends. I don't like it when friends begin to be too clingy

They want us to just be quiet. Just leave them alone to sort things out, it's nothing personal. Everyone one is allow time to themself to think things through when something is on their mind. When your man get in his mood, ask if he needs you to do anything;get him something to drink,eat,and then leave him a lone until he feels like talking. In the mean time read a book or something. My opinion. Repeatly asking what's wrong, will only make him feel worst

well i am your friend if you don't mind befriending someone that lives in the United States. Nothing serious, just friendly email me brownblackenpurple@yahoo.com

Hey, I don't mind marrying a nigerians, for a price of course. I have never been married, so send me a picture of you and your you know what to me, and we could work something out.

Barack Obama! Barack Obama!. Words could not express my emotions last night when they announced Mr. Obama as our new president of the United States of America. I cried, I cried, I cried. Growing up the project with my friends, we use to say "we could never have a black president,the white amercians will not allow it. Oh man, well.

Well I have a boyfriend,but I don't see anything wrong with going out having fun with a friend. come to Atlanta and lets have a good time. Me you a night on the town with all expense paid by you

why do you want a lady that already have kids why tell why sounds unheard of