One thing we must realized that is we [b]ALL [/b] have mothers sisters, aunties, and grandmothers, how will we feel seeing them being beat from there spouse.

I had a guy to break up with my also. I was hurt for a couple of days.  But life goes on, it don't stop of us.  Ask the boyfriend why?  For what ever reason, people have the right to change their minds.  I am not their creator.  If you loved him, love him enough to let go and see him be happy, even if it's not with you.  It hurts yeah.  Fix yourself up and go out with some friends, find another man for friendship that will take your mind off of your ex until the feelings go completely away.

I am a thick girl.  I had a boyfriend who is slim and he loved me so so much.  He always wanted to be around me.  He was just to clangy and controlling.  I just couldn't take it.  He would do anything I ask him to do, the almighty be my witness.  I just was not feeling him no more after 7 years.  I got tired of the controlling behavior and being clangy, he thought everyone like me.  All of my friend says he is to nice looking to act like that. I said bye after 7 years. I fell out of love.

Tell her you lost intrest in her, and your moms don't like her.

What you consider to be ugly,someone might says they are their pride and joy. I date men that my friends have to take a long look at me. But i don't care. If he makes me happy, give me my space sex me good, buy me nice things, I am sucka,forgive me

Ladies, stop being to hard on yourselves, If a man don't want you, use accept that. Yeah I know it hurts and you cry, cry, cry, and then cry, but get up and mingle and have fun. Let us love ourselve, I can't express this enough. I just can't express it enough. No one can make you happy but you. I think we get confuse with a man that make me HAPPY and makes me FEEL GOOD. I date a guy who made my body feel real good. but I know who I am and I am happy with myself. I can't live without a man , this i know, I know I have to ma

I think ex has took the ring cause he found someone else that can please him better, and is playing on your mind like you lost the ring, you know. He probably wanted out. That was just an escape for him. My opinion, If I lost a ring, buy me another, what's the big deal. Don't worry, there are men out there that is more careing. Never deal with a man who is not caring and understanding.

Hmm, I think men cheat more than men. Men are never satified with just there women they have to have steak, potatoes, green, carrots and pie, , get my drift

Ogidiboy is that your picture you have posted?

I mean, how are you doing? I live in atlanta, maybe will can get up. Not Thanksgiving day of corse. Enjoy your stay in the atl and have a good thanksgiving

Yea, what up?

I was being sarcastic with "who are you" but you are right, you don't even exist to me. So let me stop replying your comments.

I have nothing to prove to you. WHO ARE YOU cipliand

I am african american I don't understand anything but, english, no offense. I know you said something about calling me a lie, though. Whatever at the end of the day,I know who am I, do you?ha

DualCore I don't understand understand what you are saying.  Cipriani, are you saying you want to give me two kids?  I have a man that would walk 10 miles to get to me.  Anything I ask of him, he say's ok baby.  I am the boss.  GOD HONEST TRUTH. I think you are have the wrong perception of me.  I just love my space and my time.  I guess I have a hard time taking other people feelings into consideration.  Everyone is different. Don't knock someone because of their own personal opinion. Life long partner is just like having a child to me. before you do anything, you have to check with them and ask them how do they feel I don't have time for all of that. I want to do what I want to do and no one tell me yea or nay. forgive me for being selfish.

DualCore I don't understand understand what you are saying. Cipriani, are you saying you want to give me two kids? I have a man that would walk 10 miles to get to me. Anything I ask of him, he say's ok baby. I am the boss. GOD HONEST TRUTH.

Well I must say nairagost and girlsoswit that is a great. I checked out the website and I thought it was awsome. You two make a beautiful couple. I take it that you all are married, because of the statement,"what god has put togather, let no man put to shunder," I think that's what it said. When I go to weddings that's the statement that the minister make You two were bless to meet each other. I sense you two are both good people. Some people we meet or come across are not good people or have their own agenda, but with good decernment, one should be able to find love, even if it is over the internet. I guess I am eating my words, yeah, i'm eating my words. There are many people that are looking for love, but don't loose yourself searching. We must first love ourselves, know whom we are. We can never put full responsability on someone to make us happy. To anyone that haven't found their love yet, don't give up. Maybe love is right their infront of you and you don't even know it.

everyone that checks out this post, let everyone know your age.

Lets be real, I have never heard of anyone marrying someone they meet on the internet. I mean anything is possiable, but come one the internet. I see guys everyday. I work around guys, I see them at the gas station, everywhere. I don't have to find love or life long partner on the internet. No disrespect to those who are really trying to search for their life long relationship on nairaland. More power to you all, but until then, Let us have a good time getting to know one another.
CHeers

You all should not take things so serious, I am just having fun. get your patties out of a bunch
I think age 35 is a good age for marriage. I will never ever ever have sex without a condom. I have never had a STD of any sort.

Why is everyone looking for a life long partner? oh gosh. for crying out loud.

Ms. Angelic, I live in the united states. how can i take something personal. I have a full time man also darling, who pleases me in ways you couldn't imagine. But what is a steak with no beans and rice on the side, get my drift. Thanks for acknowledging me.

My opinion I don't take anyone personal. I thought about though. I emailed a few people and try to see where their head is at, but you can sense when people are full of it just by conversation. I like this website though. But people lie everything is not honest, you never know what you are getting yourself into.

My dream man would be someone:

That loves me, not controlling, be quiet, let me do what I want to do, cause i'm the boss, and let me have at least two days to myself.  Big you know what, make me feel good, sexy, confident, a little cocky, and that's it, oh and buy me nice things three times out the month, concern about my feelings, tell me not to worry, because he got me,  What is your dream mate?

There is not such thing is ugly, didn't you know. I dated two guys that I thought was ugly in the beginning. I don't get caught up in looks anymore . My friends tell me what in the hell you thinking. People who we think are ugly tend to treat you better, my opinion. You can be ugly to someone, but confident, after a while you will make them believe you are all that and a bag of chips. Especially if you got that GOOD GOOD. Get my drift [flash=200,200][/flash]