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Romance › Re: Stingy Boyfriends Will Make Bad Husbands by ruffrider(f): 7:15am On Dec 04, 2011

Nigerians are stingy, i'm just saying they are. It has nothing to do with looks, they are stingy period. If you are their main lady, they will shower you with gifts. If you are just something to do, then they will not spend money on ya

Family › Re: I Am Sad by ruffrider(f): 2:53pm On Jul 19, 2011

I will say pray about; ask God to allow you to see the deception if there is any. Never come to this fourm for advice cause most of the folks are rude. I come here from time to time for laughs. Some of the women here have boyfriends abroad married, and will soon join them as soon as they divorce in about two to three years. And some of the men are trying to scam women into marriage for papers.See Some of the .women will go along with the scam marriage, cause they will benefit from it in some kind of way. If your husband rushed you into marriage, then he is a scammer

Romance › Re: What Do You Do When A Guy/girl Doesn't Call? by ruffrider(f): 7:19am On Jul 15, 2011

Or maybe he is busy or with another lady, busy.

Culture › Re: African American Woman Dating American-born Nigerian Man--can It Work? by ruffrider(f): 8:14am On Jul 12, 2011

African men are affectionate. If they like you will for real, they have no problems with displaying it publicly. In most cases, they are waiting on their sweet heart from there own country, and you are there to take their mind off of the long wait. Or their parents have arrange for them to marry a friends's daughter back home. Most of them don't trust AA ladies. Don't put all of your eggs in one basket, that is what I will tell you. Just take it easy and have fun.

Romance › Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by ruffrider(f): 3:49am On Jul 11, 2011

Most of the time when a guy becomes successful, he leaves for another women who was in the beginning out of his league

Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Women So Vulnerable X (No pun/disrespect intended) by ruffrider(f): 4:33am On Jul 02, 2011

Yeah, I had some real issues going on when I came up with that name, don''t know what I was thinking though.

Romance › Re: Why Are Nigerian Women So Vulnerable X (No pun/disrespect intended) by ruffrider(f): 7:26am On Jul 01, 2011

I don't see anything wrong with giving a guy my number the first time. My address?No
My Face Book?NO

Travel › Re: Is $50,000 Too Much For American Marriage Into Citizenship? by ruffrider(f): 5:31am On Jun 17, 2011

HMMM, 50,000 is a lot of money, but not enough.

Romance › Re: Pls Help My Heart Is Sick! by ruffrider(f): 4:59am On Jun 07, 2011

Yeah, I think the both of you are playing the same " you call first" game. Just call him and ask him everything you are asking us. He knows better than us. But don't put all of your eggs in one basket

Autos › Re: ARRIVED * 2004 NISSAN PATHFINDER PLATINUM * ( Pre ordered by My RAv4 ) by ruffrider(f): 11:59pm On May 21, 2011

Inspired,

I know you are trying to sell cars, but OMG, you are so handsome. I just had to tell you before I move on. I know you have a wife or fiancée.

Family › Re: My Husband's Attitude Will Make Me Kill Him One Day by ruffrider(f): 11:32pm On May 21, 2011

I try not to ask for people's opinion, cause they have their own problems anyway; their own baggage.

Family › Re: My Husband's Attitude Will Make Me Kill Him One Day by ruffrider(f): 11:28pm On May 21, 2011

The old me would get a job, and hardly be home for his nagging. I would be out enjoying myself; but no cheating though. Men don't respect you when you are married and cheating. They will use you for sex only. Leave him if things don't get better after a while

Romance › Re: How To Know If Your Man Is Cheating On You Via Facebook. by ruffrider(f): 11:22pm On May 21, 2011

I don't understand why people go on facebook and tell of their business anyway. It's very foolish if you ask me

Romance › Re: Wetin Women Dey Contribute 4 Relationship Sef? by ruffrider(f): 1:57am On Mar 08, 2011

The problem is men don't choose what is good for them; they choose what is good to them. They think with their penis instead of logic. Some men are so shallow, they don't want a women who is this complexion or this size. Just because she looks like your dream girls doesn't men she isn't a beast inside.

Family › Re: My In-laws Disrespect Me A Lot As Well As My Wife by ruffrider(f): 11:59pm On Feb 25, 2011

My daughter in law will never have to worry about me. If my son looses his job, I would help them with food, mortgage, you name it, and even network with my friends concerning him finding employment. Sounds like you have a nagging mother

Family › Re: My In-laws Disrespect Me A Lot As Well As My Wife by ruffrider(f): 11:51pm On Feb 25, 2011

If they don't get their act togather, leave them there for someone else's misery; Then again, , There is no then again.

Family › Re: My In-laws Disrespect Me A Lot As Well As My Wife by ruffrider(f): 11:48pm On Feb 25, 2011

Most inlaws are EVIL. I prefer to date a guy who is motherless. I am sorry, been there, done that

Romance › Re: What Do I Do, My Best Friend Wants Me To Sleep With Her by ruffrider(f): 1:44am On Feb 15, 2011

Ask your friend, how would she feels if she was in your girlfriend's position. Tell her you don't want to put the friendship at risk, and that you really love your girlfriend. If she doesn't understand, then she is not a good friend. If you sex her, she will fall in love. She will say she won't; but she will, and then you will have another problem on your hand. She will use it against you if things don't go her way; she will tell your girlfriend. Don't say I didn't warn ya

Culture › Re: Why Akatas Treated Better Than Africans Abroad? by ruffrider(f): 6:38am On Feb 05, 2011

I don't think this guy is African American talking like this though. I think he is African trying to cause conflict between African and African Americans. He is clearly not speaking for every African American. I am African American. I am a beautiful young lady, and I prefer to date African men. I love all races, but its something about African men that turns me on. There are many women in the US who loves African men. I know this for a fact.

Health › Re: My Girlfriend Is HIV Positive But: by ruffrider(f): 2:45am On Feb 04, 2011

If you don't mind being infected, then go for it. BUT take some time to yourself to think about this matter. Take about a week or two to think things through. Weigh your options. Don't let your heart overrule your logic.

Romance › Re: How Important Are Looks To You? by ruffrider(f): 5:27am On Jan 28, 2011

nice.one:
Looks get d attention, personality get d haert. Good Looks is just like well packaged product which may not necesserily have good quality. . .it gets d attention no doubt but can it stand d test of time? On d other hand good personality is likend to a quality product which may not necesserily have good packaging. . .it does can stand d test of time but can it get d attention it deserts?

Romance › Re: How Important Are Looks To You? by ruffrider(f): 5:26am On Jan 28, 2011

nice.one:
Looks get d attention, personality get d haert. Good Looks is just like well packaged product which may not necesserily have good quality. . .it gets d attention no doubt but can it stand d test of time? On d other hand good personality is likend to a quality product which may not necesserily have good packaging. . .it does can stand d test of time but can it get d attention it deserts?

That is so true. Nothing like meeting a person who is very attractive, to find out they are full of themselves. I saw this fine male at the post office today. He was admiring a young lady from afar. The young lady walked towards the door he had open for her. As soon as he got a closer view of her, he let the door go, and the lady almost drop her packages. I was sitting in my car witnessing this whole thing. I was shock, cause he was so fine. when he did that, I just saw ugly.

Romance › Re: I Am Doing Something Abominable And I Know But I Need Help by ruffrider(f): 3:47am On Jan 21, 2011

Mrs, Chima:
I did not say ALL MEN ON NAIRALAND ARE HOES. I said all these male hoes and not one biting. It applies to the male hoes on Nairaland. Trust me I would have said ALL men on Nairaland are hoes but I know at least two are not so I can't say all.

I hear you cheesy

Romance › Re: I Am Doing Something Abominable And I Know But I Need Help by ruffrider(f): 3:42am On Jan 21, 2011

Mrs, Chima:
All these male hoes and not one biting. Weird.

Do you know all of the men on Nairaland? How can you say that all of them are such, what if they say all of us are the same?

Romance › Re: I Am Doing Something Abominable And I Know But I Need Help by ruffrider(f): 3:35am On Jan 21, 2011

Somebody needs to pay this young lady some attention. Why not choose one of the men from Nairaland? You have no respect at all for your sisters or your family, but God can and will forgive. But you need to be punish for your reckless behavior.

Romance › Re: She Thought I Wouldn't Make It, So She Left Me. Now She Wants To Come Back by ruffrider(f): 3:12am On Jan 17, 2011

Don't be the rebound man. She is hurt and vurnable, so she's no going to be thinking straight. I would give her some time to sort her emotions through. IF she is still in love with the guy, then that can be a problem also. What if the guy wants her back, then what undecided

Will she forgive him? Ask her

Romance › Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by ruffrider(f): 2:36am On Jan 17, 2011

I totally agree with you. I don't want you to misunderstand my point of view. If I am in need, I will ask a guy, but to flat out say, I won't date a guy unless he can give me money, no

Romance › Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by ruffrider(f): 2:12am On Jan 17, 2011

Ask not what can the man do for you; but what can you do for the man grin

I don't mind dating a broke guy, as long as he has goals. Some of the most successful people in the world grew up in poverty. I believe if a guy likes you, and he is concern about you, he will ask do you need some help. But men only responsibility is to his wife; not his lady friend. When women required a man to provide for her financially in order to date her, she is selling herself. I am worth more than a dinner, movies, and a nice pair of shoes. What can a man do for me that I can't do for myself. If he gives you money, then what? Just my opinion

Family › Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by ruffrider(f): 6:00am On Jan 16, 2011

Maybe the guy is trying to get out of the marriage. The poster's husband doesn't want to be the one to intiates divorce, so he is trying to pressure her to do so. If I was her I would investigate the matter. He probably has a sweetie waiting on him back home or closer than you think. BUT I COULD BE WRONG >>>SO undecided

Romance › Re: Woman's Intuition by ruffrider(f): 6:35am On Jan 13, 2011

Good night you all.

Romance › Re: Woman's Intuition by ruffrider(f): 6:32am On Jan 13, 2011

Ileke-IdI:
Did God specifically told one of the men in the Bible to have more than one wives? Men do what they want, but in the end, they pray for forgiveness.

You're allowed to prove me wrong . . . .

@D-sense
Hey
Ki lo n sele?

I do not wish to reiterate futher on this matter. But I will say this, Polygamy is illegal my country

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