Oh, and I am black by the way

Come on, you don't think you will actually meet your soon to be husband it these type of places.  It's just game and fun.

Oh, and alway have your own condom handy. they punch holes in the condoms these days

And make sure the neck is clear, if you know what I mean. It can be kind of dim in these places

Boys will be boys. Just make sure you strap up boys. And don't let them tell you their womb is not able to make babies

This happens everywhere. In the US, men just scan the club looking for white, black, orange, whatever color.

Yes, it happened to me once in mylife time. I was the person that loved someone and he didn't love me back, but I was on the other end of the rope also. So oh well, I was checking my e-mails, and I saw where you repsonded. I thought I would respond back. There's no need to get embarrass about it. EVeryone has played the fool atleast once in life time. My opinion

Good night

For example. There is a young lady that has a crush on you, but you don't like her style of dress, or maybe she too skinny or to chubby. But this girl will drop by your place with medicine and juice when you are sick, and clean for you, because she knows you are weak. You are so in tune with the way she dress, that you don't pay attention to her heart towards you.

I think sometimes the person who loves you the most and would do anything in this world to make you happy, you push them away.  But the person who you have to sweat over is not paying you that much of attention

really bad

Sound you you have been hurt

hmmm

If you are wealthy, never allow anyone to know, get to know them for aleast 7 months first. Oh, but you can't buy them anything, but dinner and occasionally a movie. My opinion,

SORRY, '" I MEANT TO SAY DON'T FORGET TO USE A CONDOM"

IF YOU MUST HAVE SEX, YOU AND YOUR PARTNER SHOULD GO TO A CLINIC THAT OFFERS FREE HIV TESTING  YOU CAN CONTACT THE VIRUS THROUGH MouthAction ALSO, BECAUSE OF THE SEMEN OR LIQUIDS FROM THE BODY OF THE INFECTED PERSON. DO FORGET TO USE CONDOMS.  WAKE UP PEOPLE THIS THING IS KILLING OUR COMMUNITES.  DO YOUR BEST TO KEEP ONE PARTNER, IF YOU MUST HAVE SEX.  BUT MOST OF ALL USE SELF-CONTROL.  BE CAREFUL YOU ALL , I LOVE YOU ALL, AND BE CAREFUL IN CHOOSING YOUR PARTNERS.

Tudor, you sound like you have something against the USA. I am not a Oral Roberts fan, but I think we should have some respect for the man of God. You sound like you don't believe in Jesus Christ anyway. I for one, am not a man follower, but a Jesus follower. IF Oral Robert never met my expectation, oh well, he is human just like me.

Whatever, I am not the judge of who goes to heaven and who goes to hell. But where is the respect? No respect for the dead. Let God be the judge, not you. You have no power, who are you to judge

what in the you got some nerves ofidiboy

LISTEN Ms lady, I wouldn't get my patties all in a bunch about this. online dating is a joke. You don't know what you are really getting yourself into when you met someone online. They can be whom ever they choose to be. Let him have his fun, but when you start talking about marriage, then raise this issue.

Grizzly, lets see your picture? and not a fake on either

What in the You got some nerves buddy"one of your girlfriends"

OH, and try to get him attracted your mind first.

LISTEN. Introduce yourself to him, and say nice meeting him. Everytime you see him, speak. If he is intersted, he will try to get to know you if he wants to. IF you come on to him fast. He might think you do this with everyone you find attractive, he might.
JUST TRY IT AND SEE>

If I were a man, It would hurt me to know that the only reason someone loves me, because what I can offer them. Ok Ok, I know it take money to live, but gosh why pay to make someone stay.

LISTEN. LISTEN. Do you really love her. Ask yourself what do you love about her, and don't just marry her because she is beautiful in your eye sight, marry her because she will be a good women in and out of the public eyes. Can you trust her to be a good mother and raise you all children and remain faithful to you. Do you think she will be there for you throughout everything thing in life, the good and the bad. We all want our partners to look good in our eye sight, but for gosh sakes, we don't want a problem on our hands either. If she loves you, that's it, no one can come between that bond and love. If it does, well, that's another topic. MY OPINION

The majorty of them are wicked. They will take up for their sons even if he is wrong wrong wrong. If you and your husband get into a fight and make up. They {mother inlaw} will not forget and will hold it against you until you and him call it quits. Mother inlaw thinks that no lady is good enough for their son.

Men having more than one lady is in their blood line, past down from many generations

Now, if you look in the bible, you will come read about how God blessed men that had many wives, cattle, servant and etc. It is still past on down from my generations. But our government will not allow this, because of tax purposes, and their will be lots of confusions, anything to keep down the confusion. This will be to risky and complicated in the court of law. I am not against it. I am selfish and I want my man all to myself.

Ask him was he the one that gave you the STD. He will take off running fast and in a hurry.

This is depressing. I will be alone. Ready for it to come and go.