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But remember guys, we don't get the whole story, just on side of it. Divorce is not an Option. Married people can get through anything. The question is does the other person loves you enough to look beyond all of your faults and still love you the end of the day. My mom's husband had a baby out of wedlock behind her back. But she stills loves him, still cook his food, clean his clothes, , she loves him point blank. It doesn't matter, if you love the person, you love the person. Some people get marred for things, not love. If I love a guy, I love him no matter what.

I say;
Pray to God about the problem
KEEP PEOPLE OUT OF YOUR BUSINESS ( your pastor is not included in this though)
People will always say what they would do if it was them, but they don't even know what they would really do if in the similar sitution.
If the women don't want to make it work, find you another women that would except your kids(make sure she will love your kids)

In some cases, men go back home to marry their sweetie, and their sweetie already has a sweetie waiting on her in the states or any another country. But anyway

It really doesn't matter where you're from.  People are people.  I am sorry to hear this though.  I don't agree with women treating their hushusbandorly.  People should seek God and councounselore getting married.  Anyone can pretend until they say I DO.  My friends mom is marry to a nice guy, and she treats him like dirt.  Men, yeah.  You don't want the nice ladies, you don't want the ladies that just want you to be happy; you want the ones who will give you a hard time. (I'm sorry, just letting off some steam)

I didn't say that ROY MARY, YOU SAID THAT.  Please don't put words into my mouth.  Much respect to you.

I didn't say it was referring to naji women only.  I am assuming the guy is from Naji, and his lady is from Naji.  I have a friend who divorce an  American lady for no reason.  Went back to Naji to married his sweetie.  His sweeti came to the States, left him, took the kids, and he can't even see his kids without the mother being in the same room.  I know serveral men who went through this.  So that is why I say, just because she is from your country, doesn't make her better than Ameican ladies. That is all I am saying ROY MARY.

[color=#990000][/color]I am goin to share some fustration on this one;  You guys always think that your women understands you best, but it's not true all the time.  You guys come to the States, play with the American women, married them, divorce them, and go back home and marry your lady.  It is not right.  

You all are cracking me up. OMG.

You can't lie with someone who lives next door to you. You can't use an excuse, like "im not home right now." or "
yeah I am home thinking about you, etc. And you are out having fun.

[color=#770077][/color]if she dates you, her neighbor, you will see every guy that comes by her place. And if it don't work out, the aftermath could get ugly. Someone might start stalking and acting crazy.

I perfer to listen to you all air your dirty laundry for once.

Having fun

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Her money can do it.  If one is a millionaire, why buy someone a book or an outfit.  And that is her husband also.  So why not.  I know Jay buys her even more expensive gifts. So what is the big deal.  Money is no object when it come to your husband.  BOYFRIENDS ARE NOT INCLUDED.

This guy I liked ask me to buy him a laptop. All the feelings I had went down the drain after that. I don't ask men for money, but they think because you don't ask them, they can ask you. I don't have anything for ya homie.

Ladies, that is why we must be careful. Stop treating these men like husband, cause they are not. Let them earn going the extra mile for.

How would you like for someone to hurt you. WHAT GOES AROUND; COMES AROUND RIGHT BACK TO YOU.

Pretty girl like that committed suicide over a guy.  She could have gotten another.  The boy is handsome too.  I don't believe it.  NO clothes, no note.  

What is the world,

I reeeally feel you on that. I felt myself having feelings for this guy. I was fighting the feelings, so I told him I am not longer interested;lets be friends. I was sorry for what I done. He called me days later. We talk and I thought we agree to try it again. I then poured out my feelings and told him how I truly felt. A day later we kiss. After the kiss, he said he was in love with his girlfriend from Ghana. He said he has hope for them. I am american. Both of my parents are american, so, that is it. I guess he promise her he would come back for her. Love,

Nope I wouldn't go back.  That place looks horrific.  But then again some people like it like that.  Not me.  I would be standing up the whole time I am their, not sitting down.

Never allow the other person to take up too much of your time. You might be in the middle of taking care of business or out of town on a business trip,and they call 50 times, asking, who is that in the background, and why didn't you answer your phone the first 44 times I call.

I for one don't like it much, cause I don't like exchanging saliva. , well I don't. I prefer on the lips only. I kiss this guy once, eeeeeeeeeeeee. spit, all I can say

Everybody in America got it going on, yeah right.

I met people from Ghana that say be care with folks from Nigeria. But I learn that you can put everyone in one catergory. I will give anyone the benefit of the doubt unless they prove me wrong,but hey that doesn't mean cause they deceive me, I make everyone suffer for it.

Oh my Gosh, You all our sooooooooooooooooo funny, some of these pictures are unbelievable

I was walking and talking on my cell phone a while back. I was arguing with an ex-boyfriend. I was so up set, I didn't notice I had to go down a step on my way to a building. I fell, still fussing, got back up like nothing happen and continue to give it to him on the cell.