funlord: I think he tells it more at wake keepings! Anyway I am fully lodged at the shekpite inn for the foreseeable future......mercy killings will not be permitted tonight! You must join us in reflecting tonight! By fire by force!!!
victorian: Well, I prefer the guy in nija anytime, anyday.
The guy in nija will call, and still assist in case the babe is sick and she doesn't have money for hospital. He takes care of it. But abroad guy will say, don't worry u will get better.. You will be fine.
You say fine? How will she get better? Better how? By drinking water? Or breathing air? How will she get better? If u don't send money for her hospital bills? Is it by saying don't worry u will get better and she will miraculously become healed.. Really?
Anyways, Working class Girls abroad are more financially ok than girls in Nigeria.
If guys are using girls abroad to compare girls here? Then Biko, stick with the girls abroad. And let the guys here in Nigeria have a smooth relationship with girl here in nija. No need confusing the babes with sweet mouth .
Then. U expect guys here to take of your responsibility abi?
You try.
Anyways I pity babes still listening to. Sweet raps from abroad guys.
Babe! Listen if your abroad guy do not send money for your upkeep? Biko burst his side! No be never ending phone calls u go chop. No be phone calls go pay your hospital bills. And phone calls will not renew your rent . Anyways body go tell them.. I don't need to say much.
So if a guy is abroad and sends you money all the time, makes sure you are FINANCIALLY okay and tend to your upkeep; then you will be happy with the relationship!? That is all you need to be loyal, patient and not cheat!?
At the bolded, I don't need to spoil other people own. The guy will do the deed by himself
They said experience is the best teacher.
That's all I can say.
The girls go use their tongue count their teeth. Simple.
Similar thing that happened to the op, happened to one of my male friends. His gf was in love with one Malay guy . And my guy was so in love with this babe but she's always chatting with the Malay guy, she even turned down my friend marriage proposal to her and cut him off. Saying the Malay guy will soon be in nija to marry her. My friend was heartbroken, he loves her so much. I just told him to move on.
So the Malay guy came of course ,sweet talked her to bring one of her friends along. I think they had three some, then later the girl friend of the babe left them the second day while payingher off, then he spent the weekend with my friend supposedly fiancee. He bleeped her well . Then he left her place.
Later Like 2weeks after my friend got a call from this his babe that bleeped Malay guy. She said she's feeling so sick and she needs him to come take her to hospital and she's the only one at home. My friend said but shebi uv cut me off, what your abroad guy? She said its a long story and she's very sorry and he should please come, she is very I'll.
He went, as a kind guy who always pities. He said he took her to hospital, paid her bills, and she was looking so emaciated and he felt sorry for her. After hospital he brought her back, prepared dinner for her and he will be there till she get better.
So the neighbors of the girl who saw him hanging her clothes outside. Called him one side and say guy! U don't have wife o.. If u know what your babe did behind your back? U won't be here washing her clothes.
So they told him everything, how a strange guy came to her place and spent the weekend with her and even had party with one of her friend.
Since then, they've not seen the guy again.
That's how. My friend knew about it.
I told him? What kind-of guy are u? And u are still there, doing good guy, abi?
Smmhhhh. I pity u.
U don't know what's good for u.
He then said he asked her about the Malay guy, she started to cry that she's sorry and she's ready to accept being his wife and she made a huge mistake on the abroad guy and please she wants him back.
He then asked me, he's confused, should he go back?
I was like guy! She use jazz for you?
What if she had aids! HIV! As u said she emaciated.. Don't u love your life?
Abeg bust her side jare. In fact call her family to go take care of her.
What rubbish!
This your stories dem sef, be as e get. I cannot relate to any of that because I am used to totally different and happier experiences and stories. I just told you about my cousin who, after years apart, has come from abroad and married his babe. They had their challenges, stood firm and all is well with them. The same with two other pals, all in the last year o! Clearly the type of advice me and you will give, will be very different. My brother is in the US and his girlfriend is in naija, so are you saying they should not bother to give it a try because their relationship will fail!? Based on wetin na!?
My point is, for you to generalize that ALL abroad based men are shady and are only deceiving naija girls is not proper.
Blues. Don't worry, no matter the result tonight, yesterday has made up for it. The trolling on Manchester United thread continues. All other team's trespasses have been overlooked, wiped clean, fore-gone and washed away. Dem neva hear am yet, e go be like sey na yesterday UCL end!
victorian: Well maybe you are not part of those kind of guys there.
That is all am saying. Do not generalize. Speak about and of only those you know about. No dey cast people wen you no know. The stories all around me have always been positive. My cousin sef just recently enter naija confirm him wifey, very soon dem go re-unite for him base there.
victorian: Anyways from my experience and friends close to me, it's all the same story. guys abroad can claim to love forever but if the babe is in deep financial shiit, na story we go dey hear, and God will do it. As if na I love you from morning till night, go pay bills here. Or God will jump down to come assist her pay bills.
And the way you strong on top the money aspect. Hmmm, well good sey u don settle yourself. But no go dey use your own spoil other people own oh. If pesin wen get pesin abroad come meet u for advice, use brain give am correct word o!
victorian: Op, please walk away. Later she will learn the hard way. Abroad guys do not give a hoot about babes in Nigeria. Especially the ones they claim to be in love with and dating. They can call for hours, chat for hours even at night monitoring the babe. But to take of the babe welfare? Hell no! They won't. It's boyfriend in Nigeria, that spend their hard earned money to take care of girlfriends here. Few years back I had to cut off any abroad guy wooing me. They are just a waste of space. I pity any lady who takes them serious. They are not worth wasting time on. Guys in Nigeria are better off than them. But some mumu girls will not understand. Abroad guy will never take you abroad and settle down with you there if he ends up marrying u. But they can lie for Africa, they will take the babe abroad. All na lie and pure deceit.
Babes if you have a Nija guy who cares and takes of your financial and emotional needs who is also loving and caring, Biko hold am well. He's One of the best thing that can come into your life. As time goes, both of you will grow together and also travel abroad on vacations Don't let abroad guys use sweet mouth deceive una.
They just get mouth nothing else.
Nothing will make me waste time on abroad guy.
Am perfectly OK with my nija capable and caring rich man. And sometimes we even travel on vacations So what's the big deal about my guy lives abroad.. Smhhh
Abeg, abeg, abeg. No use your own dey judge other pipu own