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MisterKennedy:
Good evening Rushna dear

MisterKennedy:
Yes sweetie… I’m good… maybe if you check our previous chats It might refresh your memory. If really missed you so much Rushna… Hope you’ve been good too? I really wish I could call you on the phone right now if you’ll let me.

MisterKennedy:
Good evening Rushna dear. How’ve you been?
I’ve really missed you oooo.
Like play like play it’s been 2 whole years since we last chatted on Nairaland. You didn’t send me hi on WhatsApp.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Really? Wow! So beautiful. Only special people can braid their own hair. Braiding one's hair is not an issue task. Infact, it's easier when you make someone's hair than when you make your own hair.

Eaglesence:
Just wow!!! I jealous you o

rexbuton:
Please this topic wants to tear the family apart.

We are doing well, each of us earns almost 85k per year, I'm in IT, she's in healthcare, and we both work full-time.
I am a Christian, I have never defaulted in tithing in the last 5 years. Not once.
She says tithing is my personal 'problem'. She uses the word problem specifically. She doesn't pay tithe.

This is the present sharing agreement, I bring 70%, she brings 30%.
This 70-30 covers the cost of living, groceries, nursery fees for our baby, and other bills.
before this sharing, we both bring equal amounts for the house mortgage and the car.
When her family needs money, she insists that we share it 50-50 based on her culture.

For my cybersecurity certifications, I pay from my less than 20%, but I have never complained. God has been faithful. My belief is that my tithe covers for the family.
The good news is that I won a large sum of money from my savings, tens of thousands of dollars. I intend to pay tithe, and channel most of the money to my professional development so I can earn more. I don't think I deserve that money I won, that money was from God.
She thinks otherwise.

What's your opinion?

bro4u:
Today is our birthday, Happy birthday to myself and every other person out there celebrating his/her birthday today.

Promotions:
If you can do marketing job, check your dm

Pussyisgud:
Where in the mainland im interested.

PerfectStranger:
can you help me out?

BscHolder:
what of your husband?

Starboytwo:
Im up for illegal, legal boring.

duduade:
He didn't cry out

If you had watched that video well on Instagram, it was like it was his right to request for donations from Nigerians for his upkeep and that of his family. He wasn't even humble. When he was acting... Wasn't he paid... Doesn't he have investments...

Anyway my opinion... Anyone who donates to his way should pray the money is being used positively and not for drugs ..

Rushna27:
If its true that it was the woman who left,and now the man is begging, I think it's better to reconsider cos the truth is mistakes can be amended.If the marriage wasn't life threatening before she can still give it a try but this time with both eyes opened ...Wishing her well

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IyaTola:
I need someone to do a side gig for a new start up
If you can drop your mail and we would get across to you.

Thank you

Bronxie:
God,see tears streaming from my eyes.what a complicated life.
Some parents actions do mess up the lives of their kids.

Chidolalar:
It is easier said than done.
Can u swear that u can wholeheartedly do what you said in your comment if u were in the op situation.

Kobojunkiee:
She would probably be roaming the streets day and night, looking for a place to sit, where to find food, where to sleep safely. She might end up walking many hours to find a place safe enough to lay her head down at the end of each day, a place far from the many predators out there. Is that really what you want those kids to have to experience as well?

2. Wish her to hustle for a better job how? She is about to be homeless. Are you going to give her a better job now, or do you think better jobs show up magically all of the time to save the day or something? She is about to lose her apartment because that better job has yet to show up, yet you are here telling her not to put the kids in an orphanage, at least until that better job finally shows up. Why?

3. A child has luck attached? Are you being serious now? Luck didn't keep the child's father from abandoning it, and it certainly couldn't keep the mother from dying but you think luck will magically manifest a job for the woman who is about to lose her apartment and so she should not do the reasonable thing but wait for this magic to take place?

Kobojunkiee:
Why do you people refuse to reason? She is about to be homeless herself. She has not been gainfully employed for a while.
● Are you saying she should have the kids homeless and out of school?
● Would you have the kids walking the streets with no place to go and knowing not where their next meal will come from?

Is that the kind of life you think the kids deserve or something?