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I see a man who loves his family. I want to be like him

Rexhenrex:
u made a point but those it then mean this century everyone is falling for the wrong one? i really feel there is no longer patience, tolerance and some key virture that marriage needs once there is no perseverance it must scatter also people rush marriage nowadays u meet someone and two months later u get married to them tins like this must surely occur people now are after Wat they can get at the moment so ones it no longer there the love vanishes permit me to say at the moment love is based on the material tons u have and that which u can provide that's why Alot of women don't care to know about there partner as long as he can provide there immediate need then the are good to go

everyone you say? Lol, do you know the number of people that gets married every saturday?

orunmila144:
Looking at the matter on another level Dr Sid was born 1980 which the year 19-80 means ' low state '. his solar sign is in tau-rus and this means ' powerless ' while his luna sign is in scorpio meaning his wife will surpass him and so that means in the relationship she has the power while he is powerless and in a low state. now she was born in 19-85 meaning ' affliction ' and her solar sign is lib-ra meaning ' no authority ' . her luna sign is also leo meaning ' roadblock is in your path ' and so she is a twin flame to him meaning a reflection and when she joined unto him he got compassed by her energy of ' no authority ' and ' roadblock is in your path ' and so she coming into his life is what killed his music career because his solar and luna sign placement is such that she will compass him with the energy of her aura which the energy of her aura is - road block and no authority - hence why his career hit a road block after they married. its all written in the stars

na wa o, I nor understand. Abeg explain make I send you my own too

EdoPrince93:
From your location,it's obvious you are a slowpoke

you are brainless

EdoPrince93:
That you lack Sarcasm!

shut up, you dont know what sarcasm is

alezzy13:
Really? Give an example. I'm very interested

wema bank. If you save with their ALAT app, you get 10% per annum which is 0.8% per month. Provindus bank in charge of p.i.g.g.y vest also offer same. C.o.w.r.y.w.i.s.e (I dont know if that is a bank o) offers 11% per annum

omoadeleye:
My head was like "buhari photos of Alhaji....

I swear, I had to read again

alezzy13:
You mean presently or years back?

I'm not sure any bank currently offers such a rate, in fact most hover around 4-5%

most banks offer 10% per annum

Olalan:
People will never learn......so many small business owners on the internet are literally scamming people with the tag of invest in them and get ROI of 10% within two months........even the best performing large multinational corporations wouldn't offer investors such.

I invest with p.I.g.g.y. v.e.s.t and c.o.w.r.y.w.I.s.e I hope those ones nor be ponzi schemes too

Hotfella:
Make fire, put big frying pan on top, add groundnut oil, carry big spoon, take chair sit down dey wait with cold orijin. The locust go fry themselves, just add salt and pepper to taste and wash down with the orijin.

Repeat as many times as you like. Life is simple.

ma personal person

Stop giving birth to kids you can't cater for
Stop employing kids as maids
Stop maltreating people because they are poor and helpless

It is well

Back from ban. Mehn! I HATE nairaland

Stallion93:
i bet u live in a 1 room apartment and share the toilet and bathroom with about 10 people. And yea U even Order those innocent children to sleep on the floor while u and your wife enjoy the bed all through that 5 years. Even Hell will reject nigerians

what are you saying? Maybe you think everyone lives in lekki and VI

walex2:
please dont get married, it is too meagre to sustain you and your wife in this harsh economy, do well by earning minimum of 500k, atleast a flat in Lekki, and a good car to make your wife comfortable.

over sabi they worry you me wey i dey manage my 40k per month with my wife and kids go advise you not to marry with 130k per month

guy calm down na, you just dey para

nengibo:
Over comfortable if your intended spouse has a good source of income

even if the lady receives 50k monthly, they should be comfortable

fegori:
She really did bad but as my sister, i won't want to send her to prison too

you say? This one is nobody's sister o, this one na......

Keepem:
Perfect judge

the bail condition sweet me nor be small

Auxigen:
What of Asa , Johnny Drille, and MI

my love for jonny drille

ValCon888:
The commenter above me has the I.Q of a door and has redefined the meaning of the word 'idiot'.

ah! Oga mi, this one strong o

Dande55:
Una never see, you guys will be the ones pressuring young girls for sex, and later start crying that there are no decent girls. When you guys are the chief demons.

A girl will start dating, the next thing a useless boy will want from her is sex, you men are the ones that bred this, so, let it consume you and don't complain while at it.

And btw, if a woman has a child that's not her husband's child, it means that another man is responsible for the pregnancy and thereby, breeding children outside wedlock on his own side. So, it's not entirely a woman's thing cos they aren't the ones getting themselves pregnant.

I agree with your first and second paragraph but I will solely own it to a woman for allowing her husband raise another mans child. She made a promise to him and she is bound to keep it

Emedu:
Sooner DNA will be the bases of giving Birth certificate. Watch out!

if its free or something like 5k, this nonsense for don stop.

darediamond:
And what would do when after marriage, you discovered that she is a chronic BARREN??

abeg leave this quote, how many barren do we have? Even with the rise of technology, almost no woman is barren

abdulizom:
THE WRITER IS TO A LARGE ESTENT RIGHT, MY FRIEND TRAINED ANOTHER MAN'S SON TILL HIS 17TH YEAR BEFORE THE MOTHER REVEAL TO HIM THAT THE CHILD BELONG TO A CORPER WHO CAME TO SERVE IN MY AREA AT THE TIME.
THE CORPER WHO IS NOW A SPECIAL ASSISTANT TO ONE NIGER DELTA GOVERNOR, I WON'T MENTION THE STATE.
HE CAME FOR THE BOY JUST LAST YEAR, HE APPARENTLY KNOW, BUT WAITING FOR THE PERFECT TIME TO CLAIM HIS CHILD.
WITHOUT REMORSE THE BOY RUSH TO THE MORE FINANCIALLY STABLE FATHER.
IN SHORT, THEY'RE LEAVING TOGETHER NOW

I will swear for the woman, the man and the child. But the child, he is a child and followed money due to lack of sense, I can excuse him but I will definitely divorce and sue that woman

Kirinwa:
Somethings are better left as it is. So you find out, what next?

Such ignorance is bliss. No need. Trust is the key.

NO, according to Belafonte trust but be watchful. Even the Bible said be wise as serpent and harmless as dove

RisenPhoenix:
And you think that if she is part CEO of the home, her decision making will be restricted to proposing tentative opinions for you to reject?

Funnier you. Obviously you have a lot to learn about women.

If you want to be a man, you must learn to bear the whole financial responsibility, and stop sponging off your wife's sweat. Otherwise, because of your financial deficiencies and her consequent desperation to retain her job, she is going to concede a lot of favours to her male bosses, her male colleagues, and her male clients; many of whom she will eventually come to see as more attractive than you. What follows after that is open to debate. But I would advice that if you force your wife to work, DNA test every child.

forced to work? Nah, I will marry a working class woman who knows what it takes a run a home and we will do it side by side. You want the opposite of that, its your decision and there is nothing wrong in that but dont make it seem Like not following your choice makes the other choice wrong, not all women are loose, else you are simply saying all women in high positions slept their way through?

Pidginwhisper:
British press has always been like that. It’s nothing new.

if the British press have always been like this, then its a good thing they are walking away. Gosh! Who need this kind of life?

RisenPhoenix:
Then be prepared to share not only the chores, but also the authority. And there is little circumstance worse than being under a woman's authority.

lol, you think seeking a woman's opinion is being under her authority? Funny you.

RisenPhoenix:
I am not quarreling either, but you are assuming that I expect a wife to work. I have said repeatedly that I do not. My belief is that a woman's primary place of assignment is the home and children. If she wants to work, it should be strictly on her own spare time when the kids are at school; and no husband should ever take money from his wife or share home expenses.

this is you that's why I stated that you can choose to marry a stay at home wife and there will be no issue there, but if marriage is not your thing, best to stay out of it. For me, I can't marry a stay at home wife hence I have no issue sharing chores.

RisenPhoenix:
If they are tired, then they should sit at home.

I am not all guys. On my mention, refute my statements if you disagree with them, not some imaginary statements that I never made.

we are not quarreling bro, why are you worked up? I was referring to the part where you typed about coming home tired from work and also expected to share duties. Hope you get it now, if not, PEACE

RisenPhoenix:
Because women here are beginning to follow the trend, despite having so much less to offer. Why would a man want to come from work where he just escaped being dealt with by his boss for the day; only to be feeding, clothing and housing another oga that deals with him at home?

do you realise that most women in marriage also work now? You go to work and come back tired, so you think your wife don't also come back tired? Do you expect her to carry all domestic duties after work, still contribute financially to the home and she won't get angry that you abandon the whole work on her or she won't ask you to share duties? Gone are the days when women sit at home, give birth and take care of domestic duties (some women still do and you are free to choose them but dont complain when she depends entirely on you), now women work and its not fair to expect them to still perform the entire functions of a full time housewife. I see here how guys talk like women dont contribute financially in their homes when in reality, some women are the breadwinners of their homes.