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DeclanR:
Guy u get bad mouth I swr. Which one knack like chicken 🐔 ? 😃😃😃
And Na true u talk o. But how do u manage to stay for 40Mins nonstop. Does first round last that much?
If it were your second round, I would understand. How u dey do am?

YoungBTCxchange:
so you don't care if your woman is satisfy?

DeclanR:
So u only do one round each time you have sex or what exactly are u trying to say?

They didn't say u should have sex 21 times or days in a month, they said ejaculate 21 times.

YoungBTCxchange:
bruh they said 21 times in a month, not days. You can ejaculate 21 times in a week depending on how many rounds in a day sex, some people dey sex once in a week but they go like 4 rounds

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

ucheheart:
Can the job be done remotely cos I am based in Cross River State

360degreess:
I don't pity most Nigerians when they regret and complain after relocating abroad because no matter how people who have travelled and are seeing Shege explain to them, they will never listen, infact they will tell them why can't they return to Nigeria.When they travel out they will realize that there is more to life than just having good roads, constant electricity,so called security.What about loneliness?,Racism,lack of social life,lack of availability of your African foods,Cold weather, constant and high taxes, and some of our other African way of life?...All that glitters is not gold..

vision202020:
Can you give me the business idea if I can try it with my wife over here?

Urgent1Million:
Lol

G0odharddick:
No he isn't.

He should lasu and forget unilag

yemmit90:
Perhaps you should read my post again, no one says that a woman should deny her husband sex, I was only pointing out the reasons why majority of married women may not respond to their husbands intimate calls all the time.

Besides, your insinuation is only applicable to "jobless or sit at home wives". Majority of women these days are working tirelessly too like men, yet, they will still go home and face this rigorous house chores with little or no help from their husbands who probably believes it is their sole responsibility do so.

I was once like you but later knows better through experience. So, if you want to know why she don't feel like having sex sometimes, try to combine your works stress, house chores and children monitoring for few days and come back here to counter my argument.