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Charmingrascal:
Is this madness, foolishness or both.
Deceased family insist that they don't want such and y'all dumb skulls are insisting on going ahead with it.
A promising young man died without fulfilling his dreams and you are calling a DJ and planning to make merry.
If I were a member of his family I will blow y'all heads off if you gather.

What nonsense is this?
How old are you people to be thinking like this?

Y'all want to make merry so that you can drink and get high and probably invite some harlots to dance with.
This your post dey vex me gan I swear

I can feel your anger in your writing. Trust me, I wish I could see these friends, line them up and blow their heads with my licensed pump action

franchasofficia:
Op you are right with some points and not entirely correct with some.


Men don't crave for honor, they want absolute respect from their wife. As a lady, respect your husband and he will cherish you, this can be called honor by some, but it all boils down to true and absolute respect.

If you want your husband to worship you and do whatever you ask, respect him, if possibly honor him if I am to borrow op's words. Stop dragging headship with your man, you are wonderfully made as a woman, you women are the flower of life, maintain your feminity, don't try to be a man.


As a man, whether you are living in Washington DC, London, Sydney, Cape Town, Seoul, Tokyo, Kingston or Casablanca, please if you want to enjoy your marriage and enjoy that natural respect from your wife, you must be ready to be the provider (financially, materially and otherwise). Don't copy western culture of sharing financial responsibilities 50-50 with your wife, if you do so, whatever you see in that marriage, take it and do not complain.


Women naturally are not created to provide, so in all your prayers as a man, always pray to God to keep you financially buoyant enough to take care of your family and manly responsibilities.


If your wife must come in, let it be partial contribution, don't mind all these small boys looking for a woman to cater for them, if you are a man, act like a man, provide for your family solely and let your wife assist when necessary and where necessary but don't ever share financial responsibilities equally with your wife if you want to enjoy your marriage. Take your eyes off from your wife's income.



Dear ladies, cheating is beyond every sexually active man's control. It is not as easy to control by men as it is for you ladies.

It is a natural fault. It is a natural flaw that only God understands. Don't divorce a good husband just because he cheated, don't judge a good man by his lack of sexual control, only the God that created him can judge him because he alone understands the battle he is facing in that aspect.

You get brain no be small

Emekajacob:
Boss man, so I should buy coins a big??

Lolz. So you won follow this mumu man advise.

Everything he said is nonsense.

I have once paid bribe to fly a drone on this very bridge. They told me and my crew exactly the same. We were desperate 'cos we needed the footage the following day for a film/documentary. They frustrated the hell out of us that day. We had to part away with 5k.

EreluRoz:
Right path?

Yes, right path.

The less time you spend in church, the freer you become, the more reasonable and pragmatic you become. Your overall outlook on life becomes excellent.

Trust me, I'm speaking from experience. Its the story of my life.

If we have to rate them by church goers, then Naija is surely number 1.

EreluRoz:
I used to be a staunch church goer but gradually lost interest and always find one excuse or the other not to attend church service.

I actually lost interest when a certain young pastor was on my neck to date him, so it got to a point I had to stop attending service and ever since I've not been able to pick up.

How do I reawaken the zeal?

You are on the right pathway to eternal freedom.

Congratulations

Seun:
Congratulations. You really scored. Wishing you a happy married life. Be sure to enrol your children in basketball classes.

Just curious, our oga Seun.

Are you married?

Do you have kids?

Are you heterosexual, bisexual or gay?

Laughable.

This guy get mind.

But I no blame am. Wetin give am mind na him paddy wey escape after bribing the soldiers wey on duty.

I use Binance to buy and sell small small amounts of crypto. I know people use this platform to launder money big time.

You will see P2P traders who only buy USDT, they never sell, they only buy. And some of them, the minimum they buy is 20m worth of USDT.

If you now look further, you will see their trading volume is very high. Many of them having 20,000 trades and above, buying 20m, 30m worth of crypto at a go, storing up millions of dollars every fvcking day.

Binance has done more harm.

Lolz

NoahHadNoArk:
Seen, Bless

I wouldn’t claim or lie when it comes to hunger otherwise I will starve to death

Thanks again, you’ve given me bfast this morning.

For resorting to help me, a complete stranger out of nothing and in the midst of my hopelessness, I am forever indebted to you.

Thank you too bro.

Blessings always.

AyobamiOluwole:
Thanks for your honest opinion. But Bro, you're forgetting she told me she is coming to my place for something like that. Why not see from that perspective too.

I really bleeped up sending her out at that time of the night. But I felt that was the only way to teach her a lesson. 😔

Don't be too hard on yourself dear brother.

Sending her out at that time of the night and that moment was very good.

She knew what she came for and yet decided to play with your mind.

If you guys eventually settle, turn her to your sex machine.

People don use this Makoko cash out o.

Na new update be that. Go to Makoko, make videos of yourself with poor kids, send mail to people around the world telling them how you want to help them, some of this oyinbo people might even come and see them seff and na you go be the tour guard just like Shanks...Open Domicilary account and collect dollars.

People have raised and stolen millions of dollars with Makoko. EFCC needs to do investigation.

This is what I think people are doing. Makoko this, Makoko that. Na only Makoko dey this world?

gift2xl:
As a young dude or woman who continuously and purposely sleeps with married women or men, eventually they get married and your wife or husband becomes faithful. Don't forget the two shall become one immediately they are married. That evil seed you've sow will come back possessing that faithful of yours to misbehave, it might not be at the start but as time progresses. You think the earth is yours abi. No man or woman challenges God's divine order and go free. Go read his divine order on marriage then you advise yourself because no matter how intelligent you are, PhD etc. "you cant give account of the numbers of hair's on your body mortal"

You lost it the moment you mentioned God.

All these religious people seff.

Don't ever quote me again, you hear?

gift2xl:
What am certain is that, dude if your fvcking someone's wife be prepared they will fvck your wife.
Young ladies, you that's sleeping around with another woman's husband saying it's enjoyment and he takes good care of me.
When you marry, that's the same measure you will receive.
Better flee alway from this evil sowing because it comes back.

You talk like a primary 1 pupil.

So you believe in that bitch called karma? lolz. Life doesnt work that way. Karma doesn't exist.

You might never ever cheat on your wife and someone will fvck her brains out. And you might be fvcking someone's wife while your wife will remain faithful.

Life is not mathematics, you cannot calculate its workings.

Two mad people.

Wait o, I want to ask one question. Can we refer to these two mad men as celebrities? If yes, then we are all mad in this country.

Only if the North can be cut off....Only, just only if

Okay

CodeTemplar:
Audio killing with no pictures. They can prove me wrong though.

No be police kill am. Na civilian. Civilian no get time

Give the farmers AK 47 welding soldiers to guard their farms and leave the rest.

Muhammed Ali?

Wrestling?

My brain is not braining please.

komzy589:
Oga, you’re a simp. Trust me, even your wife will certainly see you like that.

Lolz. It is people like you who end up being a simp by trying not to be a simp.

You try so hard not to be a simp and then you become a toxic person, and then your wife returns the same or even double of the toxicity back to you, and you come online to cry.

Fool!

children of perdition will hate this

Children of perdition will hate this.

AreaFada2:
Dude, as a guy, you love your mum or sisters because they are your blood. Not because they are any better than any other women out there. That applies to every guy.

When it comes to a lady you want to live your life with, that's different. There's no automatic transfer of that love.

You mum and your sisters will not "paternity fraud" you. My relative whose all three kids were not his, his mum and sister didn't "defraud" him with paternity but the wife he loved did.

Dude remove sentiments and see the light.

If under forensic exam a woman checks out fine, great, Treat her great.

But don't be "blauaeugig (naïve)" like my late relative and many other men I have seen.

Men have to know this first. Otherwise you may not get to know until decades later. Too late.

Not saying there no bad women out there.

There are as many bad women as there are men. For every woman who fvcks around, there are two men who fvcks ten times more, beat their wives, get home drunk, gamble, smoke and engage in stupid activities.

Now tell me, should women because of these stupid men come to Nairaland and call all men useless and stupid?

Delightsome2023:
shut up simp.
Change your gender to a female and stop disguising.
For your information I'm in my late 30's married with kids

You are the real simp who thinks with his anus and that is why your marriage is so horrible and miserable. And now you think your wife, sisters and mother are of full of sh1t.

Sit down and think through your life. You trying hard not to be a simp and flexing your mumu muscle over your wife has turned her to a hoe who fvck around. Now you think everyone is like your wife.

Meanwhile it is people like you who pushed your wife with your gutter mouth, talking sh1t to her everyday. She has become the beast and olosho you made her to be and now you are pained.

You this goat

sheDD:
but these kids live in the society
They see the despicable things most women do on daily basis. No too blame them wen dey call women names
They see things too

Have u worked or sleep in an hotel 4 days before??

The both gender do despicable things.

In fact men are worse. I know wetin me seff dey do

The lot of Nairalanders will not understand or value this post. There are too many kids in their twenties on this forum. They come here to talk sh1t about women as though they don't have mothers, sister or aunties. They say only a fool gets married and everywoman is olosho. They call good men simps etc.

I laugh when I see people come to Nairaland to seek marital advise. These kids will call your wife olosho and tell you to send her packing just because there is a little misunderstanding between you two.

Many of them are actually the real simps offline. They only come here to talk rubbish and go behind to do hurrible things for and with women

Seun needs to do something about it fast.

@OP, thanks for this post. As a married man, I find it helpful.

Creamypie:
I wonder how these adult film actors feel when they are with their families

One of the reasons they commit suicide.

A total disappointment to the entre family.

Lolz