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Thanks evryone for your contributions.

   She said the left the house because of the way do treat her.She said "I prefare sleeping in the street than going back to her".According to her the woman promised her parent that she would send her to school which she never did.Infact she said she has not attended any school since she got to th UK.
 
    I collected the woman number and witheld my number to call her but she never picked her call so I left a message that I need to speak to her concerning a girl I met and I promised to call back.But the girl called me back few mins after that the woman called her that she shouldnt give anyone her number and if she needs her parents' number she should go to Nigeria!That was when I realised the woman is not ready to help.
   
   I think the best thing to do is to report to the social services because the law here is a bit rigid.I didnt really want to involve myself in something that might put me in trouble but she still sleeps in the park and winter is arround the corner.

Alright then.Thanks alot.I appreciate that.

I'm planning to call her tonight maybe she should threaten the woman that she might report to the police and lets see what will come out of that.

She knows where she lives and her phone number so I asked her to call the woman and apologise so she can use that means to get her parents phone numbers but she warned her never to come or call her again.If she has to report to the police the woman in question wil be in trouble 'cause she brought the girl here when she was a child (14) so she was innocent.
  The girl is from Ijebu Ode in Ogun State.She actually gave me her dad's name but I don't want to mention it here for confidentiality reasons.
  Even if the British authority has to deport her she has no home because she doesnt know where exactly her dad stays and she knows nothing about her mum.
  She called me few minutes ago to tell me the woman told her she loss the phone numbers,that if she really needs her dad's number she should go to Nigeria!You can imagine that statement.

19 Year Old Nigerian Girl Looking for Her Parents. What can I do to help her?

I was in my place of work one faithful morning when a 19 year old girl came into the office crying over her lost property.

According to her she was brought to UK when she was 14 years old by a woman to work as a house-help. She said the woman do maltreat her and she has to run out of the house which made her to start sleeping in the park where I work. She do keep her luggage in the bush near the park each time she wants to sleep but this very day she got to the normal place where she kept her things and couldnt find it so she has to come to the park office to complain.

When she mentioned her name I realised she is a Nigerian and I inteviewed her. I realised from the interview that her parents separated when she was 9 years old so she knew nothing about her mum and they brought her to UK to be a house-maid.I think the woman actually used her daughter's passport for her to enter the UK so she has no passport on her and she has no place to live and the woman told her never to come to her house again.

The problem now is that she has loss contact with her parents and she does not even know where they are in Nigeria she only knows her dad's name. They both got no mobile phone when she was coming to UK so there's no way she could contact them.

So I don't know how to help the girl.Is it possible to place an announcement from here stating her dad's name on radio or tv or do we need to contact the police. I'm really confuse because she's too young for what she's passing through now and as an house-maid she has no one in the UK. And I can't imagine how life will be like if winter comes because she's homeless or I should not indulge myself in her case?

Someone should help me out here. Please!

Greatpeter if you can send it through post I wont mind or you can make it a special delivery for security reasons.
But I still cant believe you.

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Kissing? what if the person you kissed is an epileptic patient unknowingly to you.

@Greatpeter

 haaaa your idea is a bit funny...so u want to tell me u've not kissed  before or what..well to say the fact epileptic seizure is not contagious and u cant contact it  through kissing...it only has something to do with the brain nothing more so I dont know where u got ur theorem....

Greatpeter:
First kiss? No My parents intructed me not to kiss so I'm still obedient to the instruction.

haabbaa Greatpeter why not be serious.Just tell us how it was instead of being the good man here..its no big deal.I'm waiting for ur reply.

hmmm...my first kiss??It happened when I was 17,I could remember I ran out of the scene immediately..but now....no I wont finish that!!

Hello Greatpeter.Welcome back!

I think it depends on the type of person the guy is.You may have a male friend and nothing special will come  out of it though in most cases guys will take it to another level but its now left for you to create a sort of boundary.

You can't love two people at the same time,u can care about someone and that doesnt mean u are in love with that person because there's a wide difference between the two.

mosiate:
see anoter gbeborun,(aunty sade)i tell you say i know get mouth to am, if i know tell am why you know kuku help,since you self the chof for buka like aun and jogego(husband and wife) why you no go pokenose.(i'm just kidding)

Why wont I gbeborun at least na my korokoro eyes I take see una..anyway sha I've assured you say Jogego is for you lojokojo.

bolasho:
Mosiate, anu, sade & jogego na wetin self na chop we dey chop for this thread no bi love or na fight make i call wetin una dey do now self.

No mind us jare we just dey pull legs for here...habba why we go dey fight..for wetin..as for me sha I can only fight for the sake of food nothing more

[/quote]aunty sade abi wetin dem call you sef you come hia kon dey talk wetin you no know abi... who tell you say jogego is for mosiate ehn Ameboooo
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Ok sorry o.I never knew he is for you as well.Are you fighting for your own interest or what abeggggiii my sister talk straight o..so I will understand or you won speak in parable..infact I tire for una here....
 

J...o..g..e..g..o.... are you there.?.E be like say they won crucify me for this forum o.But trust me I refuse to be crucified.

@ Mosiate
Why not kuku tell jogego u are in love with him...why una they beef una self now..pls take it easy enh.No one will take Jogego away from you.

I eat in Buka though its been long now but I dont see it as an embarrassment..Okro and Vegetable goes if its well prepared and u will enjoy it most with hot Eba that's not too hard..

jogego:
oya Sade explain with immediate alacrity why men eat fufu...

Jogegeo I must confess I dont know why...I too still wonder why cos I remember most of my male friends like fufu alot and I dont know the actual reason...maybe becos it stays inside the stomach for long..someone once called it "Sokudale"i.e it postpone death till night...am I right??U are a man now so plssssss explain why you men eat fufu..I'm waiting for your answer"with immediate alacrity"...

Ohhhh,how come I forgot that self..how person go dey pose for ths kin thing....it is a serious matter u know especially when the stew is thick and not watery with slight pepper...have you ever imagine ewa aganyin with hot bread..ohhh goodness!!!I remember during my IT,I eat ewa aganyin every morning with hot bread even though my Manager said we shouldnt eat the bread,but I and my colleague will still take one hot bread cos we know the Elewa Aganyin will always come knocking..it...is...delicious!!!
But one food I dont go for is FufuI'm sure men do eat it alot.....

Too long courtship might be boring at times because even when you court for 100 years you can't be sure you know everything about your partner. There are some things about your partner you'll get to know even after the wedding so I don't really see any sense in long courtship. Being in courtship for long might be due to some circumstances, but I think two years is not that bad.

I leave the rest to Nairaland members.

Just 3 will be okay.

All the thing wey I dey read for here just make my mouth dey water..Jogego and co abeggii take am easy o cos pple they salivate even on the net.....
All these made me to remember when I was still at the university..OAU precisely..there's was this woman called Iya/Mama Egi at Old Buka...we do queue on the line just to eat her iyan..hot one I mean and which ever soup you like..egusi..abula..just name it..I cant to without remembering "Iyan Phamacy" as well.And to crown it all there is this Buka at Mayfair.,,Mama Shola..where I used to eat Iyan and "Orisirisi"..it was fun while in school..I feel like boarding the plane now,cos all these grind rice of a thing don tire me self...
Home sweet home!!!!!!!!!!

Pkrix and Mamba..sorry its not the guy alone.If you read it properly you'll realise I'm not one sided...so don't be scared.U wont do evrything alone if you hv a girl that is romantic.