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RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 8:51am On May 04, 2017
Exactly. Sometimes when you argue with men like this,
They just can't comprehend facts. Dont waste your time love grin cheesy
geekybabe:
Sexual irresponsibility is shameful to evry human being. Man or woman.
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 8:45am On May 04, 2017
Alright. So can i ask you a question. Do you consider yourself to be a man who has had a sexual history with many women?

ISTANDWITHBUHAR:
The bold remind of pastor Suleiman and what happen? people are still respecting him maybe because he is a pastor.. Let's call a spade a spade, I have seen lots of gigolo guys that later get married to women with substance..

People can easily forget about the past of the man sexuality life but the woman am sorry it will be hard even are friend will be mocking her behind her back..

If i have ever slept with lady and i can count more than 5 guys who have done same, if my enemy i mean want to marry i swear he won't because we will frustrate him by describing every part of her body to him..

But in a man's case, The best the lady will do is say you guys should go a test and that's the end of the story or you expect a lady have been dating for 5yrs and planing to get married later get to know about my past life before i met her and call off the marriage?
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 8:33am On May 04, 2017
Looool

At this point you're just saying a whole bunch of nothing.

Bye for now grin grin
MrsPhysics:
Alright, let me talk about the bold sentence one after the other.

1. Your worth? it's not understood because I am not seeing any worth. It is so audible to the deaf, so visible to the blind the glaring daggers fact that you have no worth. I can't imagine staying with someone of your type. You need to be flogged till your brain reset.

2. Lol, The Nigerian Uneducated Mentality. I have nothing to say, between both of us, I think I am better than you in any way you want to measure it. Oh you are outside Nigeria and anyone in Nigeria is uneducated? lol, your level of ignorance is astonishing.

3. Your mentions? Well, you don't have a life outside Nairaland, that one I am sure of. So you came to Nairaland thinking you will get one, no, you still don't have one.

In law, there is what is called "an imaginary weighing balance", also, no one has seen an atom, yet we know it exists. I must not be close to you to know the kind of life you lead. From everything you have said, we all know how life there is for you. Like someone rightly pointed out, you lacked the basic human training.
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 8:31am On May 04, 2017
Oga, it's not about the public perception of your male friends that matter. Men will always be praised for sleeping around, all for the wrong reasons though. It takes a man of dignity and respect to limit himself sexually. Women are not stupid, and if you have a reputation of sleeping around you will not be perceived well from respectable women. Trust me, you limit your chances of being with a woman of substance. You may still get women who want to marry you, but you are what you attract. It's as simple as that.
ISTANDWITHBUHAR:
LOL you think so and those are the kind of advantage guys have over lady, I can have sex with a lady now and go out telling my guys how i turn her and the kind of mad style i give her.. If she try to do werey for me i go tell her say...



Awa na ti je isu awe ooo ( I have also eaten from her yam oo) Now can you say the same on a guy? Can you go out and say i have Bleep those 3 guys ooo will they clap for you?
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 8:20am On May 04, 2017
No I'm not.
Mimzyy:
Waoh MakyDebbie??
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 8:10am On May 04, 2017
Its very hard to ignore lol,
IamAirforce1:
Sofiaa
We might have had problems in the past, but permit me to advice you not to reply every mentions you get.

Iay not be worthy enough to give you this advice.
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 8:08am On May 04, 2017
You're indirectly insulting me, claiming that i'm 'loose' . You don't assume what you don't know without facts. It's very silly and uncalled for. I will always defend myself no matter what. I apologise if i insulted you, but be wise when expressing yourself.
mrphysics:
Coming from a 22 year old girl to an unknown person on the internet is unacceptable. You don't insult people anyone. You need to guard your words, maturity entails expressing yourself without insults.

Grow up girl
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f):
Excuse me oga, You cannot sit there and type what you don't know. I know my worth as a woman, and you dare not tell me otherwise is that understood? As a so called man, you don't look for non factual claims to counter someones post. It doesn't make sense, you either speak with facts or you shut up.

Its quite ironic that you bring 'being myopic' into this equation. What is myopic is that fact that a 'man' like yourself believes that every relationship must consist of sex. Your myopic if you think every relationship must be for at least a year. I don't blame you, it's the nigerian uneducated mentality you have. Step outside of nigeria, and maybe your thoughts may change. I can give you the definiton of a relationship if you need clarification. Your argument is weak and they're not based on facts. All based on assumptions which makes them INVALID. Sorry baba.

I know who i am, and i know my worth as a woman.
No scum on this website, will try to modify my thoughts on myself. Like i said, get a grip old man, and stop spewing trash in my mentions. The fact that you really think you possess some sort of intelligence, is comical.
Grow up.
mrphysics:
Sister, I am not a kid like you. A hit and run relationship like yours lasts for 5 months. I was thinking that you are into a serious relationship, but it is now so glaring the kind of girl you are.

Claiming all the four relationship you have been to were all devoid of sex is a lie both of us know. The host of Nairaland guys and ladies here knows it is a lie. Everyone isn't myopic, accept it, you made a mistake of informing us of how you have been bleeped by four men.

There is this trademark that your name comes with on Nairaland, and you still justify that. I am not good in all these, I only try to make analysis and draw inference from them. Most times I am always right just as I am.

Except you are a gold digger, those relationships lasted for more than a year, and for each of them, you have been bleeped and dumped. You need a mental sanitation, the baptism of your whole being is necessary at this stage. Stop moving forward because you are moving full circle backwards, by building yourself with all these self-made laws and successes is just a pure waste of time. At the end, work done = zero, effort wasted. You should cleanse yourself first before you come and redefine who a woman of substance and value is.

Thanks
Miss Safia.
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 7:33am On May 04, 2017
The funniest thing is that you're making assumptions.
You don't know anything, yet you think you know everything. I've been in 4 relationship, i own that shhit and i'm not denying it. But how can you tell me how long each of my relationships lasted based off your own limited analysis. I'm not here to explain myself to you but a relationship could last for 5 months, 2months, 3 months or 1 year. An average relationship only lasts 2 years from your own narrow perspective. Get a grip.

How are you sure that I've had sex with all of these 4 guys that I've been in a 'so called' relationship with. Oga please apply sense, and stop writing nonsense assuming their facts. It's very immature and uncalled for. Check yourself and grow up.
mrphysics:
I just visited the thread and behold they were right. you said you are 22, and have been in 4 relationships all your life. Please permit me to make some analysis on that. An average relationship without sex lasts for 2 years, one with sex might last more but let us assume it lasts for 1 year. It implies therefore that since you have heard sex with them (the connection) you spoke about, then you must have spent 8 years dating. 22-8 = 14. You were into a serious relationship at age 14.

Let's say there were all without sex, on similar calculation, you started dating at age 15 because, you don't automatically jump from one relationship to another, you must give yourself about six months. Girl, so sorry to conclude that you are not what you preach to be. Yet you come here insulting people that disagree with you.

The way and manner you talk to people counts too. At age 22, being in four relationship, a lot have been THROUGH you, you must have had it enough. So sorry.
I made my point without insult, please don't insult me ooo
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 1:01am On May 04, 2017
I'm sorry, but i just can't believe that.

You can't tell me that a man who has slept with 30 women will be acceptable to me, personally . A lot of women would not be comfortable with that, and would probably link it to womanising/ cheating etc. Questions will constantly run through her head, trust me. A woman of substance would care. Regardless of his success. You're looking at it from a very narrow point of view.
OlaoChi:
I used wizkid for an example with the intention to make you get it easier.

Generally speaking, women dont care about the Sexual history of men, they are ok with the assuring thought that he can be faithful with them

Men on the other hand tend to be bothered with the thought that other men have had sex with this woman they love


Therefore it is generally easier for a man with a long history of Sexual escapades to get a good spouse than a woman with the same life style


It is the reality of our world following the law of demand and supply
RomanceRe: Ladies, Be Proud Of Your Bodycount! by Safiaa(op): 12:16am On May 04, 2017
Kkkkkkk
1234IKECHhukwu:
U must be crazy 4 telling ur father to shut up,this is ur exact words.
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 12:10am On May 04, 2017
Why are you trying to compare this to wizkid? This a basic logic for normal basic men. But however, if you want to attract women who are simply after your money and fame, then there will be millions out there, of course. Attracting a woman of substance and of a certain caliber won't be as easy for wizkid. Trust me! Don't be fooled. Why do you think most of these successful/playboy men get married at such a late age.
Good women dont come easy.
OlaoChi:
Women don't care about all that, men do. In this world supply flows with demand.


For instance; Wizkid will still get millions of girls ready to marry him despite having 2 kids outside marriage already because he is successful, a woman like that cannot attract any man to marriage
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 12:02am On May 04, 2017
Please, shut up. Pleaseee. Let me direct you to the link so you can use the eye's that God gave you

https://www.nairaland.com/3676285/ladies-proud-bodycount/2#54485772.

1234IKECHhukwu:
but u just admitted that at ur young age of 22 that u have had 4 relships & some side guys that bedded u b/cos u guys clicked, when u told ladies to be proud of their body count,on the other thread.
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 11:40pm On May 03, 2017
Unfortunately, you're very stupid. You can't try to modify and twist my words, it won't work nigga. Get a life, and pull your brain out your asshole. Cow!
Incline:
grin
RomanceRe: Here Are Screenshots That %99 Of Girls Are Liars, Pretenders And Hypocrites by Safiaa(f): 11:35pm On May 03, 2017
grin
Dionnetech:
Great,How was ur day?
Any happenings thread give me mention make i no miss kiss
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 11:33pm On May 03, 2017
If you cannot show me proof or receipts that I've had multiple sex partners, please shut the hell up. Understood?
Incline:
Can't believe Safiaa and Pocahontas who aren't virgins, have had multiple sex partners are talking. All these ashewos for NL go come here say they agree with him, smdh. grin grin
RomanceRe: Here Are Screenshots That %99 Of Girls Are Liars, Pretenders And Hypocrites by Safiaa(f): 11:30pm On May 03, 2017
Im fantastic.
Dionnetech:
Am fine and you?
How was ur day??
RomanceRe: Here Are Screenshots That %99 Of Girls Are Liars, Pretenders And Hypocrites by Safiaa(f): 11:29pm On May 03, 2017
What did I do lol?
luminouz:
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RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 11:29pm On May 03, 2017
You're welcome.
KingEbukasBlog:
Good point .

Thanks for pointing it out .
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 11:21pm On May 03, 2017
That's all i have to say.
smellingmenses:
tell us more......................................................
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 11:16pm On May 03, 2017
Nah you're completely wrong. The only woman that would feel some sort of pride in her husband choosing her, after multiple sex partners is an INSECURE girl. A girl who doesn't value herself.
Trust and believe that.
KingEbukasBlog:
This is so true . Imagine mocking a man by telling that you have smashed his wife . cry . Or his friends telling him . undecided . You gona bruise the poor guy's ego .

But for some reason this does not really apply to the man with the way women think . Women have a really funny way of thinking . A woman would be glad that her husband chose her out of the numerous women he has slept with . She'd feel proud that lots of women desired and wanted to sleep with her husband in the past . She'd feel special that she 'won' while the other hoes 'lost' .

Women sha grin
RomanceRe: Here Are Screenshots That %99 Of Girls Are Liars, Pretenders And Hypocrites by Safiaa(f): 11:11pm On May 03, 2017
Dionnetech:
mama the mama

I hail you
Lmao. How are you?
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 11:06pm On May 03, 2017
smiley smiley
RomanceRe: Ladies, When You Sleep Around You Strip Your Future Husband Off Respect - Omokri by Safiaa(f): 10:44pm On May 03, 2017
This is what i dont understand about all these so called relationship advisers.

You cannot advise women to be limited sexually and not express the same attitude towards men. We have 'husband material' too. Men who respect themselves and don't stick their penis inside every hole. Free from baby mamas and carry themselves in a classy respectable manner. If you want to attract the best type of woman you can, you should work on yourself as a man too. Classy responsible women dont accept ashewo men as husbands. Simple. We can see that in banky w's case smiley
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 10:36pm On May 03, 2017
Like honestly I'm just so confused undecided. I will just continue to watch these people.
optional1:
babe don't mind them jor...


You can never be maky... You guys don't even communicate same way not to talk of having same behaviour.. Keep having your fun haters will keep hating no matter what.....
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 10:35pm On May 03, 2017
Please spill it please undecided.
comradespade:
I know who alesandese is cheesy

and pls, STOP PLAYING VICTIM cus she spilled more than what you think of
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 10:34pm On May 03, 2017
This is the reason why i just cannot talk to unreasonable people offline. Too many immature people taking unnecessary screenshots for nothing. Im out of this thread.
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 10:30pm On May 03, 2017
Okay? So what does that have to do with me?
comradespade:
MAKYDEBBIE, MAKYDEE, MZPURITY angry
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 10:23pm On May 03, 2017
Good boy.
TrapHedges:
k
RomanceRe: True Or False Game by Safiaa(f): 10:22pm On May 03, 2017
People can be so annoying on this site jeez. Oluwa jowo ran awon wonyi be eniyan. Nonsense.

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