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Family / Re: by Sagaman: 8:01pm On Nov 08, 2011 |
chaircover: So we are suppose to be "grateful" she delayed cleaning up what she did not work for? Giving you "chances" before she takes abi? Na fooool dey marry any woman without prenup when living in the West. At least white girl no fit know about your mansion and estates in Port Harcourt, Johannesburg and Kumasi. Get a prenup. Period! N101: What reactions don't you get? dayokanu: They have been brought up to think it is a way to show 'chastity'. Another reason is some just are drunk at what they perceive as "power". "Basically, I am attractive and you came to me, so I must embarass you as it makes my head high". Then if they are unfortunate to not be married and that attractive goes (as it normally rapidly goes due to our Nigerian foods), then they start going to church looking for their "own husband". Here is an example of the power drunk ones: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-745617.32.html#msg9030209 dayokanu: Hmm! I can't say too much about this one on most black women. Some girls don't know the power of a smile on a woman's face. They have such a disturbed face most times and they wonder why people are not coming up to help them carry load. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=dlattach;id=564685;type=avatar ronkebp: I speak for only UK and Naija black women. I know not much about America. My experience of America was too good when I was in Atlanta. It was at the airport hot black girls were saying "Hi" to me, when they passed me and I was slightly checking them out. I swear I almost tripped and fell over as I was confused because I was coming from London where the attitude on average is horrible. https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-554294.32.html#msg7185101 When I went to France for work once. I went out on my own to see if I can feel the club scene and because these yeye French people only go out to dinners and don't do clubs much, there was limited options. They just go out for a wine with friends and sit and chat, so it is hard to really mix as people are out with who they know. I ended up at a bar. I saw 2 black girls sitting and chatting away, so I went up to them and started with my usual clarification "Non francais, do you speak English". They replied, "a little". So I asked them if it is OK to sit with them that I am from London. They said "yeah" and we ended up chatting with "their little" English all night before I went back to my hotel alone. Their origins were from Mauritania and Comoros. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 10:56am On Nov 08, 2011 |
stillwater: I am not quiet. I am not loud. It all depends on a mixture of my mood, the place/event and the person I am about to communicate with. On some occassions, I can be pensive, assertive and confident. On other occassions, I can be jovial, warm and confident. Whatever the case, you will know this guy is confident. My friend was laughing because HE KNEW she was going to get it considering the shock horror on my face. He was already laughing because he KNEW it was going to go into the collections of stories he was going to tell people. I first stared at the girl for about 5 seconds with share amazement all over my face before I said "Are you silly?". chaircover: Let me tell you another story about a Jamo girl. This was back when we were in 1st year in Uni. Went to a club with 3 friends, and since we were young ordinary Joes off the street, we took the tube and bus there, queued outside until the all powerful bouncers let us in. We were obviously going to take the night bus back home after club. Wetin we get? Student grant? When inside the club, one of my friends approached a Jamo girl and was trying to initiate a conversation and said "Hi". She looked him up and down like he was some UTTER piece of shyt and said: "When you get a job, a house and a car, come back and try your luck". I must confess when he told us, we bawled out laughing. It is still something we laugh to in my circle today. But that was really cold. Now the guy has a great job and is able to afford things, he is with a white girl. The ones that gave him a chance when he had nothing in his youth. Let the mooron stick to her fast-money, prison, serial father yardie men or creidt-card Naija boyz of back in the day, that have no stability and security to offer today. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Man Bite Snake To Escape Being Swallowed by Sagaman: 10:36am On Nov 08, 2011 |
ekt_bear: Make im go zoo, go enter lion cage and make his statement. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 10:01pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
Another case. This one Jamo. I was on Old Kent Road with a friend and he said he was hungry and wanted to eat Carribean food. I am not too familiar with Old Kent Road but felt there should at least be one Carribean restaurant on the busy stretch of the road, so we walked one way and did not find anything. We started walking the other way and I saw a Jamo girl (with a Jamo T-shirt) on the way. And I asked politely "Excuse me, please do you know if their is a Carribean restuarant furtherdown this road". She looked at me up and down with cold eyes and said nothing. Me and my friend were plainly shocked. We looked at each other and he started laughing because he has been telling me about black girls since. He is one of the guys I went to the event I said earlier. I turned to the girl and said: "Are you silly?". She looked at me in shock and wanted to say something. I said gently "Shut up! All I asked you was a simple question about directions. You thought I was trying to chat you up? You think you are in my class? You think that is grounds for you to be rude? Ghetto ediot!" My friend was just bawling laughing because he knew how pissed I was and he knew she would get it with her rudeness. We just walked away while she was standing there dazed and embarassed as she was not expecting that. When we found nothing and were turning around, she was coming back and saw us at the moment we were looking at the shop signs. So it was obvious to her, we were really looking for a restaurant. I just looked at her and made a resigned gesture with my mouth and shook my head a bit and walked past her. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 9:44pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
maclatunji: So because of because, she is entitled to lack courtesy and it is acceptable? But you think as a man, I am suppose to bow and smile at every opportunity to the same women's whims before I become "a real man"? As for my friend, I support his attitude. If I look your way once or twice to see opportunity of showing we recognise our similar backgrounds but you choose to look away like if you do not want to be bothered, I will respect myself and not bother you. It men like you with your silly acceptance of rubbish that is feulling the poorly behaved women we are seeing in our community. Any excuse is acceptable and all praise should be hipped on women irrespective of worthiness o justification all because of your lame desire to get their affirmation. Maybe you should wonder why when the same Nigerian women cross over 30 and are not married, they are friendlier generally and behave like sane people. All of a sudden, they know what polite is and how to relate reasonably. Stop giving me dense excuses. It is best Naija girls learn how to be respectful and ladylike. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 9:30pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
ronkebp: Go to Google now and make sure the parent company is not L'Oreal. chaircover: Read my posts very well. I never said all. I said most. I am telling you, we have a CRISIS in regards to the behaviour of most Naija girls. Our elders call is KIRIRICEE! Utter crisis. At least, you, can see the problem with basic courtesy in that respect. You think I will ever com across those girls and they will say "Hi" and I would greet them warmly? You having a laugh? I would politely say I don't remember them and just excuse myself graciously after they grample for a while to remind me. Yes, people can be shy but I wonder why rudeness, classlessness and uppity are mostly with Naija girls. I meet girls of other nations - South Africa, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Uganda, Zambia, Somalia, Ethiopia, Tanzania etc and these issues RARELY ever occurs. They are polite and friendly even if they do not have the slightest interest in a guy. And believe me, if they do have interest in a man, it will not be a case of (like Naija girls) 100% his responsibility to make a relationship happen. It will be something like 70:30. While Naija girls will sit and say, "he should wash my yansh before I know he likes me". There are nice Naija girls, but the volumes of shythead Naija girls are spoiling it for them. Why will a man bother to go and associate with a group A where the odds of good personality is low when he can put all his effort in Group B where the odds of good personality is tremendous? Our elders will say: o de le koyin si buruku ko wo waju si rere. (You can back the evil people not to see them, and face the good people so you can see them) We have a serious crisis in terms of Naija girls' behaviour. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 9:03pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
maclatunji: How do I come across as shallow? Explain to me, maybe I can learn. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 8:30pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
maclatunji: I am not bashing, I am stating the facts. And if the facts are painful, then they are painful. If you know me well, then you will know all that "nubian" pokolo no matter to me. I don't do nationalism, ethnicism or nubianism. I say it as it is. I am not Siena. I am Sagamite. I prefer objectivity to being liked. ronkebp: So you see nothing wrong with being at an event with few people and you chat with some people specifically for 3 hours and then you just get up and leave? You see nothing wrong with that? You see nothing wrong with notifying that you are going, you just disappear? You don't see any issues with courtesy with that? But you think something is wrong a stranger does not come and carry your load for you? Why? "Because you are worth it"? AHH! Ronke . . . . . .Ronke . . . . .Ronke, ma lo L'Oreal make-up moooor. Try Avon, Estee Lauder ati Lancome. (Ronke, no use L'Oreal make-up anymore. Try Avon, Estee Lauder and Lancome) JeSoul: I will continue Olopaing out. I deal with people at the level they deserve to be dealt at. Look at me on NL, the rude girls, I deal with rudely. The nice girls, I am sweet to. Most Naija girls are rude and not nice. I try to convince myself it is not the case, but experience tells me to shut up and accept. I used to be the one defending them when my friends started saying it back in the day. I really can't dare doing such now. They were right, I was wrong. My humble pie is huge. West African and Jamo girls? . . . . . .Pity! |
Politics / Re: Only Prayers Can Sustain A Nation - GEJ by Sagaman: 7:54pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
naijababe: ronkebp: Sweetie, I have been saying it well before the election that this man is slow, uninspiring and embarassing, and he has not proved me wrong. Just from the few clips I have seen of him, I can tell easily. It is not harsh at all, it is apt. Here is someone I compared him with back then: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-638748.288.html#msg8084616 https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-638748.288.html#msg8084701 Guess what, the person I judged was fantastic is the same person I saw last month that the Republicans were begging to lead them against Obama. When I judge someone to be a fooool, I am hardly wrong. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 7:40pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
JeSoul: I will not lie to you. I will be blunt and honest. If I saw a Nigerian girl in such a situation, that I don't know and I have never interacted with and she is not obviously older (married with kids etc), I will not go out of my way to help. I will walk past. If it is some Indian girl, I will do the same. If it is a white or other Non-West African girl, I would help. I would do it, smile at her thank yous, say "my pleasure" and walk away. I am not by any means ashamed or bothered to say that. In terms of some type of girls (mainly Naija), chivalry is really dead on my side. It was beheaded in cold blood and dumbed in the river. And rightly so! The manners and qualities of Naija girls does not merit any Chivalry. Anyone not happy with the statement can go and by that rope and tell them to put it on my credit tab. Let me give you just some few examples why I am happy for Chivalry to be dead with most Naija girls: I have a friend that lives on the same street with a Naija girl. He sees her virtually every morning and they get on the same bus and then tube/train. Guess what? Guess the worst bit of it all. They are going to the same destination (as in, the SAME building). When he told me, I said, "how come you guys don't say hi". He said, anytime he looks her way, she just looks away and like if he does not exist, so he respects himself and does not disturb her or invade her privacy. So when she walks past him in the area, he walks past her quietly. Another one: I went to an event with 2 of my friends a few months back. These my friends STRICTLY do not date black girls (especially Naija girls), the worst I have seen of them in the last 7 years is probably mixed race. And I am talking of 1 occassion only (Half Scottish, Half Kenyan). When we got to the event, where we sat, to be friendly, we greeted people and started mixing up. Where we sat, there were 2 Naija girls there and, incidentally, we started just general chat with them as it was a kiddies party and there were few adults. It was strictly platonic chats, no making moves, just adults having a conversation about anything and everything. The Naija girls were friendly and we got along as we were laughing at some of the things and happenings at the party and there was no friction as it was obvious we were not trying to toast. When we went to get food an drinks, we asked them what they wanted and we brought it for them. After about 3 hours, I saw these girls saying goodbye to the people organising the party and getting in their car and going home. They never even bothered to say goodbye or anything to us. These are adults (in their 20s) we were chatting like friends we have known for years with for about 3 hours and laughing at everything? My friends just started laughing in shock and reminded me what they have been telling me about Nigerian girls for years. Most are absolutely classless girls. These are just examples. I see shytloads of bad behaviours from Naija girls that will fill Seun's bandwidth if we start getting into it. I try and take every girl as an individual, but it is rare for a Nigerian girl to not disappoint in manners. ABSOLUTELY RARE! We have a generation of mostly useless girls. Are those the kind of people I would be wasting my chivalry on? Hell no. |
Politics / Re: Only Prayers Can Sustain A Nation - GEJ by Sagaman: 6:57pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
This is the CRETIN Nigerians voted for? All because he is a southerner? This is the CRETIN that will rule the nation for another 3/4 years? AHHHH! A lot of Nigerians deserve whatever happens to them in that country. You voted for a foooooooooooool with the IQ of a Silverback Gorilla. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 12:23pm On Nov 07, 2011 |
stillwater: They don't make them like they used to anymore. And I am not metrosexual, I am He-man, so I don't really like L'Oreal products. |
Family / Re: by Sagaman: 12:02am On Nov 07, 2011 |
Stewpid, moroonic, foolish spambot. ronkebp: Have you thought of it from this angle? "This is the woman that claims to 'love' me and thinks she deserves my 'love'?" Sagamite: I hope you are not one those L'Oreal women ("Because I am worth it", who think everything about a relationship is about them? You think my 'love' is cheap for or free to people that abuse it? |
Sports / Re: My Reasons Why Amodu Should Remain Super Eagles Coach by Sagaman: 7:52am On Jan 29, 2010 |
Eastbay: Mooooron, you are calling me mediocre? LWKMD Even Katsumoto would be the first to tell you that your intelligence is below my feets. Dimwit. I have been reading diligently, waiting for the fooolI pity the foool that would have the guts to mention my name so I can focus my shredding. You seem the most likely candidate as mooorons like McCrackles no their intellectual limits and would take to their heels ASAP. Don't want to use a secondary account for my postings, so I would await the restoration of the privileges under Sagamite. I repeat: Your intelligence is too low when you come my way and I will take the most delightful pleasure in slicing you into shreds. Katsumoto would confirm that as the most likely outcome. |
Romance / Re: Post The Profile/names Of Cute Nairaland Guys.(especially 4 D Ladies) by Sagaman: 2:04am On Jan 28, 2010 |
stillwater: Yeah, he models. Same swagger too. |
Career / Re: Which Are The Top 10 Law Firms In Nigeria? by Sagaman: 7:36pm On Jul 13, 2009 |
No of partners per employee (10%) Aim: To find out the firms that promote lawyers to partner rather than only allowing founders to be partners. Risk (med): It does not take into account performance gradings that can lead to lack of promotion and promotions below partner level at newer firms. Methodology: no strong inclination to overcome risk, top firms should employ top performers anyway. Newer firms means less period to access strength anyway and they are likely to have small staff and have advantage with this rating. Divide the number of legal staff that are non-partners with the number of partners. Remove a penalty point of 0.2 from score for every partner that is a family member, except the individual: 1) Is a Senior Advocate of Nigeria (shows they are qualified to be partners) 2) Has worked in the Magic Circle law firms (UK), White Shoe law firms (USA), Big Six law firms (Australia) or Seven Sisters law firms (Canada) before joining the family firm and has worked at least 8 years before making partner. (no be beans and pancakes to get employed and work for the foreign firms listed) Baseline highest score to 100 (i.e. 10% of overall) and use for calculating the % rest's scores. 1 Like |
Career / Re: Which Are The Top 10 Law Firms In Nigeria? by Sagaman: 7:24pm On Jul 13, 2009 |
No of Big Cases/Deals mandated with (Based on Top 20 civil and commercial cases/deals each year) (15%) Aim: To find out the firms that are chased to handle tough and juicy cases because of their expertise. Risk (low): Deals are based on connections, but connections is part of a firms strength anyway. Methodology: Decide top ten by value of fee income or public awareness (this is subjective) of case Grade 1-20 and award equivalent points to mandated firm. Baseline highest score to 100 (i.e. 15% of overall) and use for calculating the % rest's scores. 1 Like |
Events / Re: Summer Bbq Was A Success! by Sagaman: 7:45am On Jul 13, 2009 |
No2Atheism: Yep, there was just one, me. You no see how I block my face on my profile? TOPE2000!: |
Events / Re: Summer Bbq Was A Success! by Sagaman: 8:26pm On Jul 12, 2009 |
debosky: If you want one like that, dem plenty, just follow that my guy out one night, he is the expert on girls from sub-continent. |
Events / Re: Summer Bbq Was A Success! by Sagaman: 8:13pm On Jul 12, 2009 |
~Sauron~: debosky: |
Events / Re: Summer Bbq Was A Success! by Sagaman: 8:12pm On Jul 12, 2009 |
Busy body: No way, you are mine alone. 5 more kids and then we can call it quits. |
Events / Re: Summer Bbq Was A Success! by Sagaman: 8:05pm On Jul 12, 2009 |
tubabie: It is the bloody sheap (sic) Spam Bot that NL is utilising. It keeps on banning me because of some long analysis I am trying to post on my Top 10 lawyer thread. |
Events / Re: Summer Bbq Was A Success! by Sagaman: 7:57pm On Jul 12, 2009 |
ElRazur: Chei, see you mouth. I want to commit suicide for ever coming to a stage of drawing with you. Next time no playing around using Valencia against you AC Milan. Strictly Chelsea all the way, wey I go use Quaresmo to destroy your defence. The one wey vex me pass na Sauron wey dey Anyway, I was champion on the day. ElRazur: The man wan read every book wey dey earth finish. Na wa for him o. ElRazur: Men, I like to challenge myself. The day wey you satnav no go function that is when you will end up on NTA Channel 7. "Ta lo more omo yi, oruko re ni El razur, o so pe oruka baba o wum ni Alhaji ati iya owun Alhaja. Ko mo ona re mo, oti so nu , " English: "Who knows this child, his name is El razur, he says his father is called Alhaji and his mother Alhaja. He does not know his way home, he is lost, " I even from teenage years avoid using calculators if I can, just for the challenge and the thrill of doing it all through brain work. ElRazur: With the way strangers approach me as well and start blasting Igbo to me anytime I am on holiday in Lagos until I tell them I am not Ibo, you will think my name is Ikenna Ogechiemeka Onyechukwu. ElRazur: God, laugh wan kill me completely. |
Career / Re: Which Are The Top 10 Law Firms In Nigeria? by Sagaman: 11:44am On Jul 12, 2009 |
No of Big Cases/Deals mandated with (Based on Top 20 civil and commercial cases/deals each year) (15%) Aim: To find out the firms that are chased to handle tough and juicy cases because of their expertise. Risk (low): Deals are based on connections, but connections is part of a firms strength anyway. Methodology: Decide top ten by value of fee income or public awareness of case Grade 1-20 and award equivalent points to mandated firm. Baseline highest score to 100 (i.e. 15% of overall) and use for calculating the % rest's scores. 1 Like |
Career / Re: Which Are The Top 10 Law Firms In Nigeria? by Sagaman: 9:08am On Jul 11, 2009 |
Remuneration (special focus on salary at intake and after 5-10 years in practice) (15%) Aim: To find out how well staff are renumerated and that they are not being paid peanuts whilst partners live large. Risk (high): Pay spectrum might be wide for each grade and can't really know what partners earn and it might not be consistent yoy. And I know nothing about Nigerian pay as you will soon see Methodology: to overcome risk, use an average pay scale for each grade. Average pay for new entry > N250K per month = 5 Average pay for new entry > N150K < N250K per month = 4 Average pay for new entry > N100K < N150K per month = 3 Average pay for new entry > N70K < N100K per month = 2 Average pay for new entry > N40K < N70K per month = 1 Average pay for new entry < N40K per month = 0 |
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